We usually think of compassion as it applies to others. But we can— and should— also show compassion to ourselves. Self-compassion means showing compassion towards ourselves when we suffer, fail, or feel inadequate. Self-compassion offers several benefits to mental and physical health. Self-compassionate people recognize when they are suffering and are kind to themselves at these times, which reduces their anxiety and related depression.
离家以前是父母
自己成家了，就是 另外一半 和 孩子
这是 人生的主旋律
其他的 都是 调剂性的，可有可无，可遇而不可求
和你爸妈也有心防？
Self-compassion offers several benefits to mental and physical health. Self-compassionate people recognize when they are suffering and are kind to themselves at these times, which reduces their anxiety and related depression.
你如果有兄弟姐妹，你的家庭收入对兄弟姐妹来讲是天文数字，你敢说吗？不是说一定打你主意，至少会有尴尬
不用想着一辈子不变的朋友和关系，只要想着在人生的不同阶段，都曾有人为你着想，为你付出。一辈子都有朋友，有关系，虽然他们来自不同的人，就可以了。
即使自己成家了 有另外一半有孩子了，父母对我还是至关重要，还有兄弟姐妹，有血缘牵绊的，对我来说 永远不会是可有可无。
凡事没有绝对，家家有本难念的经，可能很多人原生家庭不幸福， 或者兄弟姐妹有狗血矛盾， 不需要大家都一样。
至于朋友，有一些偶尔能谈心事，吐槽，甚至结伴旅游的，遇到困难也会尽力互相帮助，但是没有所谓的闺蜜，没有那种真的无话不谈 且保持 高频率联系的朋友。
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