一个年轻陌生女人的来信

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Spring2025
楼主 (北美华人网)
这位隔三差五在脸书上给我发信息。不认识她知道她同城或者周边。估计她寂寞。她发过自己孩子的照片他10来岁的样子。 我通常简短回复一下。刚才看见一条她发来的。
分享一下。刘心武说每个人的人生都是艰辛的。很多人都有自己的艰辛。很多人都在经历着各样艰辛,因着对生命的热爱和眷恋都忍着艰辛顽强的活着。
这位大肠被手术摘除得用便袋。不过貌似她已经不需要便袋了正在恢复中. 我们追求的很多东西都是浮云,其实,活着就是美好
"Hello. Have been through a lot since Nov. I’ve spent 6-7 weeks in the hospital. I’ve been in 4 hospitals (one 3 times) and had 2 surgeries. The first was an emergency exploratory surgery. They took out my large intestines and my colon leaving me with an ileostomy.  My second surgery was the ileostomy reversal which I am still recovering. I also managed to get bacterial pneumonia and had to go to a rehab hospital to get strong enough to be self sufficient and come home. I spent several days in ICU. My surgeon said I would not have made it if I had waited another day. My bp was so low it didn’t register on the equipment and I had to have 3 blood transfusions before the first surgery. I had been in another hospital where I was only getting worse and being fed pain pills. We left AMA. Thank goodness or I would more than likely not be here today. The tissue was dead. My grandma and her mother both had their colons removed. They say it’s not hereditary, but I beg to differ."