昨天挖了个坑，今天继续。结交过很多美国人，和其他各个族裔的人。公平来讲，不管外面什么样的，里边流淌的是红色的血液，都是地球人，都有优点和缺点，都不是神。所以不要因为个人喜好不同而互相贬低。曾经有美国阿姨给免费剪头发，有美国妈妈看我get into trouble，在一旁偷偷抹眼泪。也有帅的和不太帅的白男真诚得说You are a wonderful person。有黑妹妹为了逗乐偏偏起舞。有非裔基督徒违反规定免费送牛奶。满满的回忆，无数的感动。be kind to yourself, be generous to other people too.
你说的我懂。对我来说，妇人之仁，目前足够用了。我不是什么将军，我也没兴趣当将军... Anyway, that was my instinct. In reality, I can be very tough, tougher than anyone else. Being kind takes strength, not weakness. All people will die eventually. No desire, no fear. To me, the best way to live my life and to protect my family is to be useful to other people, because, otherwise, those who choose to hurt us are choosing to hurt themselves.
你说的我懂。对我来说，妇人之仁，目前足够用了。我不是什么将军，我也没兴趣当将军... Anyway, that was my instinct. In reality, I can be very tough, tougher than anyone else. Being kind takes strength, not weakness.
All people will die eventually. No desire, no fear. To me, the best way to live my life and to protect my family is to be useful to other people, because, otherwise, those who choose to hurt us are choosing to hurt themselves.