岳母来美探亲,心衰造成脑缺氧植物人---- 后续

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bububu
遇此大难,楼主真是好人,非常有担当,给予妻子和家庭莫大的安慰支持!好人一生平安!最大的祝福!
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cindybb
可以请现在的医生写个referral 去大医院(湾区就Stanford /UCSF )要求安排问诊作second opinion. 然后他们收到转诊要求之后会联系你安排的。
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hellohey
“没有人认识 大医院神经科的医生, 在进long term care 之前,还是想找其他的neurologist 做一个 2nd consultation” 这里是斯坦福第二意见 700$ https://stanfordhealthcare.org/campaigns/stanford-medicine-online-second-opinion.html How Does It Work?
Create an account and tell us your situation. The cost for the service is USD $700 and may be paid with funds from your Health Savings Account (HSA) or Flexible Spending Account (FSA). Please confirm coverage with your HSA or FSA plan administrators We''''''''''''''''ll collect your medical records (if your records are in the U.S.) An expert from Stanford Medicine will review your medical information We''''''''''''''''ll send you and your local physician a written Stanford Medicine Online Second Opinion
https://www.clinicbyclevelandclinic.com/virtual-patient-registration-portal/ 这是 CLEVELANDCLINIC的第二意见 底下是Mayo Clinic Experts at the Mayo Clinic can help you navigate your healthcare journey, answer your questions and guide you through the treatment plan. When you call at any of our 3 campuses, you will be offered an appointment within 48 hours http://mayocl.in/1mtmR63 Be sure to mention the Cerebrovascular access program.
Here’s some additional information about brain aneurysm care at Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/brain-aneurysm/care-at-mayo-clinic/mac-20361689  https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/second-opinion-4/ 这里是Johns Hopkins https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/telemedicine/videovisits Johns Hopkins Medicine offers secure and HIPAA compliant remote appointments
你也可以看一下家里房子保险细节cover这种突发疾病客人的cover吗? 




简单
如果我是这个女儿,肯定会选择让母亲安乐死。这么长时间的缺氧造成的脑损伤是不可逆的。人生有时就要做很艰难的选择。
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musella311
blese lz 希望奇迹出现
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betterme
bless
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Winter2
Big bless!
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newhouse2014
简单 发表于 2025-03-09 07:16
如果我是这个女儿,肯定会选择让母亲安乐死。这么长时间的缺氧造成的脑损伤是不可逆的。人生有时就要做很艰难的选择。

亲人,下不了手作这种决定。我家老猫病了送了急救,一般人也会建议安乐了。我舍不得。虽然最后无法救回来。有感情就无法像旁人这样冷静
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baobaoqiu
Bless 楼主岳母和一家人
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jedi2006
加州可以申请emergency medi cal.没有身份要求。找医院联系专门相关社工办理。
每次看到这种案例,就觉得加州的这些福利还是很好的,弱势群体不分国界出于人道主义关怀都尽量帮助。虽然每年交税交的心疼 但是谁也不敢保证自己家人哪天会不会也用上啊
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xjbs
hellohey 发表于 2025-03-09 07:05
“没有人认识 大医院神经科的医生, 在进long term care 之前,还是想找其他的neurologist 做一个 2nd consultation” 这里是斯坦福第二意见 700$ https://stanfordhealthcare.org/campaigns/stanford-medicine-online-second-opinion.html How Does It Work?
Create an account and tell us your situation. The cost for the service is USD $700 and may be paid with funds from your Health Savings Account (HSA) or Flexible Spending Account (FSA). Please confirm coverage with your HSA or FSA plan administrators We''''''''''''''''ll collect your medical records (if your records are in the U.S.) An expert from Stanford Medicine will review your medical information We''''''''''''''''ll send you and your local physician a written Stanford Medicine Online Second Opinion
https://www.clinicbyclevelandclinic.com/virtual-patient-registration-portal/ 这是 CLEVELANDCLINIC的第二意见 底下是Mayo Clinic Experts at the Mayo Clinic can help you navigate your healthcare journey, answer your questions and guide you through the treatment plan. When you call at any of our 3 campuses, you will be offered an appointment within 48 hours http://mayocl.in/1mtmR63 Be sure to mention the Cerebrovascular access program.
Here’s some additional information about brain aneurysm care at Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/brain-aneurysm/care-at-mayo-clinic/mac-20361689  https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/second-opinion-4/ 这里是Johns Hopkins https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/telemedicine/videovisits Johns Hopkins Medicine offers secure and HIPAA compliant remote appointments
你也可以看一下家里房子保险细节cover这种突发疾病客人的cover吗? 





Mark 这位层主提供的信息。
果酱罐子
newhouse2014 发表于 2025-03-09 10:32
亲人,下不了手作这种决定。我家老猫病了送了急救,一般人也会建议安乐了。我舍不得。虽然最后无法救回来。有感情就无法像旁人这样冷静

看到这样的事情,第一想法是自己早早跟家人说清楚自己想要什么样的治疗,不想要什么样的,比如接受做CPR,不要插管,没有意识,没有生活质量的时候,放弃用机器延续生命。 总之不要让家人陷入这样的困境。
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littlegrass1
hellohey 发表于 2025-03-09 07:05
“没有人认识 大医院神经科的医生, 在进long term care 之前,还是想找其他的neurologist 做一个 2nd consultation” 这里是斯坦福第二意见 700$ https://stanfordhealthcare.org/campaigns/stanford-medicine-online-second-opinion.html How Does It Work?
Create an account and tell us your situation. The cost for the service is USD $700 and may be paid with funds from your Health Savings Account (HSA) or Flexible Spending Account (FSA). Please confirm coverage with your HSA or FSA plan administrators We''''''''''''''''ll collect your medical records (if your records are in the U.S.) An expert from Stanford Medicine will review your medical information We''''''''''''''''ll send you and your local physician a written Stanford Medicine Online Second Opinion
https://www.clinicbyclevelandclinic.com/virtual-patient-registration-portal/ 这是 CLEVELANDCLINIC的第二意见 底下是Mayo Clinic Experts at the Mayo Clinic can help you navigate your healthcare journey, answer your questions and guide you through the treatment plan. When you call at any of our 3 campuses, you will be offered an appointment within 48 hours http://mayocl.in/1mtmR63 Be sure to mention the Cerebrovascular access program.
Here’s some additional information about brain aneurysm care at Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/brain-aneurysm/care-at-mayo-clinic/mac-20361689  https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/second-opinion-4/ 这里是Johns Hopkins https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/telemedicine/videovisits Johns Hopkins Medicine offers secure and HIPAA compliant remote appointments
你也可以看一下家里房子保险细节cover这种突发疾病客人的cover吗? 





Mark 斯坦福second opinnion
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once_before
hellofun 发表于 2025-03-09 03:30
回复 43楼 once_before 的帖子
在加州 探亲父母就可以申请白卡了 到时候cover nursing home 可以在这边呆着。 nursing home 像这种病人 $4000 一天。 但是medi cal cover。

哦,那加州对外籍都很友好。好像LZ是在加州?我们州的话连公民老人申请州里的LTC都门槛很高。
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gongmaa
祝福楼主的岳母逢凶化吉,平平安安 楼主能否稍微介绍一下,为什么会突然心衰,是平时有慢性病吗,还是有什么诱发的因素
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darktruffle
bless
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Dailv22
上帝保佑楼主一家
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Dailv22
hushuobadao 发表于 2025-03-08 15:07
LZ你是serious的嘛?这种情况不是赶紧送回国治疗,你还想送到Mayo Clinic那边去治,到时候账单就不是几万刀的事情了。像你岳母这种情况,救回来的几率很低,除非你家有余粮或者你不想付任何医疗账单,否则的话折腾一次你家就要破产。

有时各种账单没完没了, 打电话交涉, 医生只说一个含糊其辞的解释, 令你无可奈何
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CaramelM
父母发生这种意外, 做儿女的真的好痛苦。 Bless
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Dailv22
简单 发表于 2025-03-09 07:16
如果我是这个女儿,肯定会选择让母亲安乐死。这么长时间的缺氧造成的脑损伤是不可逆的。人生有时就要做很艰难的选择。

家人是无法做出这个决定的
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Liliy2222
我在中美top 医院都工作过十几年, 简单的看了你的两个帖子, 1, 感觉美国医疗抢救这块应该没大毛病 2, 对国内高压氧舱报保守态度, 九几年刚毕业的时候有陪病人压过仓, 感觉效果不大( 类似安慰剂); 3,mayo 是很不错的医疗机构, 我不太了解他们氧舱的情况; 4, 确定是半边脑死亡吗? 5, 我在南加州, 如果需要可以给你南加UC的神经专家, 6, 无论mayo 还是北加, 其实专家医生都是可以在网上收索的, 如果有保险, 可以按保险公司名单收索 7, 我对long tern care 这块不熟悉
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tobbyshark
马克医疗2nd opinion
六月苹果
我有个朋友的婆婆几年前突发脑溢血成植物人,ICU脱险后就只能转动眼珠,不会说话,食物都是打成汁灌进去,不需要带氧气管,大小便需要人清理,两个儿子轮流伺候,白天就过去喂饭,晚上一个人陪床,但是老太太会自己睡觉,护理的身上没有一点褥疮,3年左右离世,这种情况是儿子们孝顺,有的家可能会选择送到专业伺候这种卧床不起的养老机构,小城市这种机构差不多4000-5000 一个月,护理状况不清楚,供楼主参考,医院不会长期收留的,状况稳定后会让病人出院,如果家里有人照顾,或者找个保姆在家伺候是对病人最好的,实在没人帮忙,只能从养老机构。