娃在图书馆自己借了这样的书看,大家是如何正确引导

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Tia99
楼主 (北美华人网)

书是没有PG or PG13 分的,也是奇怪了。日本的漫画也会标一个18+。娃还没到十岁。
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sugarking
和别的书一样对待
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bran
这是什么书,有问题吗?
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jedi2006
同问 这书讲啥的有什么问题
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jedi2006
有什么问题?
The story of a girl who learns the true meaning of family—thanks to her best friends near and far, a loving and quirky single dad, and an unexpected encounter with a whale. 
Twelve-year-old Natalia Rose Baleine Gallagher loves possibilities: the possibility that she’ll see whales on the beach near her new home, that the boy she just met will be her new best friend, that the photographers chasing her actor father won’t force Nat and her dad to move again. Most of all, Nat dreams of the possibility that her faraway mother misses and loves Nat—and is waiting for Nat to find her.
The thing is, Nat doesn’t even know who her mother is. She left Nat as a baby, and Nat’s dad refuses to talk about it. Nat knows she shouldn’t need a mom, but she still feels like something is missing.
In this heartfelt story about family, friendship, and growing up, Nat’s questions lead her on a journey of self-discovery that will change her life forever.
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bran
看着没啥问题啊,看lz这个反应还以为是小黄文。。。
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hrqinzi
这个书不是18+啊 亚麻上面suggest age 8-12 貌似是关于LGBTQ的 没必要洪水猛兽,正确引导就好了 以后这类题材肯定到处可见
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Tia99
hrqinzi 发表于 2024-03-02 13:43
这个书不是18+啊 亚麻上面suggest age 8-12 貌似是关于LGBTQ的 没必要洪水猛兽,正确引导就好了 以后这类题材肯定到处可见

呵呵 是的 只有层主mm看了。没处理过,他看的每本书,我也没办法每一本都去audit 看。不知道这么小怎么去take 这些复杂小众的内心感受。棘手。z
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Tia99
回复 6楼 bran 的帖子
晕,小黄书还需要来这里问如何正确引导不到十岁的娃看小黄书?
心跳的希望
有什么问题?
The story of a girl who learns the true meaning of family—thanks to her best friends near and far, a loving and quirky single dad, and an unexpected encounter with a whale. 
Twelve-year-old Natalia Rose Baleine Gallagher loves possibilities: the possibility that she’ll see whales on the beach near her new home, that the boy she just met will be her new best friend, that the photographers chasing her actor father won’t force Nat and her dad to move again. Most of all, Nat dreams of the possibility that her faraway mother misses and loves Nat—and is waiting for Nat to find her.
The thing is, Nat doesn’t even know who her mother is. She left Nat as a baby, and Nat’s dad refuses to talk about it. Nat knows she shouldn’t need a mom, but she still feels like something is missing.
In this heartfelt story about family, friendship, and growing up, Nat’s questions lead her on a journey of self-discovery that will change her life forever.
jedi2006 发表于 2024-03-02 11:32

这有啥问题吗?
单亲家庭也不能了解一下吗?
总不能孩子只能读完美家庭的故事吧

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jedi2006
hrqinzi 发表于 2024-03-02 13:43
这个书不是18+啊 亚麻上面suggest age 8-12 貌似是关于LGBTQ的 没必要洪水猛兽,正确引导就好了 以后这类题材肯定到处可见

看简介没看出来是讲LGBT的,哪里看出来的? 这可咋办,总不能每本书拿回来家长先读一遍吧。
糖葫芦
我理解楼主的concern. 里面是有个transgender的小男孩,讲他的struggle什么的。现在儿童读物里有关lgbtq的书越来越多,参差不齐,有些有故意引导之嫌,建议楼主堵不如疏,借着这个机会好好和孩子聊聊,帮她建立好的辨别能力。越大后越过分的书更多,高中的必读里还有有关奸杀,乱伦等等更炸裂三观的。最好是保持和孩子交流的通道,这样你能第一时间知道她在读些啥。
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Freemind2024
可以让孩子选reading list 的书,每个年级都有。这样比较安全
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Icd
有啥好担心的,娃在学校看到的,听到的,从网上知道的比你多得多。
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Tia99
糖葫芦 发表于 2024-03-02 18:17
我理解楼主的concern. 里面是有个transgender的小男孩,讲他的struggle什么的。现在儿童读物里有关lgbtq的书越来越多,参差不齐,有些有故意引导之嫌,建议楼主堵不如疏,借着这个机会好好和孩子聊聊,帮她建立好的辨别能力。越大后越过分的书更多,高中的必读里还有有关奸杀,乱伦等等更炸裂三观的。最好是保持和孩子交流的通道,这样你能第一时间知道她在读些啥。

谢谢码字,一定会试一试你的建议的。是的,堵得住一本,以后也堵不住的。本来觉得这种事情是十二岁以后我才需要介入,没有准备这么早。
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0sweetgrapes0
这书咋了