16 type personality不存在哪个优于哪个。只是不同而已。 先看看你是不是intj INTJ. Introvert, intuitive, thinking, judge. See it through type, they are an intellectual temperament, and they are known as the strategist. Their interaction style is direct, responding movement, just like the ISTP, and the ISTJ, and the INFJ, because they’re see it through types. They have a hard time starting things, but when they get going on something, they absolutely are compelled to finish, and will stop at nothing to finish anything they start. That’s kind of what an INTJ is, they’re very strategic, very future focused, all about future thinking. They just make sure that they always have a plan moving forward, a way to process, or a routine. Although they themselves don’t like being routine, but they have no problem designing a routine or a process for somebody else, because INTJ’s have that freedom factor. INTJ’s can will their selves through almost any obstacle. And if they can’t get through an obstacle using their iron will, then they will try in some other way, shape, or form, to do it, usually using their subconscious, or their unconscious, or their super ego, to meet those objectives. INTJ’s are super goal oriented. They like listing out their goals, and they like executing plans to meet those goals. This is typical in anything from academics, to their job, or even relationships. They’re very systemic in their relationships. Oftentimes INTJ’s are accused of thinking about sex more than actually having sex. They’re insecure about giving someone a bad experience, and that includes the bedroom. That also includes any presentation they give in class, how they come off, how they sound, how they look. They’re constantly trying to make sure, and manage the expectations, or manage the experience of other people, or manage the thinking of other people, simultaneously making sure they’re giving them a good experience while they manage them, which leads to this interesting form of micro-management, that doesn’t even make sense. This is literally performance anxiety. “I don’t know how anyone else around me feels. I don’t know if anyone actually likes me. So because I don’t know that they like me or not, I don’t know they’re also going to have an experience.” INTJ’s can scrub through data rapid, rapid quick. INTJ’s are fast, super fast. If they devote themselves to it, they’ll go even further with it. A perfect example of this is Frank Abagnale. He’s a social engineer, the movie, “Catch Me If You Can,” was based on him. An amazing social engineer, who became a lawyer and a doctor, specifically because he studied his ass off, and he actually made it work. He was actually really a doctor, and he actually really was a lawyer. Of course, he was just trying to run a con the entire time, because INTJ’s are amazing con artists. INTJ’s take status and reputation very seriously, that’s why they try to get their PhD’s, and their MBA’s, and their credentials, and their certifications. They’re super, super motivated to get as many credentials as possible, so they don’t have to deal with other people thinking that they’re idiots. INTJ’s worry about the intentions of other people so bad that, in my opinion, they are the most paranoid of all the types. Absolute most paranoid of all the 16 types is the INTJ, to the point where it’s very rare, if ever, an INTJ on the internet would ever tell you their real name. Unless you were there in their trusted inner circle, and even then, they probably won’t for a year or whatnot. it’s because they lack social norm awareness, they lack social awareness. "Well, there’s no proof that you’re loyal to me, and you’d be willing to take a bullet for me, so I’m not going to trust you until I know for a fact that you’re loyal to me. Even then, when you’re loyal to me, I’m going to do a loyalty check on you, to make sure you’re still loyal. Then, at that point, I might decide to trust you. Right?” Don’t forget this INTJ’s. When you’re expecting someone to be loyal to you, and you do these loyalty checks, or you’re still being paranoid, what you’re going to end up doing is just alienate them. INTJ’s would be nice if you guys would give people the benefit of the doubt, which you rarely do. Never, ever ask an INTJ about their past, or their past memories, their past lovers, stay away from their past. It is a bad idea to be talking about their past, or asking them, “Why don’t you know this already?” Or, “Why haven’t you studied this already?” Or, “Tell me more about your family.” Just don’t delve on their personal experience. 扶苏 发表于 2023-12-13 12:44
这么一说其他事情我都挺敏锐，尤其别人的微表情这种，唯独这男女尤其没确定关系之前这个微妙关系搞得不太懂，全靠看韩剧找感觉，也可能韩剧把我害了。
这里很多高学历理工女，INT比例较高，感觉在高科技朋友圈里，一块砖头能砸中8个INT，大多数都是INTJ
跟INTJ在一起，我会倾向满足她们的需求，不过幸好她们稳定、讲理，沟通有效率，对我这种不善于经营友情的人，只需要做到在一些小事上基本的包容就可以了，不需要多复杂的操作。
INTP的女生太可爱了，非常聪明又有创造力，心地单纯像小孩子，还比较随和，可能是我最喜欢的同性类型（也有可能是之一，哈哈）。有过一个很漂亮的INTP发小闺蜜，到大学都在同一个城市，但凡性向不正常一点我俩就结婚了哈哈哈。
简直就在说我自己
personality type, MBTI personality type 有16种，网上可以做免费测试，这里大家说的INTJ和INTP是这16种中的两种
握手同感。我从来看不懂任何男女纯爱类型电视剧，不懂蓝色生死恋这样的剧，有啥好哭的。高中大学有人对我表示好感，如果这个男性我无感，比如长得不是我的菜或者不聪明，我生理性的特别特别难受，而且直接无视人家。
性格偏冷是对的，INTJ被称为coldest human. INTP是warmest robots. 两种都是冷人，属于半斤八两
这个说的就是我啊，太可怕了。不过我也是第一次听说INTJ自我感觉那么好。
确实还有那么一点点道理啊！
是因为intj的性格造成不容易的童年，还是不容易的童年导致了intj的性格？
别人的童年不知道 但是本人13-15 岁有阵子非常压抑类似抑郁想太多，会想我的人生好没意义而很郁闷。父母亲跟本人关系非常好无话不谈 但是母亲比较overly protective 会把我关在家里 不喜欢我出门玩 久而久之 变得社恐也喜欢独处 发展出了各种自娱自乐。精神上父母比较放养 大事小事的人生抉择都让我自己拿主意 久而久之自己也比较有主意了会规划一些事～
INTP/INTJ 表面上显得没情绪 其实他们也是有情绪的 但是情绪不好时会自己把自己开导好了，也是长期独处发展出来的技能…
这两个其实没有entj冷，还有stp也比较冷
为啥Stp也冷？
我也是 INFP 据说挺少的，握个手
道德感低，共情低 estp出负心人多，istp出杀手多
我也是INFP。INFP应该不少。
任何personality type都有优势和劣势。因为每个type都有自己的demon function。personality type和道德感没有关系。
不同的personality type确实会特别看不惯另外一些type，甚至会曲解这些type，也是正常的。
因为intj缺乏Fe （extroverted feeling)，很难读懂social cue。所以对别人的情绪感知低，其实是不知道别人到底喜欢自己还是不喜欢自己。
所以，要么自我感觉过于良好，要么时刻处于不安全感里。
stp其实不冷的。尤其estp。因为estp的第三function就是Fe。Fe extroverted feeling，是最能体感别人情绪的，也最care别人情绪。作为第三function，estp是很希望别人开心，情绪好的。但是因为ESTP的主function Se，会导致他们为了让别人更好，会用bad experience 激励对方，给人留下很冷酷无情的印象。但是对于Si user，比如isfp, infp，isfj, esfj，却是能够接受的，甚至是非常受益的。
16type其实是很平衡的系统。没有哪个type是站在食物链最顶端的，同时各个type都需要其他type来完善自己。
看得懂吧, 只是不care,所以说性格冷啊，不是不能
看不懂，Fe是intj shadow function里的盲点。每个type都有一个自己的盲点，比如我INFP，我的盲点是Se。
握手🤝
estp外热内冷。赌王，吴签，硅谷九天男，都是estp, 还记得吴签的那句你要忍耐点吗，这是他们的Fe