I’m on the mother side Me too. I used to take my son in Women bathroom. When the family bathroom was not available Me too Wait if there was a father there then why didn’t the father take the kid instead? Me too A thousand percent mom should apologize because mom should go to the family restroom instead the ladies bathroom Did you consider maybe they don’t have one? We used to do it all the time it’s no big deal he’s only 6. mom should stay with the child, not leaving the child alone Even if there is a family restroom sometimes the waiting for it is long. So you really have no choice but to take them with you. than the child mother should stay closer to the child & the mother should apologize to the lady Maybe there is none Or there full Then she can only do two things bring in the women restroom or like u said use the family but maybe there is none or it full Why should the mom apologize Also her husband was there so he could’ve taken him too if anything Agree there aren't any family restrooms where I'm from and how big of a çunt do you have to be to think a toddler could hurt you No she shouldn't, thats her child and she's protecting it. never apologize for keeping your kids safe in an unsafe world. I’m not the mom side but she is not truly right. The whole apology think is ridiculous cuz she also has a point The dad was there too If the boy was a girl, would you let your husband bring her into the mens room? If he has to than yes. The world is not safe anymore. 6 is still a baby and yes the mom is a bit extreme. It only takes a mother to understand. Same, with predators and human traffikers my boys go with me unless dad is there to go on the mens side. That lady needs to move the "f" on. the kid way more than before. yup especially nowadays when the children can just get grabbed and disappear She's right that the lady shouldn't have made the kid cry but she's wrong for screaming her head off in a public bathroom, Im sure that traumatized The problem she sent 6 year old alone to the restroom Seriously... he's a child. I wouldn't leave him alone either. Exactly
I’m on the mother side Me too. I used to take my son in Women bathroom. When the family bathroom was not available Me too Wait if there was a father there then why didn’t the father take the kid instead? Me too A thousand percent mom should apologize because mom should go to the family restroom instead the ladies bathroom Did you consider maybe they don’t have one? We used to do it all the time it’s no big deal he’s only 6. mom should stay with the child, not leaving the child alone Even if there is a family restroom sometimes the waiting for it is long. So you really have no choice but to take them with you. than the child mother should stay closer to the child & the mother should apologize to the lady Maybe there is none Or there full Then she can only do two things bring in the women restroom or like u said use the family but maybe there is none or it full Why should the mom apologize Also her husband was there so he could’ve taken him too if anything Agree there aren't any family restrooms where I'm from and how big of a çunt do you have to be to think a toddler could hurt you No she shouldn't, thats her child and she's protecting it. never apologize for keeping your kids safe in an unsafe world. I’m not the mom side but she is not truly right. The whole apology think is ridiculous cuz she also has a point The dad was there too If the boy was a girl, would you let your husband bring her into the mens room? If he has to than yes. The world is not safe anymore. 6 is still a baby and yes the mom is a bit extreme. It only takes a mother to understand. Same, with predators and human traffikers my boys go with me unless dad is there to go on the mens side. That lady needs to move the "f" on. the kid way more than before. yup especially nowadays when the children can just get grabbed and disappear She's right that the lady shouldn't have made the kid cry but she's wrong for screaming her head off in a public bathroom, Im sure that traumatized The problem she sent 6 year old alone to the restroom Seriously... he's a child. I wouldn't leave him alone either. Exactly Candycapsule 发表于 2023-02-07 23:36
没点赞的有啥可看的？看前面几排tiktok置顶的点赞多的。我就帮大家搬运一下这些高赞评论。截止到后面明显都是0为止 I’m on the mother side 6 is fine. chill out. If you noticed that the one that complain is always single and without kids. i with mom side that kids is 6 yrs old she will get her karma for making the kids crying I used to do that with my son at that age, I didn't trust my son going by himself at that age in men's bathroom... even now I wait for him outside the mom's side ... i do take my 6 yr old to the women's bathroom.i will not send my son to men's by himself. It’s ok to take 6 years old kid to Restroom but not dressing room.But if the child father is outside. He should accompany his child to the restroom. He’s a child!!! Like pleaseee didn’t realize Karens were everywhere I always brought my boys when they were little with me! I don’t trust anyone with my kids “are you from the village?” 😂😂😂 a small child goes to the bathroom and forgets to completely close the door. this should not stop your day. team Mom my son is 6 yo and when he has swimming, I take him to the women's bathroom to change. I'm with the mom, I can't enter the men's bathroom so... Are you from the village? Farmer. Ultimate diss 😂 Why didn’t the father take him to the bathroom. I understand the mother but at the same time Team mom Mother side I’m not a mom, but an aunt. 6 is ok to go in the women’s. I prefer to take my nephew at the age with me into the women’s. He’s little Ummm 🤔 I don’t see anything wrong! That’s a baby and needs to be with the mom any cost My son's always went to the bathroom with me if their dad was not with us. They knew to stand outside my door and only look down. I understand where the both sides are coming from but near the end I think the mom was being a little much. The mom is out of control her is being emotionally abused by the mom’s screaming Point is mom is not with the boy at the moment…
This only small part of what happened. The dad was right outside, this mom was screaming & insulted the girl. The mom wasnt even watching her kid..
没点赞的有啥可看的？看前面几排tiktok置顶的点赞多的。我就帮大家搬运一下这些高赞评论。截止到后面明显都是0为止 I’m on the mother side 6 is fine. chill out. If you noticed that the one that complain is always single and without kids. i with mom side that kids is 6 yrs old she will get her karma for making the kids crying I used to do that with my son at that age, I didn't trust my son going by himself at that age in men's bathroom... even now I wait for him outside the mom's side ... i do take my 6 yr old to the women's bathroom.i will not send my son to men's by himself. It’s ok to take 6 years old kid to Restroom but not dressing room.But if the child father is outside. He should accompany his child to the restroom. He’s a child!!! Like pleaseee didn’t realize Karens were everywhere I always brought my boys when they were little with me! I don’t trust anyone with my kids “are you from the village?” 😂😂😂 a small child goes to the bathroom and forgets to completely close the door. this should not stop your day. team Mom my son is 6 yo and when he has swimming, I take him to the women's bathroom to change. I'm with the mom, I can't enter the men's bathroom so... Are you from the village? Farmer. Ultimate diss 😂 Why didn’t the father take him to the bathroom. I understand the mother but at the same time Team mom Mother side I’m not a mom, but an aunt. 6 is ok to go in the women’s. I prefer to take my nephew at the age with me into the women’s. He’s little Ummm 🤔 I don’t see anything wrong! That’s a baby and needs to be with the mom any cost My son's always went to the bathroom with me if their dad was not with us. They knew to stand outside my door and only look down. I understand where the both sides are coming from but near the end I think the mom was being a little much. The mom is out of control her is being emotionally abused by the mom’s screaming Point is mom is not with the boy at the moment…
This only small part of what happened. The dad was right outside, this mom was screaming & insulted the girl. The mom wasnt even watching her kid..
6岁都上小学了，女厕所都是有隔间的，但学校里会让他进女生厕所？
公共场合，只有男童需要上厕所，女童不需要吗？为什么只照顾男孩的需要？
你够可怜的，说明你老公不给力，外出都是你辛苦带孩子
一边说别人没有同理心，一边自己的言行彻底的展现了什么叫做没有同理心。
豆瓣女权组特别可怕，和邪教一样。 不仅对男童，就连生了孩子的妈妈她们也是非常仇视
我把前面几个点赞两位数以上的评论和每个下面的全部回复都看了，我觉得反方声音很大。根本算不上一边倒。 我真是闲的，我把第一个评论贴在这里，大家看看是不是一边倒吧
I’m on the mother side
Me too. I used to take my son in Women bathroom. When the family bathroom was not available
Me too
Wait if there was a father there then why didn’t the father take the kid instead?
Me too
A thousand percent
mom should apologize because mom should go to the family restroom instead the ladies bathroom
Did you consider maybe they don’t have one? We used to do it all the time it’s no big deal he’s only 6.
mom should stay with the child, not leaving the child alone
Even if there is a family restroom sometimes the waiting for it is long. So you really have no choice but to take them with you.
than the child mother should stay closer to the child & the mother should apologize to the lady
Maybe there is none
Or there full
Then she can only do two things bring in the women restroom or like u said use the family but maybe there is none or it full
Why should the mom apologize
Also her husband was there so he could’ve taken him too if anything
Agree
there aren't any family restrooms where I'm from and how big of a çunt do you have to be to think a toddler could hurt you
No she shouldn't, thats her child and she's protecting it. never apologize for keeping your kids safe in an unsafe world.
I’m not the mom side but she is not truly right. The whole apology think is ridiculous cuz she also has a point
The dad was there too
If the boy was a girl, would you let your husband bring her into the mens room?
If he has to than yes. The world is not safe anymore. 6 is still a baby and yes the mom is a bit extreme. It only takes a mother to understand.
Same, with predators and human traffikers my boys go with me unless dad is there to go on the mens side. That lady needs to move the "f" on.
the kid way more than before.
yup especially nowadays when the children can just get grabbed and disappear
She's right that the lady shouldn't have made the kid cry but she's wrong for screaming her head off in a public bathroom, Im sure that traumatized
The problem she sent 6 year old alone to the restroom
Seriously... he's a child. I wouldn't leave him alone either.
Exactly
小男孩这是被他妈耽误了，骂别人半个小时，还骂对方是家里是农村的，一生生一窝，不知好歹，谁要跟她共情。
为啥要对小男生有恶意啊？他进女厕所不是他妈妈带进去的吗？要怪也怪他妈妈呀
你看那些回复，就是少数支持女年轻和人和别人争论内容，你是选择性看到你想看的。 那你这么不说说那些支持妈妈的评论还有上千个点赞呢？或者拉倒下面看看那些team mom的没点赞的新评论。 不要选择性失明啦。
学校的厕所跟外面的厕所不一回事。安全性完全不一样。学校的厕所他进女厕所也没啥大不了的，只不过为了教育小孩男女有别所以区分男女厕所。难道小男孩进了女厕所会被惩罚开除?除非青春期了故意偷窥那种。另外家里卫生间也是，不可能分男女厕。
找她理论已经很好了，很多美国人评论说她们要打人。
公共场合也木有人惩罚他啊：“一女子发现有个男童站在里面，于是对孩子说：这里是女厕所，男孩不能进来”
学校里老师发现他进女厕所，会不敢提醒他，怕伤害他幼小的心灵？
没点赞的有啥可看的？看前面几排tiktok置顶的点赞多的。我就帮大家搬运一下这些高赞评论。截止到后面明显都是0为止
I’m on the mother side
6 is fine. chill out.
If you noticed that the one that complain is always single and without kids.
i with mom side that kids is 6 yrs old she will get her karma for making the kids crying
I used to do that with my son at that age, I didn't trust my son going by himself at that age in men's bathroom... even now I wait for him outside
the mom's side ... i do take my 6 yr old to the women's bathroom.i will not send my son to men's by himself.
It’s ok to take 6 years old kid to Restroom but not dressing room.But if the child father is outside. He should accompany his child to the restroom.
He’s a child!!! Like pleaseee didn’t realize Karens were everywhere
I always brought my boys when they were little with me! I don’t trust anyone with my kids
“are you from the village?” 😂😂😂
a small child goes to the bathroom and forgets to completely close the door. this should not stop your day. team Mom
my son is 6 yo and when he has swimming, I take him to the women's bathroom to change. I'm with the mom, I can't enter the men's bathroom so...
Are you from the village? Farmer. Ultimate diss 😂
Why didn’t the father take him to the bathroom. I understand the mother but at the same time
Team mom
Mother side
I’m not a mom, but an aunt. 6 is ok to go in the women’s. I prefer to take my nephew at the age with me into the women’s.
He’s little
Ummm 🤔 I don’t see anything wrong! That’s a baby and needs to be with the mom any cost
My son's always went to the bathroom with me if their dad was not with us. They knew to stand outside my door and only look down.
I understand where the both sides are coming from but near the end I think the mom was being a little much.
The mom is out of control her is being emotionally abused by the mom’s screaming
Point is mom is not with the boy at the moment…
This only small part of what happened. The dad was right outside, this mom was screaming & insulted the girl. The mom wasnt even watching her kid..
高赞评论都是这些风格。下面team mom的评论太多了。你就要不选择性失明了。
这个换尿布的爸爸在女厕所里脱自己裤子露屁股不关门了吗？
女厕所里站着个男的您还镇定的如厕，真是政治正确心里强大的妹子啊。
没点赞的评论就不能看？莫名其妙。没点赞的评论就不算是别人的观点吗？何况没点赞的评论也只是比较新的评论，前面评论太多导致没人看到而已。不管是高赞评论还是新评论，都是一边倒。就像微博上都是一边倒骂妈的。反差强烈。
反正tiktok置顶的高赞评论去掉一个没态度中立的我数了数是14:9，高赞来看怎么也不算一边倒。 楼主你开心就好。你都是对的。我撤了
我当时看到这个论坛上的评论也是震惊了，以为我来到了微博，觉得和我心目中美国社会对此事普遍的态度不符。看到tiktok上美国人的评论，才觉得比较正常。
天呐，我们看的是一个视频吗
在那个楼里，我作为一个带过儿子进女厕的妈妈，被一个人大骂变态，我儿子也被骂变态。。真是开眼了。LOL
学校厕所老师可以教他进女厕所，但是外面公共厕所我不觉得陌生女人应该教他别进。公共厕所小男孩跟妈进女厕所我完全理解和认同。我也是那么做的，随便女权们骂好了。我进女厕也经常看到跟妈妈进来的小男孩，我觉得很正常，关上隔间的门就好了。
很多地方只有一个男女共用的厕所呢，去爬山去比较远的公园就一个厕所，男男女女一起排着队呢
你非要去看那些高赞下面争吵的回复，因为那些少数站年轻女人的人最爱去那里和人争论。然后站妈妈的评论1000多个点赞选择忽略。而且我已经解释过你这叫选择性失明，所以14:9一点意义都没有。任何看得动英语的人一看就知道是一边倒。和你没有任何讨论的意义。拉黑，你自己玩去吧。
哦，看来你已经发现评论确实一边倒，你也词穷了吧。
真是撒泼无上限，就这么点儿破事儿。那你下次直接掏枪好了，反正是在美国。
哈哈哈 😄
我就是女权，6岁小孩无论性别进男厕所还是女厕所，事情本身都蛮正常的。但是，爸爸在身边的情况下，还是妈妈带小男孩进女厕所，而不是爸爸带进男厕所，我觉得需要思考一下深层次的原因。爸爸对育儿的参与度不够，这也是男女不平等的一种表现。
你要是有女儿，小女孩上厕所的时候遇到男孩进来方便的时候不关门，你就知道很多人正常的顾虑了。 当然你不介意你女儿看男孩性器官的话另当别论。
很多变态大妈都是你这个逻辑，“不管你们骂什么，不管你们别的女性和女孩如何，只要我的好大儿开心”。
是不是她看的视频跟我们都不一样啊。我看的视频是那个女大学生显得很弱小，并没有出言不逊。
怎么说呢，生了男孩之后，她已经忘了自己也曾经是个小女孩了。。。
然而她不是女孩，她是个大人。你这的各种假设都不管用，这些假设不是她说哭一个小孩的借口。 如果是女孩看到了，也应该找家长。这事在美国你还可以找律师。问责一个小孩，low不low啊。
NONONO。做小姑娘时看到有男童被妈妈带去女厕，我和身边所有女生都觉得正常。。因为男童有母亲带着也没有偷窥，女厕也有门，完全没有妨碍到我们。既然没有妨碍，让别人方便一些，又有什么？为什么非要咄咄逼人？ 去浴室这种是不能忍的，我都躲的远远的。但也没见有人提意见。
要是哪天你女儿被一个陌生的大人说哭，你是不是要上去感谢对方，“你教训得真好，赶快谢谢姐姐骂你”。
是啊，真奇怪那些言论。可能都是男孩妈代入了，觉得自己好大儿做啥都不行，谁都不能说。
就你在这个楼里的言行之low，我觉得与你没必要理论。 你爱咋办咋办，我没义务给你讲道理。
我可不会把女儿带去男厕所。你这种忽略context，故意把六岁男孩进女厕所尿尿不关门这个背景忽略，故意把这件事情抽象成为小孩被大人说哭，到底是什么用心？
反正记住这一点：你们这些人虽然身在美国，但都是美国社会的奇葩啊。
不管你带不带你女儿去男厕所，你女儿都有可能遇到被一个陌生大人说的情况，特别是在中国。希望到时候你可以谦虚的说：赶快谢谢姐姐，姐姐教训的太对了。
要不明天你去kids museum，找一个抢东西的小孩，或者声音大的小孩，你给人说哭。你敢不敢试试？
哈哈，真的，国内的变态文化：我还是个孩子呢。
那我就说一句不要抢东西，take turns, 然后娃就哭了，这也是我的错吗？小孩子太可怕了。
但是看微博她并没有训斥娃啊。就说了句男孩子不可以上女厕所。这就是年轻人条件反射的一句话吧，真的这么严重吗？
然而6岁小孩不会因为一句要take turns就哭的。所以我根本不相信那个女的说自己只是说你不该在女厕所他就哭了，她肯定说了很多过分的话，或者态度恶劣。她只是在自己被骂以后才开始拍而已，自己之前做了什么反正也没有对证。我高度怀疑她没料到这一切会被小孩的妈妈听到，她大概以为这个小孩是一个人，所以才敢做bully。
不过你要不要试试，说哭一个小孩，好不好奇在美国对方父母会怎么反应呢？按照这个视频下面的评论，不小的几率你要挨揍。
我看情况，我孩子也会遇到在不nice的小朋友，我只会让我娃不和他玩和走开。应该留给人家父母教育。 但是如果是抢我娃手里的东西，我会直接抢回来，并说他不可以抢玩具 。人家爸妈要是看到，你就来一句是因为他抢了玩具所以才哭，被抢了玩具怎么都不能当包子。
你已经不止一次让我弄哭别人家娃了，怎么这么变态啊？！大人没事儿为什么要招惹别人家娃啊？
拍了视频后还放网上，不打码让大家网暴这家人，也挺狠的。 站这女的的难道不怕自己哪天有一点错误，被这种人放到网上被全民网暴吗？大家谁都不是圣人，就算圣人也能整出点幺蛾子。
这要是碰上楼里的大妈，估计当场掏枪了。
有些人就是有种思想觉得比自己小的人就应该被自己“教育”。就像以前上学孩子不听话老师可以体罚一样。
这个事情里面两个不合适。妈带娃进女厕所回来又处理不得当，女的看到娃擅自训斥。你要是觉得事件一比二更严重，那就是站女的。要是觉得二比一更严重，那就是站妈的。价值观不一样。
大家都说这个妈妈反应过激，既然你也站年轻女人，你可以代表版上站年轻的女子的网友，以身试法。
大妈撒泼打滚的样子真好笑😄
Huh? 你在说什么啊？这是性别认同的问题吗？你懂不懂什么叫性别认同啊。
你说的非常好！！这种人就是特别装！！
你见过小男孩上女厕所吗？哪里会看到生殖器。背对着门的。而且，一般门就算不锁，其实也最多是半开。
好吧，那你在娃面前示范撒泼半个小时，或者直接掏枪把人给崩了，看哪个对娃伤害更大。
那个女巨婴说人家娃就是不对。反反复复说假如自己不到十八岁，加入自己也哭了呢。
那个妈妈确实彪悍，可是说教别人娃的巨婴也活该被骂
为什么？国内不是在鼓励生育还都没人生吗？
你女儿几岁摘的尿布，不会是5,6岁吧？
你让三，四岁的小朋友自己去上公共厕所？他们自己坐上去都困难.
麻烦你就把楼主贴的视频开头仔细看一下。小孩的反应，娃妈进来的时间。 用common sense 免牛角尖
那爸爸带女儿出门是要去女厕所吗？
巨婴被彪悍老母骂也是活该。
说了洋洋洒洒这么一堆，也只是暴露你的素质跟那些支持的人一样低
又来了，神烦你这种傻X,"它还只是个孩子啊”，还会说别的吗？
你确实有病，而且有大病，感激去看看把 对了，希望你以后去厕所天天有男孩盯着看
那也比不过这里大妈对国内人的戾气重吧
拜登也这么想
护犊子的玩意
发现你真是个傻X,求你拉黑我吧
你支持那个泼妇妈妈是因为你跟它是同一类人，替你孩子感到悲哀
等你孩子被别的孩子欺负了，记得带着你孩子给对方跪下请求原谅
国内反对小男孩进女厕的原因之一就是如果小女生在厕所，看到男的进来她们会很迷惑为什么男的可以进女厕所？对她们心理不好，会有心理问题。理由之二是，有的女的就是在厕所隔间外面整理衣服啊，换衣服啊，你小男孩一进来不就看到了？
这两个理由，换尿布的爸爸一样存在问题啊，甚至比小男生问题更严重。按国内说法，你都该被大棍子打出去打是！
我还是赶紧把你这个变态先拉黑吧，太脏眼睛了 tell your kid I feel sorry for him or her
这个说的特别有道理！
唉怪不得微博等等地方看留言发现国内男女对立很严重
给别人造成困扰还理直气壮毫无歉意，骂的就是你这种人
就是，从小到大，太多次游泳池公共浴室，妈妈带着挺大的男孩子大剌剌的在那看着，就不信那些男宝妈自己年轻的时候不觉得不舒服。生了娃就这么一副恶心嘴脸，连点共情能力都没有。
然而美国人民就是一大堆接受16岁男孩上女厕的，所以你的逻辑在哪？
你拿一些所谓美国人民的态度来证明这是对的。
所以有人用归谬的方法来告诉你，你所谓的美国人民也事实上支持16岁男孩上女厕了, 而华人群体的主流无论左还是右，都是反对任何16岁男孩上女厕的。
因此，你用所谓的美国人民的态度来证明这个事情的是非，在华人群体里是行不通的。