There are several factors that contribute to the high number of "leftover women" in Beijing. One major factor is the disparity in the gender ratio. According to the National Bureau of Statistics of China, the gender ratio in China is currently 121 males to 100 females, which is significantly skewed in favor of men. This imbalance is particularly pronounced in urban areas, such as Beijing, where the ratio is even higher. Another factor is the traditional cultural expectation that women should marry and have children at a young age. This expectation, combined with the pressure to marry someone who is financially and socially stable, can make it difficult for women to find suitable partners, especially as they get older. Additionally, Beijing is a highly competitive and fast-paced city, where many people are focused on their careers and may not have as much time to devote to relationships. The high cost of living in the city also puts pressure on people to focus on their careers and financial stability, which can make it difficult to find the time and resources to invest in a relationship. Furthermore, the one-child policy that China implemented for a long time also cause a phenomenon of "little emperor" which means only child's parents would invest all their love and resources on them, that leads to a higher education and career expectation for them, which then make them have less time for relationship and making family. It's worth noting that the term "leftover women" is controversial and many people find it offensive and derogatory. Women are not a commodity that can be "leftover" and should not be defined by their marital status.
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关颖珊不同意。
好吧，你开心就好
就这样也敢说扶贫…..我真的三观被炸裂啊。
楼主带着这种委屈吃亏的心态进入婚姻， 肯定也会让女儿感受到。 这婚姻不看好， 走不长久。 到时候离婚， 楼主就更加鸡飞蛋打。 还是现在就吹， 找个门当户对的吧。
🛋️ 沙发板凳
婚前买的condo和你们给她的遗产，男方都没份，这样想是不是舒服些。
以前还看到过有机娃鄙视非有机娃，华人的确搞笑
男方当然没意见，为何要有意见
中间还要经历给你们养老，人家俩孩子就有俩孩子养老，你家一个，全指望女儿女婿出力呢
谁占便宜谁吃亏，现在且说不清呢
在美国还指望女儿女婿养老？ 谁都不一定会给谁养老。当然他家儿子也不一定会给他父母养老
这里不要face的大妈太多了
这么计较还是别结婚了，如果结婚后万一被layoff了，是不是得马上离婚
等你进养老院了，大概率还是会盼着女儿出现的
严重同意 （不是同意1楼楼主）。
没有楼主的破房子人家可能感情好好的。有个破房子，尤其有这么个眼皮子浅的事儿妈，感情好不了。
2. 自己身体有问题，有遗传疾病。
其余的你多赚个三瓜俩枣，她家里有点投资房，都不是什么大区别。
这。。。建议你女儿分手或者拒绝你们的遗产 你这样属于有毒父母
你说的对。大城市真的女多男少，女扶贫男多。。大农村男多女少，还有男扶贫的可能。。上海北京大龄女太多了。普通一个男的就不普通了。
看潜力吧。。。
目测会变高楼帖，然后楼主删帖…
对普通人很多了。。。
他家父母给爷爷奶奶养老，所以他家孩子大概率给父母养老
然后一方收入情况变化，要立马离婚重新配对，不然早晚吃亏LOL。
赶紧离啊。 可千万别让人家高攀了你家
不是大城市男少女多，而是因为男方更愿意为了其他条件做经济上的compromise, 比如女方漂亮，脾气好啥的
讲到底门当户对。或者整个package相当，比如女的没能力，家里条件好。或者男的能力强，家里条件略低。总之whole package要差不多。。
长得不行？
出生不一样吧。知识分子看不上工人家庭。没法交流。。哈哈哈。
长得还行。父母太挑剔，介绍的很少能过父母关的。
真的是时光飞逝啊， 华人上都开始频繁出现儿女亲家贴了！
学习一下哈哈
Another factor is the traditional cultural expectation that women should marry and have children at a young age. This expectation, combined with the pressure to marry someone who is financially and socially stable, can make it difficult for women to find suitable partners, especially as they get older.
Additionally, Beijing is a highly competitive and fast-paced city, where many people are focused on their careers and may not have as much time to devote to relationships. The high cost of living in the city also puts pressure on people to focus on their careers and financial stability, which can make it difficult to find the time and resources to invest in a relationship.
Furthermore, the one-child policy that China implemented for a long time also cause a phenomenon of "little emperor" which means only child's parents would invest all their love and resources on them, that leads to a higher education and career expectation for them, which then make them have less time for relationship and making family.
It's worth noting that the term "leftover women" is controversial and many people find it offensive and derogatory. Women are not a commodity that can be "leftover" and should not be defined by their marital status.
以后应该是常规了吧。。。
如果仅仅一个小condo，也没占你多少便宜啊
记得我老公的爷爷奶奶前些年在世的时候，在低消费地区养老院，配有医疗设备那种，两个人一个月一万刀出头，现在不知道多少钱了，真是很贵的。
哈哈，现在大家嫌贫爱富已经不是错了！ 要门当户对吗。 但楼主的问题是自己以为自己是扶贫，大家觉得就30万首付的condo， 不算门第有多大的差异
有一说一，显然是有至少几百万的差啊。要是对方来个给力的，楼主应该是想接着给的
结姻亲不能只泛泛地看是否是通勤达理之人。一定要是能够很好的处理长期亲密关系的人和家庭。这个基础上，经济水平不一致可以接受。
哇靠 大开眼界， 这么点钱就觉得自己在扶贫人家？ 穷一点不是原罪，人家也不一定会穷一辈子，你女儿如果和男友真心相爱，其他各方面也旗鼓相当，想着要走入婚姻，你做妈妈的要不要这么短视啊？ 好意思到网上来DIS自己的准女婿，不好意思做婚前财产公证？这是什么样的逻辑？真想保护你家婚前财产，大方说明，如果这个男人有一丝不满，那不正好测试了人品？ 公平点，别无中生有臆想别人家儿子的会垂涎你家这点钱而勉强自己的恋爱婚姻。
那时候该计算孙媳妇家产不配了，LOL。
作为女方,是有点亏。
太挑剔的父母 就是会耽误儿女啊。我家里亲戚好几个了，白富美生生拖成大龄剩女，最后匆匆嫁了一个年轻时根本看不上的
有时候华人的鄙视链让人真是感叹螺蛳壳里做道场。 多小的差距都能出优越感、鄙视链。