你的孩子,并不是你的孩子 他们是由生命本身的渴望而诞生的孩子 Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. 他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来 他们在你身旁,却并不属于你 They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you. 你可以给予他们的是你的爱,而不是你的想法 因为他们有自己的思想 You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts. 你可以庇护的是他们的身体,而不是他们的灵魂 因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦也无法到达的明天 You may house their bodies but not their souls For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. 你可以拼尽全力,变得像他们一样, 却不要让他们变得和你一样 因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。 You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. 你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。 弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶, 他用尽力气将弓拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。 怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧, 因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。 You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable. ——纪伯伦《孩子》 Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, Chapter 4
同意
有点too drama了
“至于隐瞒,你也有的,你告诉前妻你有一个神经病母亲,捞女弟媳妇,劫财弟弟,你有告诉她,你是一个伏地魔吗?”
太同意了。
再配个同款妈,你还羡慕吗?
看完一楼我已经惊呆了。。。其实看到一半我已经很“佩服”楼主这么能忍了
不好意思,我感觉你家的人真是一个赛一个地无耻。
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你的孩子,并不是你的孩子 他们是由生命本身的渴望而诞生的孩子 Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来 他们在你身旁,却并不属于你 They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
你可以给予他们的是你的爱,而不是你的想法 因为他们有自己的思想 You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts.
你可以庇护的是他们的身体,而不是他们的灵魂 因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦也无法到达的明天 You may house their bodies but not their souls For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
你可以拼尽全力,变得像他们一样, 却不要让他们变得和你一样 因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。 You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。 弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶, 他用尽力气将弓拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。 怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧, 因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。 You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.
——纪伯伦《孩子》 Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, Chapter 4
一家神经病, 包括楼主
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你眼里除了玩就是玩啊,一点事业心都没有,那我也跟着羡慕一下吧
弟弟当时是给他岳母炒股,至于怎么操作怎么分成我都不知道,他亏钱要陪他岳母找我借钱,我没有借钱给他炒股,更没有得到任何利润
爱你的人,不好找,要看自身条件,阳光的人,也不好找,要看对方的成长环境,这两者加一起更不好找
弟媳妇那个也有点稀奇。国内位高权重的家庭,会稀罕一个普通海归?会因为一个在美国的大伯子,就眼窝子浅得要去倒追男的?这个大伯子眼见也不是特别成功之人,为了35万美金念叨到现在。这个普通大伯子一旦离婚不能给钱,弟媳妇马上觉得无利可图就离婚?以前也没多少利啊!一个官二代会因为35万美金,就倾心倒追,忍受一家子神经病?
你也太实诚啦,弟弟欠岳母钱,你借一点帮个忙就好,怎么把家底都借给他了?岳母也有问题,既然委托女婿炒股,就要有赔钱的心理准备,哪有稳赚的股市?都神马人啊?
说的是!这不是想着救个急,另外当时弟弟说是类似借了高利贷,担心父母操心。没想到被算计了,原来就是没想还,现在要钱,弟弟就破口大骂,拉黑我;父母不管,还说当时都不知道我借钱给他,我说那现在知道,做个证人,也不做,继续PUA我