ZT The short answer is, not really, and it depends. I was super skinny the bulk of my life. Girls didn''t like it. I started working out and was cut but still skinny. Girls liked me a lot more when they saw me with shirt off or something form fitting, versus not. I was just thin. Couldn’t help it. I worked really hard to put on weight. I started drinking protein shakes and weightgainers. I would stop after a while of seeing no results, then start back up etc. I never stopped working out though. I was extremely consistent with that. I decided to try weightgainer shakes again. Actually followed the instructions verbatim, and put in weight pretty fast. Like 15 pounds. My body had changed. My chest was wide. I could move my pectoral muscles. My metabolism slowed and I started to put on weight and muscle easier. I started getting the “looks” that you get from girls when they like what they see. If your a skinny dude, you better have a dynamite face. If your average like most of us, you will not fare well. When girls say they care more about what’s on the inside, it''''s bullshit. When girls say they care more about the persons personality traits, it''''s bullshit. A good personality, sense of humor and compassion only works if the girl is attracted to you. If she''''s not, she won''''t care how sweet or funny you are. You can take my advice, as a person who''''s lived through the skinny phase from elementary all the way through HS, up until I was about 23. Freshman year of HS I was 105 lbs. No joke. I stand between 6ft and 6ft1. When I tell you my dating life changed, it was like night and day. Still the same person, but girls wanted to be with me now, and not just be friends. Girls who weren’t interested in me before, became interested. Girls staring directly at my chest as I''m talking to them or walking pass them. This stuff never happen when I was super skinny. Girls like skinny guys if they look like a Model or play in a band or rap. You see these unattractive Rappers and Rock Stars with their entourages don''''t you?? Lol. One of my good friends is a really good looking guy. We’d go out and girls would literally fall all over him, without him even trying. I never seen anything like it lol. They didn''''t know a thing about him on the inside. Don''''t listen to that crap. That''t important once a girl gets to know you. Men and Women are visual. No matter how much a woman tries to lie to you about it. I bet your probably an awesome guy. Workout. Build some muscle, and meet some fantastic people. You deserve it too man.
ZT The short answer is, not really, and it depends. I was super skinny the bulk of my life. Girls didn''t like it. I started working out and was cut but still skinny. Girls liked me a lot more when they saw me with shirt off or something form fitting, versus not. I was just thin. Couldn’t help it. I worked really hard to put on weight. I started drinking protein shakes and weightgainers. I would stop after a while of seeing no results, then start back up etc. I never stopped working out though. I was extremely consistent with that. I decided to try weightgainer shakes again. Actually followed the instructions verbatim, and put in weight pretty fast. Like 15 pounds. My body had changed. My chest was wide. I could move my pectoral muscles. My metabolism slowed and I started to put on weight and muscle easier. I started getting the “looks” that you get from girls when they like what they see. If your a skinny dude, you better have a dynamite face. If your average like most of us, you will not fare well. When girls say they care more about what’s on the inside, it''''s bullshit. When girls say they care more about the persons personality traits, it''''s bullshit. A good personality, sense of humor and compassion only works if the girl is attracted to you. If she''''s not, she won''''t care how sweet or funny you are. You can take my advice, as a person who''''s lived through the skinny phase from elementary all the way through HS, up until I was about 23. Freshman year of HS I was 105 lbs. No joke. I stand between 6ft and 6ft1. When I tell you my dating life changed, it was like night and day. Still the same person, but girls wanted to be with me now, and not just be friends. Girls who weren’t interested in me before, became interested. Girls staring directly at my chest as I''m talking to them or walking pass them. This stuff never happen when I was super skinny. Girls like skinny guys if they look like a Model or play in a band or rap. You see these unattractive Rappers and Rock Stars with their entourages don''''t you?? Lol. One of my good friends is a really good looking guy. We’d go out and girls would literally fall all over him, without him even trying. I never seen anything like it lol. They didn''''t know a thing about him on the inside. Don''''t listen to that crap. That''t important once a girl gets to know you. Men and Women are visual. No matter how much a woman tries to lie to you about it. I bet your probably an awesome guy. Workout. Build some muscle, and meet some fantastic people. You deserve it too man. Yolo 发表于 2022-06-19 11:35
I would guess slim guys don't care what you think but maybe skinny nerdy ones do, LOL
The short answer is, not really, and it depends. I was super skinny the bulk of my life. Girls didn''t like it.
I started working out and was cut but still skinny. Girls liked me a lot more when they saw me with shirt off or something form fitting, versus not. I was just thin. Couldn’t help it. I worked really hard to put on weight. I started drinking protein shakes and weightgainers. I would stop after a while of seeing no results, then start back up etc.
I never stopped working out though. I was extremely consistent with that. I decided to try weightgainer shakes again. Actually followed the instructions verbatim, and put in weight pretty fast. Like 15 pounds.
My body had changed. My chest was wide. I could move my pectoral muscles. My metabolism slowed and I started to put on weight and muscle easier. I started getting the “looks” that you get from girls when they like what they see.
If your a skinny dude, you better have a dynamite face. If your average like most of us, you will not fare well.
When girls say they care more about what’s on the inside, it''''s bullshit.
When girls say they care more about the persons personality traits, it''''s bullshit.
A good personality, sense of humor and compassion only works if the girl is attracted to you.
If she''''s not, she won''''t care how sweet or funny you are. You can take my advice, as a person who''''s lived through the skinny phase from elementary all the way through HS, up until I was about 23.
Freshman year of HS I was 105 lbs. No joke. I stand between 6ft and 6ft1. When I tell you my dating life changed, it was like night and day.
Still the same person, but girls wanted to be with me now, and not just be friends. Girls who weren’t interested in me before, became interested. Girls staring directly at my chest as I''m talking to them or walking pass them.
This stuff never happen when I was super skinny. Girls like skinny guys if they look like a Model or play in a band or rap. You see these unattractive Rappers and Rock Stars with their entourages don''''t you?? Lol.
One of my good friends is a really good looking guy. We’d go out and girls would literally fall all over him, without him even trying. I never seen anything like it lol. They didn''''t know a thing about him on the inside. Don''''t listen to that crap.
That''t important once a girl gets to know you. Men and Women are visual. No matter how much a woman tries to lie to you about it.
I bet your probably an awesome guy. Workout. Build some muscle, and meet some fantastic people. You deserve it too man.
这孩子写的挺真实的。他的心里路程和遭遇更有说服力吧。
我一前公司，组里同事都是二三十岁的码工。大多数都不是健身的，一看就能看出来。
咱只关心小中男和父辈。真的是健身可以改变一个人的气质和命运。
我也是。看到就会母性大发，有保护欲 Lol
173还可以了，健健身绝对可以跟阿汤爷走一走。
做题毁了两代人 不仅仅是外形和精神面貌 还有心理问题
只能变弯了找个妹子算了
问题是他不健身啊，外形就是前面某层回复里描述的那样 看着头大身子小，还戴眼镜。身材干瘪像四季豆 哪怕收入学历和性格都不错，相亲都经常被女方嫌弃 没想到最后终于碰上一个愿意接受他的，亲戚们都高兴得要喜极而泣了😂
太同意了
很多Gay其实清清爽爽的，健身身材也好，也没有油腻感。 感觉鲜肉自成体系，是专门培养出来恶心我们的。
但是我看好多湾区西雅图这样的男生也都有女朋友和老婆的
高的竹竿和胖子都是潜力股，特别是男生，矮真的就难了
竹竿比大胖子要改变体型容易太多了，不是一个级别的
罗云熙、朱一龙都是petite小肩膀型，脸好看还是加点分。
173在南方还好，林俊杰周杰伦张信哲郭富城等等等等男星，连173都没。
。。。 楼主明明是个大美女啊。LOL
身高不到170不是重点，Nathan Chen， Tom Curise，都不到170。 但整个人看起来很fit，很有精气神，女粉丝不要太多。
re 受不了特别壮硕的肌肉男
其实很多英国欧洲帅哥是穿衣slim 还是有点小肌肉的 国蝻好多那个头大肩膀窄的瘦弱劲儿，实在是太难看了。
只有以上这些都平平无奇 普普通通的时候，外表才会显得相对重要了。你总不能一丁点优点都没有吧。
普通人能跟男明星比嘛？我堂哥就是南方人，在南方找对象一样困难。 没想到娶了我堂嫂一个北方姑娘。她身高171，穿个带跟的鞋立马比我堂哥高了……
fang pi
我也是。肩膀头子窄。。
赚40万还是可以搬运的
是。Trim 是高级的Slim，瘦但是有肌肉。我最喜欢这种身材，穿衣显瘦，脱了有肌肉，是当下的in。不喜欢肌肉男。
普通人和巨星巨富比？
这个和普通人和总统比了
哈，普通人只要看上去整个人看起来很fit，很有精气神就行，有没有粉丝无所谓。
不然这版上人到中年看老公左右不顺眼的大妈都是哪儿来的呢。
老家土语阿
I would guess slim guys don't care what you think but maybe skinny nerdy ones do, LOL