I think this is the common issue for most guys, especially asian guys. After my divorce, splitting custody 50/50, I just realized that how wonderful life could be! I now can live! Can enjoy my hobbies! My career blossomed. Guys should take over at least 50% of care giving time, married or not.
I think this is the common issue for most guys, especially asian guys. After my divorce, splitting custody 50/50, I just realized that how wonderful life could be! I now can live! Can enjoy my hobbies! My career blossomed. Guys should take over at least 50% of care giving time, married or not. sNoOpY_cA 发表于 2022-05-04 16:59
I think this is the common issue for most guys, especially asian guys. After my divorce, splitting custody 50/50, I just realized that how wonderful life could be! I now can live! Can enjoy my hobbies! My career blossomed. Guys should take over at least 50% of care giving time, married or not. sNoOpY_cA 发表于 2022-05-04 16:59
你这个跟care giving 关系不大,主要是家人时间。 就是你不离婚,就算你老公做一半care giving你老公小孩在所有你在的时间都是在的。you are expected to spend time with your family. 等你没了老公,一半时间没了孩子,有的人甚至周末把孩子都是给前夫,就跟单身没什么两样。
娃爹:我有娃吗?什么时候的事?
这倒一点都不好笑,为娃妈掬一把泪
本来不觉得有啥,心情不好独自去散散心人之常情而已。但看你都称之为“大杀器”了,可见内心有多恐惧这一招!
男人是不是以为带娃都是在帮女人的忙?完全忘了娃是怎么来的?
为啥所有开会出差机会都要回绝啊,感觉完全没必要啊。当然或许你本来也不想去(我意思是没娃也不喜欢这种活动?)那倒是另一回事。
因为娃一天都离不开妈
虽然我生活挺幸福的,也同意婚姻生活和家庭生活制度其实就是对女性的剥削。
你这个跟care giving 关系不大,主要是家人时间。 就是你不离婚,就算你老公做一半care giving你老公小孩在所有你在的时间都是在的。you are expected to spend time with your family. 等你没了老公,一半时间没了孩子,有的人甚至周末把孩子都是给前夫,就跟单身没什么两样。
太对了
楼主应该是个不错的爸爸,才会觉得这是大杀器,如果是轻易抛家弃子逃避赡养费的渣男,啥都不是。
是啊,妈妈一般都舍不得扔下娃不管。有些当爹的,本来就没责任心,虽然是自己亲生的,没有十月怀胎,没有这么骨肉相连的感觉。有个国内渣男,为了小3,不是还把两娃扔下楼。这种禽兽的事情都下的手。
为什么一天都离不开妈?爹手脚不灵便?
大牛今天不用带四个娃吗
咱们有一说一 还是产生不了无数的娃的
最有钱的人代孕也就生十几个几十个
然后你现在还在婚姻里? 所以你其实是认同这个分配方式的?