“湾区渣男”上微博热搜了

回复 308楼shanoa的帖子
人越来越少了哈 不少骂人的女的出国前就是党员 而且家里也是电信系统的。。

It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either.
Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27

我们不管前妻父母，我们看到的是老婆死了后尸骨未寒新老婆就怀孕的事情 我们看到的是20对年夫妻，连个体面的墓地都没有的事实

和老公八卦了一下 断定肯定老婆死前就开始了。。。 而且把三带回来 在自己岳父岳母前摆弄”恩爱“ 刺激老人 很Sick 而且把三带回来 在自己失去妈妈的孩子面前“恩爱” 完全无视青春期孩子的心理承受能力 很Sick

It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either.
Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27

这片英文的才是一面之词吧 就是渣男自己漏洞百出小作文的翻译
渣男真有那时间没必要网上洗白了

回复 390楼Happy2022的帖子
你这段话到处贴来贴去有意思吗？150k养老/拿女儿部分的遗产，对比人渣拿到的200万保险金+400万房产，在我看来一点问题没有。更不要提人渣做的种种人神共愤的事情了。

回复 390楼Happy2022的帖子
你这段话到处贴来贴去有意思吗？150k养老/拿女儿部分的遗产，对比人渣拿到的200万保险金+400万房产，在我看来一点问题没有。更不要提人渣做的种种人神共愤的事情了。
marnifan 发表于 2022-03-17 20:39

我有个朋友，男性，说如果保险真的付了200万，那应该给前岳父岳母100万。我还保守一点，觉得给前岳父岳母50万，也就可以了。

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It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either.
Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27

You probably wanted to get several facts checked right before you speak for him. For example, it is not a few months passed he remarried, it is few days passed after his first wife passed away he remarried. After further digging up, the facts gets even more ugly, he probably had a fair with the young one during his wife illness period. When his wife needs his support mentally and physically, he is busy pursuing young girl. How cruel is that? How desperate his wife was? So please don’t tell us that you heard two sides of stories. If he still believes he is right, let him to speak up here himself. We are willing to hear his side of story as well. BTW, I think his parents in law also deserve to get some money to take care of the rest of their life.

移民局举报欺诈（女的，和男的DY），国内父母贪污举报。列出来怎么举报，大家一起来。 不说自己不犯法么？人在河边走哪有不湿鞋啊

这片英文的才是一面之词吧 就是渣男自己漏洞百出小作文的翻译
渣男真有那时间没必要网上洗白了
skyfi 发表于 2022-03-17 20:39

不要搭理这个写英文的账号。没准是渣男故意发的，然后网友回复喷他，他截屏就成了网暴证据。写英文是为了好让陪审团和法官读懂。

不要搭理这个写英文的账号。没准是渣男故意发的，然后网友回复喷他，他截屏就成了网暴证据。写英文是为了好让陪审团和法官读懂。
Olivia666 发表于 2022-03-17 20:49

网暴犯法吗？法律不能解决的，就让社死解决

回复 122楼skyfi的帖子
我听说二老婆本来要嫁的另有其人，被人甩了，人渣男也是接盘，我们祝他喜当爹。

回复 401楼skyfi的帖子
把渣女朋友圈照片，拍死在他脸上

回复 348楼skyfi的帖子
不用你在这搅混水，我爸单位一个几万块的退休处长还给判了十年八年的。你以为要多大额度吗，有句话说处级以上干部隔一个枪毙一个有落网的，全枪毙了有冤枉的，这个比例有多大。
grandocean 发表于 2022-03-17 20:19

我妹当过检察官，我记得她说过贪一万一年，十万可以判十年

有意思。果然鬼精鬼精的，知道在华人圈臭了用英文写去老美那儿找支持。整篇不提婚内出轨，不提曾把骨灰埋前院这些老美反感的。重点放在老人要钱还强调是亡妻死后几个月才结的婚。5月去世6月结婚是few months?更不要说一堆证据显示早就婚内出轨。你是忘了你发的那篇声明吧？就凭那份声明，你就是用1000个语种写一辈子的小文章辩白你也是个人渣。

回复 390楼Happy2022的帖子
避重就轻，就问一句，从前妻去世到这事发酵出来，快一年了，为什么不下葬？

这英文看得人尴尬

不要搭理这个写英文的账号。没准是渣男故意发的，然后网友回复喷他，他截屏就成了网暴证据。写英文是为了好让陪审团和法官读懂。
Olivia666 发表于 2022-03-17 20:49

我也这么觉得

It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either.
Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27

呸！别洗了
还demand larger amount呢，连个几万块的机票和墓地钱都不肯拿出来，demand你妹啊

有没有这么一种可能，渣男和新妻是远程领的国内结婚证？然后新妻再以B2签证入境，合法吗？

网暴犯法吗？法律不能解决的，就让社死解决
ethercc 发表于 2022-03-17 20:52

他不需要我们犯法，他只要获取法官和陪审团的同情就行了。他的目的就达到了。不和疯狗互咬，蛇打七寸，他最怕的就是国内举报贪污，美国举报签证涉嫌欺诈，专注这些就行了。

有没有这么一种可能，渣男和新妻是远程领的国内结婚证？然后新妻再以B2签证入境，合法吗？
Olivia666 发表于 2022-03-17 21:07

我有点不相信是国内，考虑到国内的办事效率可以让他们在认识9天内办好结婚证。

好事啊，这就去微博讨论去

我有点不相信是国内，考虑到国内的办事效率可以让他们在认识9天内办好结婚证。
ocmom 发表于 2022-03-17 21:10

他家不是国内干部嘛，可能之前就联系好了，等死亡证明一下来过几天就安排远程网上结婚。国内走后门比美国相对容易吧。

妻子不下葬，驱赶年迈老人，不给孩子时间去缓解悲痛。妻子没走之前不照顾找好下家。妻子走了十几天就结婚还秀。写的我都恶心。你用哪国文写也没用，你看看合照里面女儿儿子的表情，多让人难过。说起给钱，这个情况给老人二十万以上是体面的做法。那个有机牛奶iPad的也拿出来说，没有廉耻。

回复 390楼Happy2022的帖子
找人编辑下发行吗？这英语差的，看不懂。

气死了，微博上的风气是甩锅美国人。。。

我有个朋友，男性，说如果保险真的付了200万，那应该给前岳父岳母100万。我还保守一点，觉得给前岳父岳母50万，也就可以了。
wind4txxm 发表于 2022-03-17 20:43

我也觉得给100万算fair

这太过了，纯粹过嘴瘾。

好有画面感。一个年近半百的男人张着手臂发飙护娇妻
石榴红 发表于 2022-03-17 20:26

本来气得胸口疼，扑哧，被你逗笑了，谢谢

It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either.
Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27

这是reddit上一ID写的。这位一直在reddit上替男方辩解

呸！别洗了
还demand larger amount呢，连个几万块的机票和墓地钱都不肯拿出来，demand你妹啊
bigbigstar 发表于 2022-03-17 21:06

对了，这里应该用demand吗？

他家不是国内干部嘛，可能之前就联系好了，等死亡证明一下来过几天就安排远程网上结婚。国内走后门比美国相对容易吧。
Olivia666 发表于 2022-03-17 21:18

妹子聪明，我也这么想。

回复 430楼wavery的帖子
Reddit上渣男自己的ID而已，这个世界不需要它。

有没有这么一种可能，渣男和新妻是远程领的国内结婚证？然后新妻再以B2签证入境，合法吗？
Olivia666 发表于 2022-03-17 21:07

这是签证欺诈，B2是为没有移民目的人发放的签证

回复 15楼小兔子闹闹的帖子
这个事情已经不好控制了，国内关系爆出来，可能纪委会行动！！前姨夫父张永平，中国铁通集团有限公司董事，总经理，党委副书记。毕业于北京邮电大学，高级工程师。历任山东省德州电信局局长。父母都是山东电信局高官。

忽然想到亡妻父母太高尚了吧，渣男家里是贪官这么大的料都没有放出来。是不是他们家已经在威胁两个老人了？ 能不能发动国内的网友保护二老，最好是有律师，帮他们收集对方威胁的证据

再说一遍想要在国内引起水花就得和贪污扯上关系，否则没人管

回复 15楼小兔子闹闹的帖子
这个事情已经不好控制了，国内关系爆出来，可能纪委会行动！！前姨夫父张永平，中国铁通集团有限公司董事，总经理，党委副书记。毕业于北京邮电大学，高级工程师。历任山东省德州电信局局长。父母都是山东电信局高官。
4leafclover01 发表于 2022-03-17 21:32

这是我最期望纪委行动的一次

大家都去微博踊跃点赞评转发哟～ 让这个热搜可以被更多人看到！

B2签证不会发给跟美国公民结婚的人的

还是微博网友厉害
2021majia 发表于 2022-03-17 17:33

电信局里还有保密局吗？

厉害了真的是贪官
Elizabeth2012 发表于 2022-03-17 16:54

电信局里还有保密局？

家里转移财产能买六套房子，老渣男脑子里就有机牛奶打折保健品？官二代应该是从小花钱就不算计的吧。他爸是高管是怎么八出来的？可信吗

电信局里还有保密局？
微微一笑usa 发表于 2022-03-17 21:49

看看现在的乌克兰战中信息战和数字战，这个电信保密安全多重要，有这个也可以理解。

回复 436楼COHomeSearch的帖子
渣男可能一直仗着自己家里条件好些，长期看不起欺负妻子和岳父岳母一家。别人的宽容被他看成了软弱可欺。

回复 440楼seattlesun的帖子
对的B签证是要排除移民倾向的。

渣男，渣出天际！！

回复 122楼skyfi的帖子
我听说二老婆本来要嫁的另有其人，被人甩了，人渣男也是接盘，我们祝他喜当爹。
小胡同 发表于 2022-03-17 20:53

好奇本来要嫁谁，也是在美华人吗？

好奇本来要嫁谁，也是在美华人吗？
chocomousse 发表于 2022-03-17 22:02

哇塞，真的假的？那肚子里的娃是渣渣的吗

老三是奋斗婊，应该是自己上进，利用男人进微软。不是被男的逼的。
xiaohuihui 发表于 2022-03-17 14:55

奋斗婊 哈哈 老三有一天应该会和有机男离婚吧？

那个在各个帖子里说觉得要150k实在是太多了的是一个人吧？他/她是不是以为别人都傻

家里转移财产能买六套房子，老渣男脑子里就有机牛奶打折保健品？官二代应该是从小花钱就不算计的吧。他爸是高管是怎么八出来的？可信吗
chocomousse 发表于 2022-03-17 21:53

未必能贪污到买六套房子的地步，但是1.渣男在那么早的年代读巨贵的商学院 2. 渣男12年就能downpay一百万买160多万的房子 3. 在湾区内卷这么严重压力这么大的地方玩，亡妻能够耐得住性子做全职主妇多年，即使孩子大了以后。结合渣男工作的时间和级别，收入完全不足以支撑这些，请问是中彩票了吗

新老婆是什么大学艺术团团长，得过主持人大奖，肯定很多人知道。
xiaohuihui 发表于 2022-03-17 09:30

这新老婆的脑子不好使，这么巴巴的嫁个大二十多的二手渣男，她的行情就这么低吗

回复 8楼huaren_ID的帖子
是的，感觉应该再长点

回复 1楼joanna778899的帖子
太给力了

顶一下

顶一下楼。

我也觉得给100万算fair
Dida123 发表于 2022-03-17 21:22

你会给你婆婆一百万不？ 不用回答我。摸着心问问自己

顶一下楼

未必能贪污到买六套房子的地步，但是1.渣男在那么早的年代读巨贵的商学院 2. 渣男12年就能downpay一百万买160多万的房子 3. 在湾区内卷这么严重压力这么大的地方玩，亡妻能够耐得住性子做全职主妇多年，即使孩子大了以后。结合渣男工作的时间和级别，收入完全不足以支撑这些，请问是中彩票了吗
bigbigstar 发表于 2022-03-17 22:13

需要举报给国内的部门和这边的irs

这新老婆的脑子不好使，这么巴巴的嫁个大二十多的二手渣男，她的行情就这么低吗
zhongxiaye 发表于 2022-03-17 22:17

她的脑子太好使了，胆儿还贼大，别提她担心了。

回复 461楼azurepiggy～2代的帖子
没错， 渣女在国内还捞到了前夫的一套房， 别忘了。

这两个人渣就是要把他们搞臭！！！这女人渣的和西门子的同事说，她要来美国结婚时，亡妻还是活着的，这就说明这俩人早有勾搭婚内出轨。亡妻虽然得了癌症，但是男人渣有作案动机加速她的死亡。两人渣就是杀人犯。杀人之后还要独吞脸书给抚恤金。让他们赶快下地狱吧。

估计渣男渣女这些天在家里都吵翻了。 九天爱情能有什么深原感情啊 本来以为自己过来过富太太的日子， 结果是人人唾弃的屎壳郎。

剑骨琴心 发表于 2022-03-17 09:32

不会吵的。这两人都没底线的，心宽的很。 小红书上有视频，前两天驱逐老人，新老婆和警察在门口聊得热乎呢。 换别人，闹这么大，都躁得慌，不好意思出门。这女的挺轻松的表情

小红书说 渣男21年4月份房产变更 全在他名下
zhanan雷锤 账号
好像又有人说在trust下
让子弹飞一会

你会给你婆婆一百万不？ 不用回答我。摸着心问问自己
veroandryan 发表于 2022-03-17 22:33

有什么不能的？？是老公生命换来的，他爸妈有多伤心。我自己还能赚钱，再说还有100万，还有别的财产。
这个女主如果不是第二年去世，拖了几年的话脸书可能也解除合同了，查出癌症后也不能再买life insurance，可能最后到手是没有这200万的。本来这个就不是guaranteed. 还要为了钱让人必须第二年死吗？看来你做得到

这两个人渣就是要把他们搞臭！！！这女人渣的和西门子的同事说，她要来美国结婚时，亡妻还是活着的，这就说明这俩人早有勾搭婚内出轨。亡妻虽然得了癌症，但是男人渣有作案动机加速她的死亡。两人渣就是杀人犯。杀人之后还要独吞脸书给抚恤金。让他们赶快下地狱吧。
mrchrzk 发表于 2022-03-17 22:39

这么迫不及待的把小3搬过来，不正常，两人确实有作案动机加速她的死亡

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楼里这篇说到点子上了啊 给lynnbrook 几个群里转下啊

小红书说 渣男21年4月份房产变更 全在他名下
zhanan雷锤 账号

skyfi 发表于 2022-03-17 22:40

这个太可怕啦。更改户主，也要亡妻签字才可以。那么问题来了，渣男是伪造亡妻签字了，还是乘亡妻吃过多止痛药神智不清的时候骗亡妻签字的了？

这个太可怕啦。更改户主，也要亡妻签字才可以。那么问题来了，渣男是伪造亡妻签字了，还是乘亡妻吃过多止痛药神智不清的时候骗亡妻签字的了？
ocmom 发表于 2022-03-17 22:49

这个户主更改加上9天闪婚，是不是可以提怀疑谋杀的刑事案件了？

这个户主更改加上9天闪婚，是不是可以提怀疑谋杀的刑事案件了？
ocmom 发表于 2022-03-17 22:51

可能是乌龙 等子弹飞一会

有没有这么一种可能，渣男和新妻是远程领的国内结婚证？然后新妻再以B2签证入境，合法吗？
Olivia666 发表于 2022-03-17 21:07

中国结婚不可以远程，必须当事人双方到场，如果结婚成功，说明有违法操作，违反了中国法律。在中国结过婚了，在B签证入美国，欺骗的可是美国移民局，严重违反美国法律。

纪委举报
awesomeiris 发表于 2022-03-17 19:40

渣男他爸大名好像还没爆出来

一定要和微博同步，挖深挖透，该进牢的进牢。
最好有权力战斗的介入

未必能贪污到买六套房子的地步，但是1.渣男在那么早的年代读巨贵的商学院 2. 渣男12年就能downpay一百万买160多万的房子 3. 在湾区内卷这么严重压力这么大的地方玩，亡妻能够耐得住性子做全职主妇多年，即使孩子大了以后。结合渣男工作的时间和级别，收入完全不足以支撑这些，请问是中彩票了吗
bigbigstar 发表于 2022-03-17 22:13

mark 举报irs他洗钱

这新老婆的脑子不好使，这么巴巴的嫁个大二十多的二手渣男，她的行情就这么低吗
zhongxiaye 发表于 2022-03-17 22:17

渣三跟渣男这是二婚，86年的，也三六了，这种离过婚还爱在外面乱搞的的三十多的女的在国内也是难有市场的，跟渣男一拍即合，两个人渣

可能是乌龙 等子弹飞一会
skyfi 发表于 2022-03-17 22:53

确认了

知乎上大部分没有什么同情，觉得这是美国人的事情跟他们没关系，一副看热闹不嫌事大的嘴脸。。。

渣男他爸大名好像还没爆出来
2021majia 发表于 2022-03-17 22:54

这么看可能真是保密局的

知乎上大部分没有什么同情，觉得这是美国人的事情跟他们没关系，一副看热闹不嫌事大的嘴脸。。。
ivygenius 发表于 2022-03-17 23:26

因为知乎不能变现啊，微博点击可以啊，关键时刻还得市场经济有点incentive。
再说了，还真不都是美国的事，老人回不去隔离绿码票价贵闹的。
三儿，国内来的啊。要是没这个三生扑人选，9天效率也达不到吧。美国这边会有白领36，要生扑患癌老婆的猪头渣男吗

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这个事情已经不好控制了，国内关系爆出来，可能纪委会行动！！前姨夫父张永平，中国铁通集团有限公司董事，总经理，党委副书记。毕业于北京邮电大学，高级工程师。历任山东省德州电信局局长。父母都是山东电信局高官。
4leafclover01 发表于 2022-03-17 21:32

前姨父也是北邮的？这渣男是不是走关系进的北邮读书啊？然后毕业后走关系进的电信局？ 难怪，这么丑还能找到聪明漂亮的前妻结婚。前妻除了家庭背景比较一般，哪哪都比渣男强

It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either.
Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27

这个是本人吧，名字不是happy 就是爱情至上的，现实偏偏不会如你这种道德败坏的人所愿。这人写英文的确是想留证据的，到时候一条条翻译清楚给法官看吧。

这个是本人吧，名字不是happy 就是爱情至上的，现实偏偏不会如你这种道德败坏的人所愿。这人写英文的确是想留证据的，到时候一条条翻译清楚给法官看吧。
小小刀 发表于 2022-03-17 23:31

这个贴英文的HAPPY2022太可疑了 大家警惕

这个是本人吧，名字不是happy 就是爱情至上的，现实偏偏不会如你这种道德败坏的人所愿。这人写英文的确是想留证据的，到时候一条条翻译清楚给法官看吧。
小小刀 发表于 2022-03-17 23:31

同意，跟那封钉在花园树上两个摄像头之下的假装客气实则阴险的信用词和表达方式感觉很像。

有什么不能的？？是老公生命换来的，他爸妈有多伤心。我自己还能赚钱，再说还有100万，还有别的财产。
这个女主如果不是第二年去世，拖了几年的话脸书可能也解除合同了，查出癌症后也不能再买life insurance，可能最后到手是没有这200万的。本来这个就不是guaranteed. 还要为了钱让人必须第二年死吗？看来你做得到
chocomousse 发表于 2022-03-17 22:42

我也会给的，这是命换来的

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我也觉得是，感觉他就是个凤凰男啊，啥都觉得贵啥都不舍得。我是头一次看人把前妻埋前院driveway的。

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这个事情已经不好控制了，国内关系爆出来，可能纪委会行动！！前姨夫父张永平，中国铁通集团有限公司董事，总经理，党委副书记。毕业于北京邮电大学，高级工程师。历任山东省德州电信局局长。父母都是山东电信局高官。
4leafclover01 发表于 2022-03-17 21:32

这有什么不好控制的。都是些早已退休的老东西，土都埋到脖子了，国家根本懒得查的。子女（于宁）也送到国外了。我不觉得会对他们产生实质性伤害。

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对，小心他。还有那个Forever21估计是下半生挚爱。

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没错， 渣女在国内还捞到了前夫的一套房， 别忘了。
lalawawa 发表于 2022-03-17 22:38

两渣果然是一丘之貉！

Reddit的帖子在哪？

女人在怀里滚几下撒个娇就成了。
Mia8 发表于 2022-03-17 18:04

人家下半生挚爱啊

这新老婆的脑子不好使，这么巴巴的嫁个大二十多的二手渣男，她的行情就这么低吗
zhongxiaye 发表于 2022-03-17 22:17

离婚，自己应该收入也不高，也不是上海人，讲真，确实行情不怎样

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下半生挚爱啊

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下半生挚爱

有没有人觉得该渣是山东人 一点不奇怪？ 他们最善于算计，可以自我感动型的占领道德制高点，并平时gaslighting有问题都是你，他总是最正确最靠得住的，再在前妻临死前表现殷勤些，许下承诺照顾老小，让久困病床，愧疚不能陪孩子长大，无他计可施的前妻 签信托协议 应该是轻易的事，她马上撒手人寰，哪会有心力怀疑调查，只希望她的信任能博他像他允诺的仁慈对待家人。 娶新欢他也可以自编自演一套，从而让老人成了缺理一方而被驱逐。 这种人生活在自己创造的平行世界里，是不能够体会别人感受 或自省所作所为多么伤天害理的。

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还有一个Happy2022

在知乎也上热搜榜了。https://www.zhihu.com/hot