It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either. It’s really not worth this level of attention from the public at large; stories like what OP is quoting seem very much like some kind of public shaming campaign that the parents are instigating.
It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either. It’s really not worth this level of attention from the public at large; stories like what OP is quoting seem very much like some kind of public shaming campaign that the parents are instigating. Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27
It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either. It’s really not worth this level of attention from the public at large; stories like what OP is quoting seem very much like some kind of public shaming campaign that the parents are instigating. Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27
It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either. It’s really not worth this level of attention from the public at large; stories like what OP is quoting seem very much like some kind of public shaming campaign that the parents are instigating. Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27
回复 105楼Happy2022的帖子 你说的所谓the other side of story 大家也都知道啊，一开始大家不就是因为这些事实骂他吗？ 9天再娶，不但不妥善照顾好岳父母，送他们回国de-escalate家庭矛盾，反而找警察evict他们。 这些事情不违法但是挑战了道德底线，被全网骂完全是自找的。
It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted. From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts). A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things. His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that. Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either. It’s really not worth this level of attention from the public at large; stories like what OP is quoting seem very much like some kind of public shaming campaign that the parents are instigating. Happy2022 发表于 2022-03-17 20:27
孩子们性格温和吧，要是我小时候能把家拆了。
说啥呢，估计孩子也不会写中文，也不知道华人网吧。 我觉得放孩子一条生路，集中力量把那个渣男在华人圈里身败名裂吧。
引起公愤是有原因的， 这男人这么渣， 老婆应该早意识到了， 但还是太天真了， 轻信了他最后的几句违心的谎话。 女人还是天真善良了。 北美华人渣男的确不少， 我以前住的地方， 老婆去世前找好下家的也有， 几乎是一样的版本， 就是少了原岳父母这一出， 所以引起的公愤不大， 时间久了大家也淡忘了。 但的确是对孩子打击很大。
网暴才不会影响孩子呢，只会影响渣男渣女。凡事在网上呼吁制止网暴的，都是渣男渣女的计谋
这个太无耻了。
几句烂英文也洗不白。提醒一下，没抓住重点。
哎呦喂
钱钱钱 这是钱的事吗？
先把亡妻骨灰安置好， 再解释一下娇妻入境用的啥身份吧
会几句破英文也还是烂洗地，扭曲事实
你说的所谓the other side of story 大家也都知道啊，一开始大家不就是因为这些事实骂他吗？ 9天再娶，不但不妥善照顾好岳父母，送他们回国de-escalate家庭矛盾，反而找警察evict他们。 这些事情不违法但是挑战了道德底线，被全网骂完全是自找的。
你说的这些还不如渣男自己说的。。。渣男自己说的是他要每年给钱，这也是前妻遗愿，怕老人乱花掉。但和离婚一方回国一样，老人估计也不相信渣男会继续给钱，要求一次付清，就金额发生扯皮。
到你这儿变成老人一开始要分期付，渣男拒绝。不过最后金额没有你说的15万那么多，渣男出了5万，网友捐了2万。
渣男确实没干啥违法的事情，也只能进行public shaming。前妻生前定下的墓地都能退了，你真相信钱会拿来养孩子？大学学费给不给出都是两说。
还真是。。
我的天 这种网友也真是可怕 吃瓜吃出了家长的感觉了
原配生的孩子，跟三儿合影，就是怪事儿 在已故原配的遗像跟前合影，就是挑衅原配 三儿拍合照的意思就是：吃了你了，还要吃掉你的孩子们 太嚣张了 网友看不下去了 只能出主意，孩子们得靠自己，参军，重新爬起来 别惦记家产了 已经家破人亡人财两空了 只能靠自己
你也不知道没有照顾啊？爆料只是谴责渣男不管吧？其实他家的财务状况，请护工并不成问题。怎么也轮不到指责小姑娘就是了。
你这样说话我简直是怀疑你故意的了 是一定要把论坛网友的注意力和舆论往孩子身上转 然后后面用未成年保护条例要求站方删帖么？ 是什么新的策略么？
要是已经花掉还能拿回来吗？
不可能都花光吧。打起官司至少会冻结清算。两个小孩不容易，还得仰人鼻息生活，付大学学费。所以不敢反抗可以理解。
渣男先说孩子们支持他找三儿做后妈的 我的帖子是提醒孩子们别被威逼利诱了 出庭帮渣爹作伪证撵外公外婆，未成年人也得倒霉的 juvenile perjury 作伪证的少年犯
你觉得你在这个网站上说 孩子们能看见？
香港几年前那个渣男大学教授用打了2氧化碳瑜伽球放车里毒死妻子和女儿（不知道女儿会在车上）的案件。小3跟渣男已经一起几年时间，妻子也打算离婚的。那个小3是大学助教，一直帮渣男的几个孩子补习。谋杀案审的时候，记者过去那几个小孩的家里，听到小孩跟小3欢声笑语，审案的时候还是小3的朋友帮忙照顾小孩。所以当时很多人都说几个小孩跟一个间接或直接害死自己妈妈和姐姐的人那么亲近，是为了有人帮自己补习（小3是高学历的），但亲情无价，这也太令人心寒。最可怜的是那个被害的妻子，丈夫没有了，连孩子也亲小3。
肯定会装。但是世界上几乎极少有后母真心对别人的孩子好的。何况已经teenager了。真正爱娃的大概只有亲妈。这个渣男及其父母完全不考虑两个孩子的感受啊。两个娃只能忍辱负重了，希望早日脱离这个toxic的家。
看不见就不说了？ 这个楼就是大家说孩子们该怎么办的
我觉得非常不妥 已经开始ill wish孩子们的未来 质疑孩子们行为了 自重吧都
现在已经很惨，未来也不看好 网友能做的确实不多 4月7号庭审 对大众开放 有空去旁听吧 现场支持老人和孩子们
请不要用这么粗鲁的关键词，大家都出于对当事人道德败坏的气愤与谴责，并没有人想要汪鲍他们。
渣三不是二十几吗，原来36啊
都移到找不到的闲话2了