英语不算好，打了个底稿大家改改。 Ning Yu, a google senior technical program manager, remarried someone 20 years his junior 9 days after his wife (married for 20 years) Yuxing deceased from stomach cancer, and his new wife is expecting soon after, they started having affairs when his wife was critically ill. Yuxing’s parents, who are in their 70s, came from China to accompany their daughter in her last days. Ning Yu said he didn’t want to see his wife suffer and therefore was absent during Yuxing’s critical time, he left the duty to the old couple over the past year, they had to carry their daughter to the bathroom during the last couple months. In the meantime, Ning went online dating and his parents in China found him a new wife in China who arrived US before Yuxing deceased. They went on honeymoon right after Yuxing passed away and left the old couple to take care of the two kids Ning and Yuxing had. Later, he even asked the 70 years old deceased wife’s parents to take care of his new wife and stay in US till she delivers the baby! Moreover, Ning pushed Yuxing to become an US citizen 3 days before her final day so that her parents (who are Chinese citizens) won’t have anything to do with her property (according to Chinese law, a Chinese citizen’s property can be shared between her parents). Yuxing was a Facebook employee and Facebook paid $2MM as life insurance and another $50K for funeral. Ning does not want to spend any money on his deceased wife and buried her ash front yard of their house (where he and his new wife live now). Yuxing’s parents can’t stand the insult, they only want their daughter be buried properly. Ning also refused to buy them flight tickets back to China (due to COVID the tickets are very expensive), they had a fight and now Ning requested restraining order on the old couple. The old couple don’t speak English and have no one else to depend on in the US, if they are deported from US then they can’t see their grandchildren anymore! While Ning Yu’s behavior may not be against the law, it’s unethical and breaks the bottom line of a human being.
英语不算好，打了个底稿大家改改。 Ning Yu, a google senior technical program manager, remarried someone 20 years his junior 9 days after his wife (married for 20 years) Yuxing deceased from stomach cancer, and his new wife is expecting soon after, they started having affairs when his wife was critically ill. Yuxing’s parents, who are in their 70s, came from China to accompany their daughter in her last days. Ning Yu said he didn’t want to see his wife suffer and therefore was absent during Yuxing’s critical time, he left the duty to the old couple over the past year, they had to carry their daughter to the bathroom during the last couple months. In the meantime, Ning went online dating and his parents in China found him a new wife in China who arrived US before Yuxing deceased. They went on honeymoon right after Yuxing passed away and left the old couple to take care of the two kids Ning and Yuxing had. Later, he even asked the 70 years old deceased wife’s parents to take care of his new wife and stay in US till she delivers the baby! Moreover, Ning pushed Yuxing to become an US citizen 3 days before her final day so that her parents (who are Chinese citizens) won’t have anything to do with her property (according to Chinese law, a Chinese citizen’s property can be shared between her parents). Yuxing was a Facebook employee and Facebook paid $2MM as life insurance and another $50K for funeral. Ning does not want to spend any money on his deceased wife and buried her ash front yard of their house (where he and his new wife live now). Yuxing’s parents can’t stand the insult, they only want their daughter be buried properly. Ning also refused to buy them flight tickets back to China (due to COVID the tickets are very expensive), they had a fight and now Ning requested restraining order on the old couple. The old couple don’t speak English and have no one else to depend on in the US, if they are deported from US then they can’t see their grandchildren anymore! While Ning Yu’s behavior may not be against the law, it’s unethical and breaks the bottom line of a human being. 密码是mima12345 发表于 2022-03-16 23:29
英语不算好，打了个底稿大家改改。 Ning Yu, a google senior technical program manager, remarried someone 20 years his junior 9 days after his wife (married for 20 years) Yuxing deceased from stomach cancer, and his new wife is expecting soon after, they started having affairs when his wife was critically ill. Yuxing’s parents, who are in their 70s, came from China to accompany their daughter in her last days. Ning Yu said he didn’t want to see his wife suffer and therefore was absent during Yuxing’s critical time, he left the duty to the old couple over the past year, they had to carry their daughter to the bathroom during the last couple months. In the meantime, Ning went online dating and his parents in China found him a new wife in China who arrived US before Yuxing deceased. They went on honeymoon right after Yuxing passed away and left the old couple to take care of the two kids Ning and Yuxing had. Later, he even asked the 70 years old deceased wife’s parents to take care of his new wife and stay in US till she delivers the baby! Moreover, Ning pushed Yuxing to become an US citizen 3 days before her final day so that her parents (who are Chinese citizens) won’t have anything to do with her property (according to Chinese law, a Chinese citizen’s property can be shared between her parents). Yuxing was a Facebook employee and Facebook paid $2MM as life insurance and another $50K for funeral. Ning does not want to spend any money on his deceased wife and buried her ash front yard of their house (where he and his new wife live now). Yuxing’s parents can’t stand the insult, they only want their daughter be buried properly. Ning also refused to buy them flight tickets back to China (due to COVID the tickets are very expensive), they had a fight and now Ning requested restraining order on the old couple. The old couple don’t speak English and have no one else to depend on in the US, if they are deported from US then they can’t see their grandchildren anymore! While Ning Yu’s behavior may not be against the law, it’s unethical and breaks the bottom line of a human being. 密码是mima12345 发表于 2022-03-16 23:29
辛苦你码字了 不过你这个英文真的是。。。看了第一句就看不下去了。“remarried someone 20 years his junior”是个啥表达，而且不都说了新老婆36岁吗
英语不算好，打了个底稿大家改改。 Ning Yu, a google senior technical program manager, remarried someone 20 years his junior 9 days after his wife (married for 20 years) Yuxing deceased from stomach cancer, and his new wife is expecting soon after, they started having affairs when his wife was critically ill. Yuxing’s parents, who are in their 70s, came from China to accompany their daughter in her last days. Ning Yu said he didn’t want to see his wife suffer and therefore was absent during Yuxing’s critical time, he left the duty to the old couple over the past year, they had to carry their daughter to the bathroom during the last couple months. In the meantime, Ning went online dating and his parents in China found him a new wife in China who arrived US before Yuxing deceased. They went on honeymoon right after Yuxing passed away and left the old couple to take care of the two kids Ning and Yuxing had. Later, he even asked the 70 years old deceased wife’s parents to take care of his new wife and stay in US till she delivers the baby! Moreover, Ning pushed Yuxing to become an US citizen 3 days before her final day so that her parents (who are Chinese citizens) won’t have anything to do with her property (according to Chinese law, a Chinese citizen’s property can be shared between her parents). Yuxing was a Facebook employee and Facebook paid $2MM as life insurance and another $50K for funeral. Ning does not want to spend any money on his deceased wife and buried her ash front yard of their house (where he and his new wife live now). Yuxing’s parents can’t stand the insult, they only want their daughter be buried properly. Ning also refused to buy them flight tickets back to China (due to COVID the tickets are very expensive), they had a fight and now Ning requested restraining order on the old couple. The old couple don’t speak English and have no one else to depend on in the US, if they are deported from US then they can’t see their grandchildren anymore! While Ning Yu’s behavior may not be against the law, it’s unethical and breaks the bottom line of a human being. 密码是mima12345 发表于 2022-03-16 23:29
英语不算好，打了个底稿大家改改。 Ning Yu, a google senior technical program manager, remarried someone 20 years his junior 9 days after his wife (married for 20 years) Yuxing deceased from stomach cancer, and his new wife is expecting soon after, they started having affairs when his wife was critically ill. Yuxing’s parents, who are in their 70s, came from China to accompany their daughter in her last days. Ning Yu said he didn’t want to see his wife suffer and therefore was absent during Yuxing’s critical time, he left the duty to the old couple over the past year, they had to carry their daughter to the bathroom during the last couple months. In the meantime, Ning went online dating and his parents in China found him a new wife in China who arrived US before Yuxing deceased. They went on honeymoon right after Yuxing passed away and left the old couple to take care of the two kids Ning and Yuxing had. Later, he even asked the 70 years old deceased wife’s parents to take care of his new wife and stay in US till she delivers the baby! Moreover, Ning pushed Yuxing to become an US citizen 3 days before her final day so that her parents (who are Chinese citizens) won’t have anything to do with her property (according to Chinese law, a Chinese citizen’s property can be shared between her parents). Yuxing was a Facebook employee and Facebook paid $2MM as life insurance and another $50K for funeral. Ning does not want to spend any money on his deceased wife and buried her ash front yard of their house (where he and his new wife live now). Yuxing’s parents can’t stand the insult, they only want their daughter be buried properly. Ning also refused to buy them flight tickets back to China (due to COVID the tickets are very expensive), they had a fight and now Ning requested restraining order on the old couple. The old couple don’t speak English and have no one else to depend on in the US, if they are deported from US then they can’t see their grandchildren anymore! While Ning Yu’s behavior may not be against the law, it’s unethical and breaks the bottom line of a human being. 密码是mima12345 发表于 2022-03-16 23:29
next door上已经有人发了，但是感觉反响不大 可能OP只提到安装摄像头是否违法，老外也不知道这个事，还反问为什么不能装 jhr 发表于 2022-03-17 12:05
这个跟写有关系。太长细节太多反而没人看。。也没必要提是中国人和前岳父母钱上的纠纷。美国人不会理解为啥要给前岳父母钱，况且这个事情的关键也不是钱的划分。提钱容易带偏话题和当事人的恶劣性。 让读的人自己发挥想象空间和评判。建议改改写法如下： Suspicious Death at XXXXX(地址） The husband at this household remarried within two months after his wife suddenly died last year. The new wife had been preparing the wedding several months before the man‘s wife passed away. The man’s late wife was diagnosed with cancer but health condition deteriorated rapidly within one month and eventually died since this new woman moved into the area. The man cremated the body immediately and flushed the ashes to toilet. Grieving in laws confronted him and he filed a restraining order against them to keep them from further investigating. The man keeps all the insurance money and his late wife''s assets and is expecting a new baby with the new wife. Sounds like foul play or the man is just a scumbag?
这个跟写有关系。太长细节太多反而没人看。也没必要提是中国人。让读的人自己发挥想象空间和评判。建议改改写法如下： Suspicious Death at XXXXX(地址） The husband at this household remarried within two months after his wife suddenly died last year. The new wife had been preparing the wedding several months before the man''''s wife passed away. The man''''s late wife was diagnosed with cancer but health condition deteriorated rapidly within one month and eventually died since this new woman moved into the area. The man cremated the body immediately and flushed the ashes to toilet. Grieving in laws confronted him and he filed a restraining order against them to keep them from further investigating. The man keeps all the insurance money and his late wife''''s assets and is expecting a new baby with the new wife. Sounds like foul play or the man is just a scumbag? hellokitty00 发表于 2022-03-17 12:38
这个跟写有关系。太长细节太多反而没人看。也没必要提是中国人。让读的人自己发挥想象空间和评判。建议改改写法如下： Suspicious Death at XXXXX(地址） The husband at this household remarried within two months after his wife suddenly died last year. The new wife had been preparing the wedding several months before the man''''s wife passed away. The man''''s late wife was diagnosed with cancer but health condition deteriorated rapidly within one month and eventually died since this new woman moved into the area. The man cremated the body immediately and flushed the ashes to toilet. Grieving in laws confronted him and he filed a restraining order against them to keep them from further investigating. The man keeps all the insurance money and his late wife''''s assets and is expecting a new baby with the new wife. Sounds like foul play or the man is just a scumbag? hellokitty00 发表于 2022-03-17 12:38
这个写的不错，言简意赅。不过已经有很多post了。reddit普遍看法是要嘛fake， 要嘛是smearing campaign to arm-wrestle the man into giving money。the first post did more damage than good
这个证实了吗？如果是真的，现在微软门槛可真低，没有美国学历没有美国工作经历，是个人随便就能进
支持
直接说google manager
https://www.heart-in-diamond.com/burrying-ashes-yard.html
Moreover, Ning pushed Yuxing to become an US citizen 3 days before her final day so that her parents (who are Chinese citizens) won’t have anything to do with her property (according to Chinese law, a Chinese citizen’s property can be shared between her parents). Yuxing was a Facebook employee and Facebook paid $2MM as life insurance and another $50K for funeral. Ning does not want to spend any money on his deceased wife and buried her ash front yard of their house (where he and his new wife live now). Yuxing’s parents can’t stand the insult, they only want their daughter be buried properly. Ning also refused to buy them flight tickets back to China (due to COVID the tickets are very expensive), they had a fight and now Ning requested restraining order on the old couple. The old couple don’t speak English and have no one else to depend on in the US, if they are deported from US then they can’t see their grandchildren anymore!
While Ning Yu’s behavior may not be against the law, it’s unethical and breaks the bottom line of a human being.
你是不是人，有没有一点正义感公德心？
不是有那种早间节目八卦的哪一种或者new york post， 专门关注这种嘛？
跟Netflix 有啥关系?
回复不少看到chinese怀疑是scam，或者调侃房子deal，亚裔女性的命日常不是命的一天
看了。但这个帖子加了捐款的照片，把这个帖子带歪了，导致人们觉得是scams.
我为关注还专门download app，看了。还是觉得主要是因为有要捐款的照片，导致带偏了。
看了帖子。。。很多老美觉得是bogus，认为老人那$25k的商务机票要求离谱，而且还以为这个帖子是要募捐的。
都说了，去老美的论坛去发帖不能按中国人的思维。去那里发个贴贴个房子照片要人当心不要买那个房子 --- but is this really the intent? 这是市场经济。
辛苦你码字了 不过你这个英文真的是。。。看了第一句就看不下去了。“remarried someone 20 years his junior”是个啥表达，而且不都说了新老婆36岁吗
https://letyourlovegrow.com/blogs/blog/planting-cremation-ashes 老美看得开，不只院子，还看过直接放客厅茶几上当装饰的。
辛苦了。我觉得事情还写的挺清楚的。细节再改改就可以了。
就事论事，我倒不觉得是忌讳这样的。第一，美国人还是火葬的少。第二，如果火葬，一般是供骨灰盒在家里，而不是埋了，这是tradition.
我是说忌讳邻居这么干
美国人会因为邻居院子里晒被子或者不割草就告上法庭的。埋骨灰的邻居你试试有没有人告。
这个帖子名字像是在给这房子做广告
所以不是说他已经移走了吗？
你写一个呗？有说26的，所以写了20 junior
那个reddit回帖里很有代表性的一点就是，骨灰有的人撒海里或者洒在喜欢的地方都可以，免费，他们不觉得骨灰盒放前院是个多严重的事。埋在前院让很多人第一印象觉得埋了个尸体（说实话一开始看帖我也以为），后来发现只是骨灰盒貌似就没那么难接受。
我觉得关键点在于妻子生前选定好的burial ground，渣男给退了，把定金拿了回来，骨灰放家里。而且公司给了丧葬费的。
美国人再怎么大度自由，违背别人遗愿就为了吞钱，这不能忍吧？
说能帮忙告诉渣男渣女，西雅图不欢迎他们来！
贴的这两张图很不好，就像给房子打广告，第二张像scam, 换两张
如果妻子已经选好了埋葬地点，那就是要谴责！那是against her dead wishes.,这是要强调的地方，这样会获得大家的支持。
单纯地说把骨灰撒/埋在院子里（特别是后院），一般人会认为是妻子的愿望。毕竟中美文化传统不同。
没看出这个结论。你怎么看的？
随便弄个求捐款的截图更是不妥。
据说已经买好西雅图的房子了
个人看法
是不是应该写得简洁明了一些？ 可不可以用黑体字 列出重点(keywords)
这样看起来不会那么费劲
幸苦了，写了那么多，👍
不能评论网管，国内很流行，你不知道？
那个不是我发的哈，我还没有发，哪位大神能用中文把整件事写的清楚震撼一点，我翻译一下也行啊，写作能力实在是不行，唉
这个难道真的没有作案动机？尤其渣男特别指出是各种疗法是和前妻共同商量的，为啥要特别提这句？普通夫妻啥事都是一起商量的呀
如果重写，还是专注于闪婚，没有把她埋葬在她生前选的地方，等等这样不符合她遗愿的方面。至于其他，还是不要提女方父母了。这个in law关系和她父母在美国的不幸遭遇，在美国文化中，不太会引起共鸣。
同意。单纯说骨灰埋前院或者放家里，其实是需要解释其他背景情节的。不然就会稀里糊涂的人误以为自己在看一个悲痛欲绝舍不得亡妻离去的故事，有的人会本着不打搅的原则不会再继续读下去了。
不过，最近更新是前妻骨灰被他冲下水道了，加上违背对方遗愿这条，无论哪国人，对此人的人品跟动机理解上应该没有任何歧异了
不会有人告，我导师的骨灰就在她家院子里的花坛里
文章中可以强调一下中国的法律和风俗吧
如果他有说 截屏分享出来 加进去 他自己说的话不是大家造谣吧
可以强调这男的不陪老婆看医生，都是教会接送。老婆上厕所洗澡都是70多老父亲背。男主躲房间里上网相亲聊骚。在老婆死后，把岳父母当免费保姆，还一度哄他们给新妻坐月子，这就会刺激到老外了
我觉得可以前因后果说一下 人家那是为了纪念 我研究生时期租房的美国女室友 奶奶骨灰就放在她房间里。。。 他这个？。。。
不是要搬家了嘛
让这一对在朋友圈社区和职场臭掉就够他们喝一壶了 把这种事发在老美论坛上对华人整体形象有任何好处吗？让更多老美觉得某些老中的人品LOW穿地心？还是为了让他们觉得老中的价值观道德水平和行为方式与这里格格不入？ 现在有些奇怪的ID动不动就撺掇大伙把华人一些不好的事往老美论坛上发，打着抱不平的旗号干的是伤害华人整体利益的事。华人如果有什么好事却从没见有人号召大家广而告知让更多老美知道的。
如果冲骨灰去下水道是真的也算大事
这个一看就有谋杀的感觉。
这房子旁边就是一低洼处，嗯…………好房！
这个跟写有关系。太长细节太多反而没人看。。也没必要提是中国人和前岳父母钱上的纠纷。美国人不会理解为啥要给前岳父母钱，况且这个事情的关键也不是钱的划分。提钱容易带偏话题和当事人的恶劣性。
让读的人自己发挥想象空间和评判。建议改改写法如下：
Suspicious Death at XXXXX(地址）
The husband at this household remarried within two months after his wife suddenly died last year. The new wife had been preparing the wedding several months before the man‘s wife passed away. The man’s late wife was diagnosed with cancer but health condition deteriorated rapidly within one month and eventually died since this new woman moved into the area. The man cremated the body immediately and flushed the ashes to toilet. Grieving in laws confronted him and he filed a restraining order against them to keep them from further investigating. The man keeps all the insurance money and his late wife''s assets and is expecting a new baby with the new wife. Sounds like foul play or the man is just a scumbag?
祝福乔迁，花圈先快递一个过去。
这个稿子不错👍
里面说了渣男的光荣事迹
这个推理真的是靠谱，因为那个女的在国内三月份辞职的时候就是和同事说她老公要带她去美国了，所以四月份开始办签证，预约结婚一点都不奇怪，也能证明为什么男的特别着急拿到死亡证明，因为这个拿不到，呆了预约的结婚日期没办法结婚
不是有人说搞错了不是这个吗？
👍
这个写的不错，言简意赅。不过已经有很多post了。reddit普遍看法是要嘛fake， 要嘛是smearing campaign to arm-wrestle the man into giving money。the first post did more damage than good
谢谢！ 这就发！！这男的是济南的吧。我也是济南的，我得 好好得认认真真得转发一下！！
我觉得不算，我虽然显示生活中没听说过关于骨灰的是，但看哪个美剧中好像也有因为生配偶的气或是生父母气，直接把骨灰冲厕所的情节，好像还看到过不止一次，这种事外人不了解细节都没法判断谁对谁错