家里龙凤胎姐弟干架怎么处理

最近看到个视频龙凤胎两姐弟打架，家长不劝架不拉架，大家觉得这种做法好不好呢？  两姐弟打架的时候，客厅中不仅有爸爸在，还有奶奶也在场。可是爸爸看见姐弟俩打架，甚至还往后挪了挪，把战场给让出来，而奶奶则站在旁边淡定“观战”，也没有要劝架的意思。爸爸称：都是自己的孩子，不好劝架。两人天天打，不敢多说话，怕说拉偏架。

感觉也不是没有道理

哈哈哈 好有道理

这是要适者生存优胜劣汰吗

I think the parents should properly guide them to see what their relationship to each other is. I don't get into the fight between my daughters and asking them to solve it out. But it looks like they are pretty physical in terms of their fight. That is a big no no. Certain fundamental rules and respect should still be taught. if these fundamentals are not taught in school, they need to do it at home. That is a principal issue not a relationship issue.

回复 2楼Pamper的帖子
我也觉得

回复 4楼七七曲奇的帖子
哈哈

太幽默了

姐姐很厉害的样子

不过我觉得这种年龄相差不大的可以效仿父母做法

小打小闹的让他们自己解决

哈哈

回复 11楼花生芝麻的帖子
对

当然是看他们打啊，如果是我估计还会拿盘瓜子在旁边一边嗑一边叫好。当然，规矩是不能动用武器，不能损坏我的摆设和家具，否则就是我修理他们了。

明智啊。让小孩自己分出胜负，父母不拉偏架

哈哈

这招不错

不过二胎年龄差距大的不太适合

可啊，学到了

我同意上面一个id的说法 不要介入两人的关系，但需要建立一些基本的规矩 比如说谁先动手谁受惩罚，不能骂脏话，不能拿东西打人，等等 拉偏架固然不对，完全不管也是父母的失职

确实不该拉偏架

回复 11楼花生芝麻的帖子
我也觉得，看着不对劲是该干预的

这个适用于二胎家庭，哈哈

I think the parents should properly guide them to see what their relationship to each other is. I don't get into the fight between my daughters and asking them to solve it out. But it looks like they are pretty physical in terms of their fight. That is a big no no. Certain fundamental rules and respect should still be taught. if these fundamentals are not taught in school, they need to do it at home. That is a principal issue not a relationship issue.
sNoOpY_cA 发表于 2022-02-12 22:05

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看他们打，打完再收拾

哈哈，围观吧

我们家差两岁，从小的能直立行走行走开始就争呀吵的， 如果在我们旁边吵就制止，我老公说他觉得他现在被他们吵的听力受损。 如果不在旁边，我们就懒得管，让他们菜鸟互啄了

回复 27楼YSYS888的帖子
哈哈，声音很大吗