回复 1楼audralin的帖子 Why not trying going to the best possible school? Sending in application doesn't hurt. If she was able to but she didn't try, she'll regret one day. Saying "do whatever you are happy" is easy, especially to the other's kids. Our role is to make sure they won't regret, and we won't regret.
现在躺平太早了,至少要奋斗以后发现能力不够了再躺平,那时候可以躺在更高的地方。明明有10分的能力,只想用5分,躺在山脚下,那是懒惰。
各有利弊,你应该鼓励她做你想让她成为的人。因为她是你的孩子,在她成人之前你有权力也有义务这么做。这个世界没有完美的事而且你永远没机会知道走另一条路的结果会是什么。相信你自己的判断,相信你女儿的智慧,相信她最终得到的就是最好的,最适合她的。我也有一个这样的孩子,这些不是大话。
我没有鼓励她成为我想让她成为的人,我鼓励她做自己喜欢的事情,但是要尽力做到自己的最好。我觉得二代有一个魔咒,让他们失去了父母的奋斗精神。
"她做自己喜欢的事情,但是要尽力做到自己的最好"就是你想让她成为的人.
这难道不是父母的责任吗?我不认为父母对孩子没有要求,一切随孩子的意愿就对了。她可能现在高兴了,以后呢?难道不会后悔年轻的时候没有努力?其实如果不是我的孩子,我才不会管她。
Why not trying going to the best possible school? Sending in application doesn't hurt. If she was able to but she didn't try, she'll regret one day.
Saying "do whatever you are happy" is easy, especially to the other's kids. Our role is to make sure they won't regret, and we won't regret.