我想起那天才在Reddit看了一个贴,一个中年男用户说他体验了prostate orgasm之后: 以下英文为引用: Now don't get me wrong, our sex life is amazing, but when I compare the two, the prostate orgasm is a full on 1812 overture, cannons firing, fireworks going off and the fucking blue angels fly overhead. "Regular" orgasms are...a dollar store popper. 他用玩具自己第一次体验了prostate高潮,然后去和老婆商量想incorporate into bedroom, 可是他老婆不喜欢anal, 就拒绝了。然后他很失望: I am completely at a loss. Like I said, this is like comparing a full fledged symphony to a 3yr old squeaking out "hot cross buns" on a recorder. Ladies, imagine getting by with a minor "pop" then being introduced to a magic wand or one of those clit suckers and then your partner tells you "never again, I find them revolting"!! 哈哈哈我觉得他写的语言好生动,笑死人了。
我想起那天才在Reddit看了一个贴,一个中年男用户说他体验了prostate orgasm之后: 以下英文为引用: Now don't get me wrong, our sex life is amazing, but when I compare the two, the prostate orgasm is a full on 1812 overture, cannons firing, fireworks going off and the fucking blue angels fly overhead. "Regular" orgasms are...a dollar store popper. 他用玩具自己第一次体验了prostate高潮,然后去和老婆商量想incorporate into bedroom, 可是他老婆不喜欢anal, 就拒绝了。然后他很失望: I am completely at a loss. Like I said, this is like comparing a full fledged symphony to a 3yr old squeaking out "hot cross buns" on a recorder. Ladies, imagine getting by with a minor "pop" then being introduced to a magic wand or one of those clit suckers and then your partner tells you "never again, I find them revolting"!! 哈哈哈我觉得他写的语言好生动,笑死人了。 otokorashii_onna 发表于 2021-07-13 20:46
我想起那天才在Reddit看了一个贴,一个中年男用户说他体验了prostate orgasm之后: 以下英文为引用: Now don't get me wrong, our sex life is amazing, but when I compare the two, the prostate orgasm is a full on 1812 overture, cannons firing, fireworks going off and the fucking blue angels fly overhead. "Regular" orgasms are...a dollar store popper. 他用玩具自己第一次体验了prostate高潮,然后去和老婆商量想incorporate into bedroom, 可是他老婆不喜欢anal, 就拒绝了。然后他很失望: I am completely at a loss. Like I said, this is like comparing a full fledged symphony to a 3yr old squeaking out "hot cross buns" on a recorder. Ladies, imagine getting by with a minor "pop" then being introduced to a magic wand or one of those clit suckers and then your partner tells you "never again, I find them revolting"!! 哈哈哈我觉得他写的语言好生动,笑死人了。 otokorashii_onna 发表于 2021-07-13 20:46
个人经历,人到中年常规体检要检查前列腺。偏偏约到的医生还是个女医生,俄罗斯移民来的,年纪和我差不多,很秀气。 It wasn''''t planned otherwise I might have chosen a male doctor. I had no idea the annual physical exam covers prostate exam。It was super weird。。。to have her finger plugged into my butthole. 好像有一点点快感。 Then she asked to check my testicles ... I guess as part of cancer screening. Oh, well, she''''s a professional and it''''s just part of her job, I guess. But it did make me question if i would ever want to marry a medical doctor.
回复 19楼changheruhailiu的帖子 哈哈,巧合我先生拣选的医生也是位俄罗斯移民来的。她常轻描谈写的语气对我先生说:「well, at your age, it is consider normal.」他通常揀50歲以上的女醫生。可是第一次夠年齡去做 前列腺 體檢時,剛好他揀的醫生放假,代她的是一位大概30歲的亞裔女醫生,他感覺非常awkward。 而我,人到中年才第一次拣选个男妇科医生,是白男。我先生同意的。第一次看他就是每年的例行子宫颈抽样检验。还好,有女护士在场以免性侵的误会诉讼事件发生。第一次见他,就第一位医生主动给我更年期资料带回家阅读。我不想认老也不得以。
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个人意见哈,关于性器官的称呼:
一般性的matter-of-factly讨论时,称小妹妹比鲍鱼/黑木耳好,后者还是有物化器官的意思。更支持直接用科学名词。我们想把这个论坛做的正大光明,把对两性生活的讨论正常化,去妖魔化,所以用科学名词更适合公众的讨论。 那些带颜色的名词(小骚穴,小逼逼,等),私密环境中可以是双方都享受的dirty talk的一部分。如果帖子context和dirty talk相关,直接这么称呼无妨。如果是一般context, 还是希望少用或不用。
我们是一个科学的大方的讨论这些事的论坛,毕竟不是情色论坛。使用带颜色的词语,如果不是context需要,确实比较难和本版主旨兼容。
另外版规第二条明确指出了本版kink-friendly哈。提醒一下 。
以下英文为引用: Now don't get me wrong, our sex life is amazing, but when I compare the two, the prostate orgasm is a full on 1812 overture, cannons firing, fireworks going off and the fucking blue angels fly overhead. "Regular" orgasms are...a dollar store popper.
他用玩具自己第一次体验了prostate高潮,然后去和老婆商量想incorporate into bedroom, 可是他老婆不喜欢anal, 就拒绝了。然后他很失望:
I am completely at a loss. Like I said, this is like comparing a full fledged symphony to a 3yr old squeaking out "hot cross buns" on a recorder. Ladies, imagine getting by with a minor "pop" then being introduced to a magic wand or one of those clit suckers and then your partner tells you "never again, I find them revolting"!!
哈哈哈我觉得他写的语言好生动,笑死人了。
实话说我还没有试过anal,不论是自己的还是伴侣的,主要是太太生小孩的时候长了痔疮,一直也没有消除,这个事情提都不敢提。
这个有意思,如果他自己用玩具达到了前列腺高潮(猜想一下可能是震动棒),那他要他太太如何配合呢?帮他操作玩具? 还是他要她也试试anal?
另外这个好像要循序渐进?先上个butt plug适应一下?
你在reddit逛哪几个版啊,说的我好想去看看 哈哈哈。。
搜索 pegging
我也不知道,可能是用女方用finger condom?或者其他形式的stimulation?
(我也没这方面经验。哈哈哈。目前我和partner都对这个没啥兴趣。以后再说。)
原帖在这儿 https://www.reddit.com/r/sexover30/comments/of93hx/i_think_our_sex_life_is_ruined/
其实我现在很少去了。几年前“知识积累期”经常去潜水。哈哈哈。前两天是因为要参照他们的版规,去看了一眼。
以前,open relationship版,dead bedroom版,包括surviving infidelity版,adultery版,我都去潜过水。了解世界的窗口啊!哈哈哈。
哈哈哈多谢多谢,我去学习学习
我觉得不需要太敏感,楼主也说明的听清楚了。dirty talk本身也算是性爱的一个元素,之前不是还专门讨论过吗。
嗯你说的对,谢谢!我刚才写的没表达清楚。 修改了。这样有好一点吗?
我也要去学习一下。
读这层楼贴文后有感而发我个人的数据点:
我先生在过往每一段亲密关系中,大概每10次性爱就有一次「肛交」的。他是直男,他有许多女性伴侣都喜欢。有一位喜欢在阴道高潮后,再插入肛门,会带给她弟二次的 高潮。
有一位只能趁她睡觉半醒中插入肛门,她才会够放松来享受。
我呢,他最花资源心思调教我的肛交「体能」,随后还是只插入四分之一而已就给我以「生小孩的时候长了痔疮」为由而搁置了给我肛交的性爱环节。
不过偶尔他会要求我用手指插进他肛门的性爱环节。這,我樂意奉陪!
「butt plug」这个,我先生买了一个很高雅漂亮的给我。
我们用了好几次。对上一次是我穿上全副 French Maid 的服装,插上那肛门塞两个小时。
我先生特别喜欢后入翘臀的我。每一下都顶到我尽头,冲到我很有实在感,撞到我云飞魄散!欲仙欲死,不知何来何去,唯有全然交给他操作我的整体。
还有将有红宝石的肛塞塞住我肛门来在后抽插我。未来得及拎肛塞就用渠手指。
女生肛交也有这么强烈的快感吗?
个人的数据点:有些女生而言,good enough to have 高潮。只是,不是我个人的性味而已。
我试过,肛门太紧,几个手指都进不去。也许我不适合吧。
Then she asked to check my testicles ... I guess as part of cancer screening.
Oh, well, she''''s a professional and it''''s just part of her job, I guess.
But it did make me question if i would ever want to marry a medical doctor.
哈哈,巧合我先生拣选的医生也是位俄罗斯移民来的。她常轻描谈写的语气对我先生说:「well, at your age, it is consider normal.」他通常揀50歲以上的女醫生。可是第一次夠年齡去做 前列腺 體檢時,剛好他揀的醫生放假,代她的是一位大概30歲的亞裔女醫生,他感覺非常awkward。 而我,人到中年才第一次拣选个男妇科医生,是白男。我先生同意的。第一次看他就是每年的例行子宫颈抽样检验。还好,有女护士在场以免性侵的误会诉讼事件发生。第一次见他,就第一位医生主动给我更年期资料带回家阅读。我不想认老也不得以。