你说话太难听了。这是募捐原文。没说头等舱,是商务舱,癌症最晚期还要坐长途飞机,我觉得不算过份。 https://www.gofundme.com/f/tao-yu-memorial-fund Tao was single, having no family in the U.S. He is the only child of his parents. His parents would like to come to the U.S. to honor their son and to see the body of their only child for one last time. They have retired and are living on social security in China. Tao's mom is currently fighting cancer and is at the late stages of her disease. Various treatments have brought financial challenges to the family that Tao was helping to alleviate. Given Mrs. Yu's current health condition, a 24-hour international flight will be a significant physical challenge, and thus, business class flight tickets are needed quickly (which also increases the cost to the family). Tao's parents would like him to be buried in Grand Forks based on his love of North Dakota and the many dreams he shared with them regarding this region and the warm people he cared for here. The funeral, cemetery, and travel costs will be an additional financial burden well beyond the emotional heartbreak that Tao's parents are currently experiencing.
你说话太难听了。这是募捐原文。没说头等舱,是商务舱,癌症最晚期还要坐长途飞机,我觉得不算过份。 https://www.gofundme.com/f/tao-yu-memorial-fund Tao was single, having no family in the U.S. He is the only child of his parents. His parents would like to come to the U.S. to honor their son and to see the body of their only child for one last time. They have retired and are living on social security in China. Tao's mom is currently fighting cancer and is at the late stages of her disease. Various treatments have brought financial challenges to the family that Tao was helping to alleviate. Given Mrs. Yu's current health condition, a 24-hour international flight will be a significant physical challenge, and thus, business class flight tickets are needed quickly (which also increases the cost to the family). Tao's parents would like him to be buried in Grand Forks based on his love of North Dakota and the many dreams he shared with them regarding this region and the warm people he cared for here. The funeral, cemetery, and travel costs will be an additional financial burden well beyond the emotional heartbreak that Tao's parents are currently experiencing.
这跟多少钱没有关系 5万不是个大数 大家关心的是难处有没有解决 有没有尽快很好的解决 很多事情不是花点钱就能解决的 信息公开才能保证群策群力 也有监督作用
另外 说实话 5万杯水车薪 我愿意相信Yu教授家的情况是真实的 如果组织者能有一个大概的plan并保证信息公开 更多人会愿意帮助 不光是赴美的费用 应该会募集到更多的资金和资源
太痛心了。
你有看过哪个go fund是跟有基金会运作一样这么正规的去给明细的,risk based approach 好吗?本来是个小数目,人家帮忙筹款的人也是义务帮忙,还要去做这些琐事。别动不动就跟怀疑红十字会似的
捐款本来就是敏感话题 华人上各种历史事件本来就多 我是看到这个帖子热度并不高 而且还没捐够5万 就说了两句 出发点是解除可能一部分人的疑虑 能最大程度帮到Yu教授家 仅此而已 不用想太多 真没兴趣也没时间做网络警察
university of North Dakota 的life insurance 太差了 查了一下 如果不自己额外买,只有$12,000
他父母得多痛心啊,bless
我就想说这情况不能就父亲过来吗?非要一个癌症病人坐头等舱过来?
妈妈想见孩子最后一面 别管妈妈身体如何 这种心情有什么好judge吗?
她自己时日无多,想来送独子最后一程,情有可原吧。怀疑这个老母亲有没有继续生活下去的勇气
这是给TT Faculty的吗?真是悲催。。。
自杀?干嘛用马甲?层主请用大号。哪儿听说的?
应该是TT的 12000这完全失去了买life insurance 的意义嘛。
关乎死者的事情,如果你不能确认的话,就不要在网上说什么听说。你要这么讲,我还可以说听复旦校友说的是打了疫苗两天后去世的呢。还有捐款数目也很正常,丧葬费很贵的,那些千人的脚踩两只船的教授七处房产还能募到百万呢。上次被MIT博士打死的耶鲁华裔,妈妈是单亲连车都没有,也是很久都没多少人捐助。在美华人真是挺奇怪的群体,庄安安有保险有父母有丈夫反而比这些死后留下孤独父母的人得到更多同情和捐款。匪夷所思。
这种"怪像"其实不怪。
骗捐集团有拖儿,上蹿下跳地带节奏,煽动性强,自然打动的人多。 真实募捐不会做这种事。
不过楼主如果看到,有空的话也可以给个update,回答一些疑问。有网友想关心yu教授父母以及后事情况。好人一生平安。
是呀。他这个年纪买50万的term20 年也就每年200多刀。
基本老妈和自己死撑都是为了美国资本家。。
凭啥丧葬费让中国人捐?
我看问题就这么马克思,从经济基础来讲。。。
他回复旦或国内其他高校 早教授结婚成家了 他妈买点中药治疗 未必死。。
一家子糊涂虫。。
听我的路子孩子有了 现在绝后还要求爷爷告奶奶
……自己的独子去世,还会考虑自己?
那么无私还会考虑网友捐款头等舱才来? 没人捐款就不来?
就是庄安安这种人把后来人害了呀。。。
实事求是得讲,老妈心脏不好,坐头等舱来美必要性不是很足。现在来美国不是还得第三地先呆14天?与其折腾,还不如省下钱来治病,让老父亲一个人来。如果我是朋友我会这么劝。也许孵蛋校友会觉得自己很给力。
没说不捐不过来啊,只是网友/校友想尽一点心意而已
你最多就不捐,干嘛揣那么大恶意对一对失独老人?
这个募捐是university of Dakota 的老师和同学组织的 不是复旦校友会 你们去看看go fund me就知道了。 捐款的很多人是于教授的本科,研究生 工作的同事朋友,我不觉得复旦校友会出了什么力。credit不要给错了
应该是疫苗,我打第二针2-3天内心脏微痛。单身男女最怕心绞痛发作,因为没有人帮助报警叫救护车。北美国男挺惨了,我和他基本一样,也是30多一直找不到对象,我打疫苗之前也犹豫了一个多月。单身的最好有个室友或者住密集型apartment,起码有个邻居可以照应!
what is ur problem
强RE。
华人不允许放捐款link
我记得休斯顿的晚期癌症单亲妈妈的帖子好像放过捐款链接
楼主放过link, 被版主删除了
一个没本事还有病的老太婆,你求网友捐助来给你儿子送葬,一开口就是头等舱,你当捐款人是傻子还是冤大头?你是来旅游还是来参加儿子葬礼的?章YY一家人吃相那么难看也没见他们坐头等舱来美国。你要求别人捐助,先把自己的理好,不是你死了儿子别人就有义务要帮助你。
你说话太难听了。这是募捐原文。没说头等舱,是商务舱,癌症最晚期还要坐长途飞机,我觉得不算过份。 https://www.gofundme.com/f/tao-yu-memorial-fund Tao was single, having no family in the U.S. He is the only child of his parents. His parents would like to come to the U.S. to honor their son and to see the body of their only child for one last time. They have retired and are living on social security in China. Tao's mom is currently fighting cancer and is at the late stages of her disease. Various treatments have brought financial challenges to the family that Tao was helping to alleviate. Given Mrs. Yu's current health condition, a 24-hour international flight will be a significant physical challenge, and thus, business class flight tickets are needed quickly (which also increases the cost to the family). Tao's parents would like him to be buried in Grand Forks based on his love of North Dakota and the many dreams he shared with them regarding this region and the warm people he cared for here. The funeral, cemetery, and travel costs will be an additional financial burden well beyond the emotional heartbreak that Tao's parents are currently experiencing.
这样的话应该尸检吧?
这也太刻薄啦, 那位可怜的老母亲, 临终还要万里奔波地跟爱子告别, 希望你未来永远不用落入她那样的境地.
做个人吧
是哦!简直了
叹为观止
re 像几个跳梁小丑一样 恶心至极🤢
你如果跟这个老太婆一样,我们号召大家给你捐款,希望到时候你不要跟着家人一样吃相那么难看。
你自己花钱,坐超级火箭都没有人管你。如果你要求别人给你捐款,自己不能把自己的位置稍微端正一点吗?张口就是商务舱头等舱的,好像全世界人民都欠你家的。你儿子死了,作为校友或者朋友捐款,无可厚非。你搞的兴师动众要一群没有关系的老百姓给你捐款,一张口就是为了坐商务舱来美国。这里很多捐款的人都是工薪阶级上有老下有小的,大家谁捐钱的容易的。把别人的好心当作理所当然到底是谁下作?
居然还有些人觉得这个要求是合理的,你一个癌症晚期患者要求出门,如果你能自理你付自己所有的旅行费用,who cares. 不是不捐款就能任由这些人妄为的。
至于买商务舱,可能也是志愿者考虑于教授父母身体情况提出来的方案。他父母那么大年纪,又涉及跨国,各种事情不一定知道怎么处理,应该就是听志愿者安排。
“——————众人拾材火焰高,感谢大家的慷慨解囊——————
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回去的绿码+2*14隔离,还有老人以后的生活治疗,希望志愿者也给考虑到了 gofundme 目标5万,现在快9万了,希望愿意缅怀或帮助于教授的朋友继续加油,众人拾材火焰高,老人以后用钱的地方还很多
bless~~~
不管多少钱,只要是他父母在用,没问题。
希望版上一些人能多为自己留点口德吧
这学校这么抠,估计薪水也低
复旦或者985高校是肯定回不了的,于教授没有姜博士那么好运气跟上华人教授,于教授的导师的是东欧男(最坏最坏的了)。于教授找不到牛推,在国内高校又没有任何人脉。
https://academictree.org/chemistry/peopleinfo.php?pid=133184
但回国还是可以的,North Dakota的tt faculty还没有上海美团送外卖挣得多,而且复旦本科在上海找个文职工作也不是难事。
姜博士就是个懦夫,请不要为他洗白了 https://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.html?topicid=2695861
机票、葬礼、墓地加起来这么贵吗?具体每项要多少钱呀?
哪里查到的?这么差劲吗?那干嘛还有人要当教授啊。
hualihu 就是闻名四扬的美国医闹,现在可以体会到一点他的闹功。
怪不得!
我老公是他大学的同寝室室友,你描述的这种情况闻所未闻。想问下你这个朋友到底认识的是复旦网络学院还是复旦成人教育学院,还是复旦太平洋金融学院的yu tao?哪个鱼哪个桃?
你这就是何不食肉糜了。没准人家全部家底加起来也买不起头等舱。