回复 16楼tidewater的帖子 Passion: noun any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate. strong amorous feeling or desire; love; ardor. strong sexual desire; lust. an instance or experience of strong love or sexual desire. a person toward whom one feels strong love or sexual desire. a strong or extravagant fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for anything: a passion for music. 你说的温情是啥,tenderness,warmth,还是friendship?
回复 18楼的帖子 https://app.box.com/s/tgjg5fqpsb93vh7vg933gg746gifv8s1 I heard she sang a good song, I heard she had a style. And so I came to see her and listen for a while. And there she was this young girl, a stranger to my eyes. Strumming my pain with her fingers, Singing my life with her words, Killing me softly with her song, Killing me softly with her song, Telling my whole life with her words, Killing me softly with her song She sang as if she knew me in all my dark despair And then she looked right through me as if I wasn’t there. But she just came to singing, singing clear and strong. Strumming my pain with her fingers, Singing my life with her words, Killing me softly with her song, Killing me softly with her song, Telling my whole life with her words, Killing me softly with her song Killing me softly, with her song.
哈哈,有娃之后感觉就2还可以了,其他都变成了奢侈
哈哈有道理的,我马克一下激励自己
问题是 date market 不等于 mate market ,,,
有一说一的讲,这里1-3 我自认为都做到了。
第4点确实是,我做完就非常放松,往往很快就睡着了。好在太太还没有微词。
现在先占个坑,回头我细说😀。
从环境上来说,要营造一个怦然心动的居住场所。 从体力上来说,要锻炼身体让自己的雄性激素得以释放。 从心情上来说,一定要selfcare 。。。
要有感恩的心,多记录值得感恩的事情。 要给自己充电,比如冥想,阅读。 要做一些creative的事情,比如画画,写作,园艺等。 要有童心,比如跟着音乐跳silly的舞蹈。
。。。 要保持终身学习 聊天时能inspire 彼此 对方遇到挑战,能提供不一样的视角看问题 自己遇到困难,不会理直气壮的blame伴侣 。。。 要有self-awareness 要敢于show vulnerability 要活在当下,be present 。。。 我自己的最终答案,让婚姻或恋爱有激情的唯一方法,就是对生命有激情。
吃货不是错。但为了吃而放弃整个家庭的亲密关系和亲子关系,属于走火入魔、过犹不及。
是的,对人生有激情不代表对性有激情,标题写的是关系中如何维持激情,我没聊性。
你回帖都不看标题和内容吗
我觉得对于稳定关系而言,有些人更在乎激情,有些人更在意温情。
我觉得婚前万花丛中过、片叶不沾身的,也不一定觉得值得追求所谓的激情了。
水车回帖为神马要看帖?
Passion:
noun any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate. strong amorous feeling or desire; love; ardor. strong sexual desire; lust. an instance or experience of strong love or sexual desire. a person toward whom one feels strong love or sexual desire. a strong or extravagant fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for anything: a passion for music.
你说的温情是啥,tenderness,warmth,还是friendship?
你灌水的目的是啥呢
https://app.box.com/s/tgjg5fqpsb93vh7vg933gg746gifv8s1
I heard she sang a good song, I heard she had a style.
And so I came to see her and listen for a while.
And there she was this young girl, a stranger to my eyes.
Strumming my pain with her fingers, Singing my life with her words,
Killing me softly with her song, Killing me softly with her song, Telling my whole life with her words, Killing me softly with her song
She sang as if she knew me in all my dark despair
And then she looked right through me as if I wasn’t there.
But she just came to singing, singing clear and strong.
Strumming my pain with her fingers, Singing my life with her words,
Killing me softly with her song, Killing me softly with her song, Telling my whole life with her words, Killing me softly with her song
Killing me softly, with her song.
给某些人找堵哈哈哈哈哈哈哈
我觉得维持激情,和有温情根本就不冲突,也不是说只能二选一。维持激情是为了不让关系落入激情的反面: Passion Antonyms: coolness, indifference, apathy, coldness, frigidity, iciness
每次看见sex is overrated这种话,我就想那你觉得啥underrated,那就为这件事发声,为什么要花时间,为了overrated的事情,投入精力灌水呢。
(潮水哥除外,因为是我三番五次邀请来的。)
给某些人找堵的目的又是啥呢?
呵呵,握爪!
躲在屏幕后面偷偷笑翻在地上
我当了两个娃的妈妈后,很胖,蹉跎,不打扮,不化妆。 后来开始捯饬自己后,最不适应的其实是自己,老觉得反差太大。
这样的例子床上也很多,我也写了不少了。
人有时候自己内心戏太多了,导致不敢改变。
只要自己汗毛是顺的,别人汗毛怎么样,有关系吗?
潮水哥,为什么不能先吃一通再和孩子其乐融融阿?
因为他觉得人生没有选择
笑翻后呢?继续灌水 灌水后呢?继续笑翻
我看见的pattern,subgroup,高智商,物理,没选择,音乐,cuddle,个体差异…
漏了 Dali ?
我忘了配图了
是的哈,我记得有段时间一到周日我们俩就吵架,后来发现的pattern就是周日保姆休息,哈哈哈
Failed on both math and CS course I believe?
是的,我选择了不好好学习理工科
我来展开讲讲这个。Again,自己的情况,同大家分享一下。
记得版主之前分享过爱的五种语言。我很赞同。我也是在老夫老妻之后,才逐渐自我发现,我的爱的语言之一是身体的语言。所以从前几年开始,我经常给太太按摩,就是按按脚和小腿,太太觉得舒服,我也觉得不错,满足了touch太太的需要。按的时候倒没有香薰,只是用上精油,这样好推一些,谈不上多专业,就是大家放松一下。音乐我一般放些自己喜欢的老歌,整个过程我自己也很relax。
关于内衣,我这里(https://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.html?topicid=2643039&page=2)“推荐情趣内衣”,里十三楼讲了。
我们到没有盖被子纯聊天,这种情况下,我们一般是各自上网。但我们经常饭后散步,这个是我们分享最近新鲜有趣的书和事情的时间。