Have a heart to heart conversation with him. Seek counselling. Hire a nanny while you sort out the counselling piece. You will need the nanny if you divorce anyways. Yes, you can divorce him. I would not want to be with someone like this either unless I see meaningful changes. But secretly consult a lawyer first. You need to protect yourself financially and physically.
You do not need to look for a step father. Look for a good counsellor for you son first. You will feel much better, if you do 50:50 custody and have children living with him some days in a week. And you will have time to look for another mate.
Have a heart to heart conversation with him. Seek counselling. Hire a nanny while you sort out the counselling piece. You will need the nanny if you divorce anyways. Yes, you can divorce him. I would not want to be with someone like this either unless I see meaningful changes. But secretly consult a lawyer first. You need to protect yourself financially and physically. doorsopen 发表于 2020-09-23 19:43
Let me assure you: If you do this divorce right, your life can be much better. There are good people out there. Love yourself, choose wisely, you will be fine. Do not be afraid to divorce for the right reason. It''s painful at the beginning but you will fine. You are stronger than you think.
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单纯问一下这上下文里的 “邻里关系” 是不是指 “隔壁老王关系” ?
我以为是我写的,也是没仔细看,就看到这一句了。什么样的男人或者女人,可以把公共厕纸带回家?这样的人,太让人呕吐了,做朋友都嫌弃。
🛋️ 沙发板凳
楼主过得太苦了。既然还年轻, 欲求不满, 长得也好看, 还吃苦勤劳,里里外外都能干, 个性也好, (过得这么苦,可是主楼里也没什么恶言, 应该属于心善的人), 楼主真的不如另找一个。
"身材匀称胸大性欲强,任何不要脸的动作"
太委屈了。
不是坑 我没说他聊骚 是还跟以前的女网友有联系网上聊天这种
谢谢理解,我眼泪都在打转。 我总心软 怕离婚对孩子影响大。觉得找不到对娃好的后爹。老大刚初中 怕青春期因为离婚而变得很叛逆 跟他一起过离婚 他很不愿意爸妈分开。
LG是正直老实的好人,也算得上好爸爸,不过不算好老公
不过我感觉楼主和老公沟通不太好,不然不会积这么多毛病。还是先尝试一下沟通解决吧,你自己的底线问题都摆出来。
女网友都是国内的 聊天内容也还正常 我让他给我看过
不要和前几天的贴一样,吐槽到最后变成秀恩爱了,,,,,,假设你老公改不了了,你一楼里面哪些是你的原则底线问题?
他中午起来吃现成饭再上班,偶尔管娃,但对娃非常没耐心,吼娃,而且坚持打娃是应该的,并且埋怨我跟他管娃方式不统一,导致娃更难管,于是让我一个人管
这是引用的一楼,你跟我说说这怎么算好爸爸。
如果小孩不愿意,就这个吧。不过楼主处理好,找个信得过的。
我也只看到这一条了
身材匀称胸大性欲强 楼主我保证今天晚上你站内信箱已经要炸掉了。。。。
PS。老公阳痿是一回事,但是不乐意用口和手 please 你吗?心里上没阳痿就可以啊,你为啥长年得不到满足呢?他不愿意满足你吗?
搞不好异地的时候外面就有人了。
抱抱MM 唉有了孩子真是两难啊 我觉得男孩子青春期很难带 我有高中男孩以前和我很亲的 现在都是不理我的都和他爸说的。你 找个情人算了 后爸真的太难找孩子接受 男方真的疼他们的 不要听网上说的传奇。中美男子都一样的。不要相信白雷锋。黄雷锋。祝福你。
为什么啊? 大家批渣男的时候不是都说,婚姻不幸福可以先离婚,不离婚先出轨的就是渣!这样的吗
他愿意的 但一年也没没几次 还得求着
让用别的方式,男人会觉得是女方无理取闹,因为这是对他性能力的侮辱,性能力差的男人,都认为自己很正常,都认为是女方索欲无度,最大的问题是,男的不会因为这个有内疚感,都理直气壮的觉得自己正常,还很要命的是,女方在婚姻中变的很被动,根本没有被宠爱的感觉,只有男人追着老婆要满足的时候,女人无论身心,都有极大的成就感,现在是老婆追着男人要满足,男人在家会很拽的,不仅不宠老婆,还让老婆有备受屈辱的感觉,毕竟正常情况下是男追女,男宠女,现在全反过来了,女人有苦难言啊。
Have a heart to heart conversation with him. Seek counselling. Hire a nanny while you sort out the counselling piece. You will need the nanny if you divorce anyways. Yes, you can divorce him. I would not want to be with someone like this either unless I see meaningful changes. But secretly consult a lawyer first. You need to protect yourself financially and physically.
Yepp, that's why I ask her to consult a lawyer to come up with the best terms and conditions for divorce.
You do not need to look for a step father. Look for a good counsellor for you son first. You will feel much better, if you do 50:50 custody and have children living with him some days in a week. And you will have time to look for another mate.
Thank you for speaking my mind, LOL
看来一定要送杜蕾斯月饼 -- 但愿人持久,千里共婵娟 。。。
人生苦短,为自己多想想。可以试试一人带一个娃。
开放式婚姻吧。唉,楼主可怜,这么好的身体闲置了。
这些建议说得好。
楼主心软也有些糊涂。要改变就切切实实着手做点事。 Counseling 先约起来。 Lawyer 也先了解起来。
Thanks. Divorce is hard. But it is worthwhile in the right situation. I sure hope OP have a better life in the future.
没图没真相啊,呀呼嘿嘿一呼呀嘿
更关键的是 “任何"不要脸"的动作剧我都尝试过” 里的 “任何” 吧 。。。 https://sexpositions.club 都试过?
把那句删了 谢谢你
谢谢你 为了不让人想歪 我还是把那句删了
不想忍 但又害怕离婚带来的问题 所以来寻求鼓励和好的解决方式或建议。他的生理问题我无法向任何亲人朋友述说,只能来华人吐槽
如果为了俩娃,牺牲了自己,那也是自己愿意。和别人没关系。
其实父母长辈亲友,对所谓的生理问题的理解度,是非常通情达理的,你说别的原因他们还会劝你忍,如果提到YW,基本大家都觉得可以离,别看中国人或者老一辈保守,但是基本的原则还是很清晰的,守活寡这事,谁都不会劝你忍,都不忍心。
I will delete my quotation too. Take care and be strong. I am rooting for you!
没错 守活寡 在外人看来还是好丈夫 幸福家庭
生理问题要么有的治,否则就无解。
不仅仅是这个 。。。 根据 human evolutionary biology 的 sexy son / beautiful daughter hypothesis,很难想象还愿意结婚生娃,除非其他方面有过人之处。
+1
真没看出任何一个地方爱楼主,有时候女人认为男人老实其实只是男人懒惰而已
Are you male or female?
咋啦?为啥问这个
你太善解人意了 把我的处境和所想分析得很透彻
从结婚到现在一直是接近中午甚至下午起 自己说是基因使然就习惯晚睡玩起 我跟他吵 你晚睡晚起 工作时长不是差不多吗 他说我晚上工作效率高 我说 那不就是你白天要睡觉 娃都归我管 你晚上好有精神做你自己的事情
Let me assure you: If you do this divorce right, your life can be much better. There are good people out there. Love yourself, choose wisely, you will be fine. Do not be afraid to divorce for the right reason. It''s painful at the beginning but you will fine. You are stronger than you think.
Open marriage will be even more confusing for the children.