Is she a single mom? Where is the dad? There is something called postpartum doula. I have never hired anyone for myself or my child, but I would rather choose a doula instead of yuesao. Yes, there is a risk of bringing in infection of all sorts. I would contact a postpartum doula and have that person as a backup. But really spend time learning about how to care for the newborn. There are a ton of resources. I strongly suggest The Baby Book, what to expect the first year, the happiest baby on the block, and Healthy Sleep Habit, Happy Child (I do not support sleep train though).
Is she a single mom? Where is the dad? There is something called postpartum doula. I have never hired anyone for myself or my child, but I would rather choose a doula instead of yuesao. Yes, there is a risk of bringing in infection of all sorts. I would contact a postpartum doula and have that person as a backup. But really spend time learning about how to care for the newborn. There are a ton of resources. I strongly suggest The Baby Book, what to expect the first year, the happiest baby on the block, and Healthy Sleep Habit, Happy Child (I do not support sleep train though).
doorsopen 发表于 4/14/2020 4:23:14 PM
Thanks for the information and recommending the books! I’ll let her know.
Take Tylenol and Advil. Or other medicines that doctors suggest. I had a natural birth with 2nd-degree tear and I managed.
doorsopen 发表于 4/14/2020 4:25:22 PM
Thank you for your advice! Did you drive to the hospital as well during the first two weeks? I had c-section with my both kids. It hurted hard especially for the second time, from which I don’t think I could drive even with painkillers.
This is what you said before. It is hard to have a decent discussion if you keep changing the criteria.
But to answer your question, yes, I was able to drive. My husband went with us to appointments because he wanted to participate in it. In my area, if I really struggle getting out of the door, a nurse will come to me. If needed, I can take baby out on a taxi too.
I do not know what kind of experience you have had. But I definitely did not feel as disabled after.
Thank you for your advice! Did you drive to the hospital as well during the first two weeks? I had c-section with my both kids. It hurted hard especially for the second time, from which I don’t think I could drive even with painkillers.
gritanwen 发表于 4/14/2020 5:44:25 PM
Yes, I was driving around on day 3 after giving birth. I am pretty sure I could drive baby home too if my husband let me. I had a vaginal birth with a 2nd degree tear. I am not saying that she should not get help. But I do not think that yuesao can drive her around either.
Yes, I was driving around on day 3 after giving birth. I am pretty sure I could drive baby home too if my husband let me. I had a vaginal birth with a 2nd degree tear. I am not saying that she should not get help. But I do not think that yuesao can drive her around either.
Is she a single mom? Where is the dad? There is something called postpartum doula. I have never hired anyone for myself or my child, but I would rather choose a doula instead of yuesao. Yes, there is a risk of bringing in infection of all sorts. I would contact a postpartum doula and have that person as a backup. But really spend time learning about how to care for the newborn. There are a ton of resources. I strongly suggest The Baby Book, what to expect the first year, the happiest baby on the block, and Healthy Sleep Habit, Happy Child (I do not support sleep train though).
Take Tylenol and Advil. Or other medicines that doctors suggest. I had a natural birth with 2nd-degree tear and I managed.
真的能自己开车吗？自己带孩子去做医生检查吗？
那你真的太不容易了，不敢想啊。
Thanks for the information and recommending the books! I’ll let her know.
Thank you for your advice! Did you drive to the hospital as well during the first two weeks? I had c-section with my both kids. It hurted hard especially for the second time, from which I don’t think I could drive even with painkillers.
是的。现在的问题是不知道哪里能找到可靠的类似月嫂的人。
这不只是月嫂了，找个长期靠谱的保姆吧，之后也不像幼儿园马上能恢复的样子。视频面试，找得到的话提前来家旁边找地方隔离两周吧，不放心还可以拉去做个test。提前一点来。不然一个人生孩子太辛苦了，顺利的话也可能能搞定，不顺利的话像楼上说的下床都困难怎么办
活动都困难。别说照顾宝宝，连自己都照顾不了
This is what you said before. It is hard to have a decent discussion if you keep changing the criteria.
But to answer your question, yes, I was able to drive. My husband went with us to appointments because he wanted to participate in it. In my area, if I really struggle getting out of the door, a nurse will come to me. If needed, I can take baby out on a taxi too.
I do not know what kind of experience you have had. But I definitely did not feel as disabled after.
Yes, I was driving around on day 3 after giving birth. I am pretty sure I could drive baby home too if my husband let me. I had a vaginal birth with a 2nd degree tear. I am not saying that she should not get help. But I do not think that yuesao can drive her around either.
It sounds like that she is a single mom. I support that she hires a live-in nanny if she can afford.
嗯嗯，我是剖的，出院一周也自己开车带娃去查黄疸了，不过我有我妈过来帮忙。如果实在没办法，估计咬咬牙一个人也能活下来，但是还是有人帮忙好些啊，特别是第一次当妈的，各种措手不及啊。。。