我看到新闻第一反应就是,一个孩子完全不可能筹到这么多,这是精明的爸妈为了藤校给孩子铺路,但这么做,让人不齿!群里有人说不要窝里斗,影响华人声誉,但父母暗暗支持孩子take other people’s credit一旦捅出来,就没有想过后果吗?你孩子的竞争着,某些有心人把这里的信息全部留下,把你微信全部截屏了,以后在你孩子申请的时候,这些都是铁证!中国有句老话,人在做,天在看。
搬运工,搬运工,搬运工,有人在lz发的那个采访youtube视频下面回复,后面那个回复 harry Ding,是小孩本人把? Fiona Wang 14 hours ago Would like to clear up that Harry is not the one to initial and lead this project. The donation is organized by a few Chinese volunteers in Great Charleston area, aiming to help local hospitals supply shortage. I believe Harry’s dad is among one of the volunteers. Harry himself is not involved at early stage, not to mention his friends request. But he did help to deliver all supplies to MUSC. He did come up with the idea of media exposure and then reach out to local medias. We really appreciate Harry and his family’s contribution, and also value our volunteers efforts and kindness. Show less
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Hide 2 replies Harry Ding Harry Ding 3 hours ago (edited) Hi Fiona,
I believe I forwarded my swim club’s president’s message about a need of masks in the very beginning to my dad, which is why it says “started”; his post on WeChat attracted a lot of users to donate and thus led to the donation drive, if we want to get technical. Without my swim team’s cry for help, I don’t know if the drive would’ve still happened as there would be no information that MUSC needs help. However, it is true I wasn’t the one essentially “leading” the project and I wish I had cleared that up. This being said, much of the donation process was started by Chinese community and I wish I had highlighted that more in the video; I truly do wish that I had explained more in depth your help and contributions to the donation drive. This was my first time doing an interview, so I was a little bit inexperienced, but in future releases, I was sure to recognize your hard work! If you look at the Post and Courier article, the article does mention quite a few times your contributions to the project. I do agree that the bulk of the donation process was made by our committee and devoted volunteers at the Chinese Charleston community! I truly do wish that I had cleared things up during this interview. This drive couldn’t be possible without y’all. Furthermore, you guys were the true leaders of this project, and, once again, I wish I had talked about y’all more in the interview. I cannot thank you guys enough for your support and thank you Count on 2 for having me. Please note that I never wanted to betray you guys! Everyone makes mistakes; your help is greatly appreciated and I would never deliberately deny that. Thank you for clearing that up!!!! Show less
对啊,这种大环境下,正面树立华人形象比是谁的credit重要 得多。华人要格局放大一点,别人出风头就不愤,说到底不就是因为出风头的不是你自己么。华人需要更多这样出头露面的孩子和大人,这样整体生存环境才能改善,不忿的话,继续捐,同时联系媒体做后续报道。
你哪只眼睛看见我没有默默捐了?你真是太好笑了,华人里要脸的人很多
能说一下为什么吗?这个和层主孩子的年龄有什么关系。这个新闻中的小孩也才14岁啊。
local那种小破报纸,随叫随到的
做了再说呗
得了,在这讲,做了再说
你drop到他家去了,哪怕不是他起的头也变他组织了,组织不是说两句话就算了。他采访也说了,大家是一个一个串起来的,难得还要细算谁的功能大谁的小不成?差不多就行了。
这样做的人虽然也很好但是对于少数民族,做善事,尤其是这次疫情和中国有关。还是要让外界知道的。 觉得harry 这次的报道对华人整体上是有利的,如果有人去说什么fake news, 我才要骂人,典型的窝里斗,鼠目寸光
家长要推娃爬藤的, 七年级八年级就要开始升学规划,九年级要定下来EC的方向了;
估计这家人是尝试走义工这条路, 将来要是作一星半点儿假拿了藤校offer, 一定会被举报的, 别看现在500人的群大家忍下了, 等孩子申大学的时候就不会再让他们得逞了
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比你做圣母更要脸
赞同
你偷换概念, 你去问问群里几百人, 捐赠是为了贡献一己之力,还是想被媒体报道? 500人短时间捐款捐物,对比一个14岁小孩“独立”组织捐赠活动, 哪个展现华人社区的奉献精神?
希特勒眼光放的远, 还经常抱着小孩子拍照上报纸呢
这孩子不小了吧, 这么撒谎还不纠正真的好吗?
如果他提到他做了project然后最后汇总到地区华人的募捐一起就可以, 如果完全不提, 我认为是有意为之。
其实这个例子应该学习起来。做了事也要让人知道。
不过我真不觉得谁找记者记者都一定愿意报道。
说的有道理, 你是明白人啊!我怎么没想到他们会系统性可持续性作假剽窃呢[ali124] 接下去就先拿总统点赞申请顶尖夏校了!
具体的影响,两个例子,比如康妈,庄安安事件
同意,我们这里好些市镇也都临时成立的华人社团,主要在微信群里,然后几个热心牵头的,我觉得那也是需要很多时间精力和热情的,我是做不到,就捐款尽点微薄之力而已,但最后联系医院和政府部门也就是一两个人而已,当然都是以华人社团的名义,我觉得这样就可以了。
这里虽然孩子自己一人独占所有的credit不太好,但对华人形象并没有什么损坏,华人圈里说说就行了,非要闹出去的才是脑子进水呢。
你们花了大精力捐赠是为了什么?为了上报纸吗?为了被采访吗?还是为了被捐赠对象拿到物资?为了大家对华人有一个好的印象?
想想到底什么成果被抢走了
自己的初衷到底是什么
再来抱怨吧
你们给康妈捐款的初衷是什么?不是为了她和三个孩子过得好一些吗,那她用钱去买了个大房子,还给孩子们很快找到了一个后爸,那你们为什么要感到不平衡呢?
你们捐款目的达到了,你们到底失去了什么?
这种的不能相提并论,人家要是出名了是该得的
1)孩子还小;
2)都不容易;
3)没有恶意;4)也是好心;
5)家丑不可外扬;
6)呵呵....
小孩在采访中不应该突出是他的project
Harry Ding说他3天就筹到了$4000,我当时默默算了一下我们当地微信群的筹款速度........
这么小就开始有目的的窃取整个华人团体的Credit, 还指望以后他能替华裔发声?只会在华裔中募捐为他拉选票吧。
什么叫窝里斗?窃取别人的Credit是道德底线之下的事情。
张文宏这一段话,说出了三个关键时刻在一线带队伍的硬道理。
第一个道理:不能让老实人吃亏
张文宏有他的表达方式——“不能欺负听话的人”,意思一样。“不能让老实人吃亏”,实际上是中国共产党在选人用人上一直强调和倡导的原则。早在延安时期,毛泽东同志就曾要求全党同志“当老实人,讲老实话,做老实事”。党的十八大以来,习近平总书记也一直在强调这方面的要求。
“不能让老实人吃亏”,还有后一句——“不能让投机钻营者得利”,两句话,含义咬合在一起。“老实人”“听话的人”,指的不是庸庸碌碌、无能无为的人,而是老老实实做人、踏踏实实干事、兢兢业业工作的人。张文宏这位感染科主任,“官”不大,用人的导向很清晰。
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推动AA的不就是华人政客?都是群记吃不记打的
看这楼里的评论就知道,美华道德教育还差得远,不大可能会出张大夫这种人
这么说是不对的。捐款是有当地华人协会和同乡会共同组织的。
这个project在当地华人募捐中从来没有被提起过,所以这是引起很多募捐者不解的地方。 不过据孩子爸爸说这是新闻误导。
华人就让这样的人代表?
按这个路子“出息”, 将来踩着尸体往上爬哟
那他爸打算怎样解决呢?
这么说一个小孩有点太沉重。但这个爸爸是已经定型的了。
他不是满脸自豪的坐在孩子身边,他嘴被堵上了?记者发稿前肯定会让他看并且签字才能发的吧!
我刚才特意又回去看了他的采访,没错,He在仅仅三天之内募捐了$4000以上的善款, 我感觉主持人特意用了just in 3 days,应该也够吃惊的,一个14岁孩子哪来这么大的能量可以3天募集4000刀呢
https://www.counton2.com/news/local-news/charleston-county-news/14-year-old-starts-donation-drive-for-medical-supplies/
做了婊子又立牌坊,甩锅给记者它也真好意思!它是瞎了还是聋了哑了在旁边不会更正??
不确定这孩子参与了多少,不能说是撒谎。那条新闻第二代华人积极参与社会公益,华人社区很多人积极响应,多好的正面新闻。能接受采访侃侃而谈,新闻编辑也积极正面,不认为拿了所有人的credit,新闻媒体宣传也是募捐工作的一部分吧,做了好事就该好好宣传。
不能光觉得有人拿credit,别人就吃大亏了似的。我看本地华人社团积极募捐打全场,真花了很多时间和体力,并不是人人都能做到的,也不是人人想上新闻的,微信群里也是毁誉参半,说什么的都有,真心觉得太苛责了,正面新闻对华人都好,包括什么都不做唱反调的很多人。
教育, 得从他爸开始, 家长道德水平低, 孩子被带入歧途
想都不用想就是这么一回事儿。
单他说是自己的project就是撒谎
很多“家丑不可外扬” 啊
再加一条,
6)大家“嫉妒”, 你行你咋不上
1.他是活动发起人吗?
2.他做了主要的贡献吗? 或者贡献大概是多少?
3.其他人知道这件事要被报道, 以及认可把这件事情的Credit变成某个孩子的Credit吗?
这件事跟谁吃不吃亏, 或者谁想不想出风头都没关系。就跟以前闹捐款一样,没什么好说的,就是以后堵死华人团体齐心协力获取共同利益,提高华人团体地位的路。走着看吧.
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丁家真是太恶心了!爸爸不要脸,孩子三观也差,美国ABC大多数是做不出来家长给安排的这种骗人把戏的
如果是真的这个做法有点恶心,合着一开始就这么打算去做的啊。。。?我原来想的可能事后记者来了,没准备好说辞不够全面。
怪不得会被捅到华人来,人缘不这么差一般不会在华人大字报吧?我们这里也有华人捐助上新闻的,没人弄成这样
天,如果是这样可真叫恶心了,这是彻头彻尾有计划的欺骗啊
建议楼主把这层的情况放在主贴里
是孩子爸爸询问捐款者要不要联系媒体,扩大对华人社区的影响。大家同意后,据孩子爸爸说后面联系媒体报道的事情都是由这个孩子去办的。
捐款的目的是为了持续帮助医护人员。现在有了杂音很难继续下去了。
这部分我相信,因为ABC语言能力做推广容易一些
丁家做为你们那里的爱心终结者,功不可没!
这叫什么逻辑,一整个社区的努力一下子就被这父子两摘了桃子,难道宣传整个社区不行吗?
这家长是不怎么decent。但是不可能所有募捐的人都去医院送吧,还是需要人代表。也不是所有的人都愿意收的口罩放自己家。夸自己孩子是人之常情。但下次活动估计没人愿意和他家搭档了,有得有失吧。
所以联系媒体扩大对华人社区的影响, 代表人物就是他儿子? 如果联系媒体的事情是由孩子去办, 却只字不提到底是谁发起的, 以及有哪些积极参与的志愿者和主要贡献者, 这孩子的品质真是堪忧。
肯定的啊,想想你们家如果有14岁孩子,他不愿意,你能诱导他去镜头前做秀吗?
这个小孩的爸爸是个人精
Fiona Wang
14 hours ago
Would like to clear up that Harry is not the one to initial and lead this project. The donation is organized by a few Chinese volunteers in Great Charleston area, aiming to help local hospitals supply shortage. I believe Harry’s dad is among one of the volunteers. Harry himself is not involved at early stage, not to mention his friends request. But he did help to deliver all supplies to MUSC. He did come up with the idea of media exposure and then reach out to local medias. We really appreciate Harry and his family’s contribution, and also value our volunteers efforts and kindness.
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Harry Ding
3 hours ago (edited)
Hi Fiona,
I believe I forwarded my swim club’s president’s message about a need of masks in the very beginning to my dad, which is why it says “started”; his post on WeChat attracted a lot of users to donate and thus led to the donation drive, if we want to get technical. Without my swim team’s cry for help, I don’t know if the drive would’ve still happened as there would be no information that MUSC needs help. However, it is true I wasn’t the one essentially “leading” the project and I wish I had cleared that up. This being said, much of the donation process was started by Chinese community and I wish I had highlighted that more in the video; I truly do wish that I had explained more in depth your help and contributions to the donation drive. This was my first time doing an interview, so I was a little bit inexperienced, but in future releases, I was sure to recognize your hard work! If you look at the Post and Courier article, the article does mention quite a few times your contributions to the project. I do agree that the bulk of the donation process was made by our committee and devoted volunteers at the Chinese Charleston community! I truly do wish that I had cleared things up during this interview. This drive couldn’t be possible without y’all. Furthermore, you guys were the true leaders of this project, and, once again, I wish I had talked about y’all more in the interview. I cannot thank you guys enough for your support and thank you Count on 2 for having me. Please note that I never wanted to betray you guys! Everyone makes mistakes; your help is greatly appreciated and I would never deliberately deny that. Thank you for clearing that up!!!!
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