Re this. 最喜欢Dorthy她妈和rose.winnieli 发表于 10/18/2019 8:38:14 AM
感觉我20岁就通过这个剧了解了美国老太太生活😓 经典台词还记得呢。If you are not in the mood and the old "I have a headache" routine doesn't work, you can always pretend to pass out~~~~~~
所以其实应该要男的比女的大比较科学，可以pia一辈子。比如女的pia到50，男的pia到70。如果男的pia不到70，而女的还能pia, refer to what I said previously
cqcq 发表于 10/18/2019 8:58:31 AM
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/07/30/well/live/menopause-sex-decline-partner-husband-wife.html New research suggests that the hormonal changes that come with menopause are only part of the reason a woman’s sex life declines with age. It’s true that many women experience symptoms after menopause, including vaginal dryness, painful intercourse and loss of desire — all of which can affect the frequency and pleasure of sex. But the new study shows that the reasons many women stop wanting sex, enjoying sex and having sex are far more complex. While women traditionally have been blamed when sex wanes in a relationship, the research shows that, often, it’s the health of a woman’s partner that determines whether she remains sexually active and satisfied with her sex life. (Most studies have focused entirely on heterosexual women, so less is known about same-sex couples after menopause.) “We know that menopause seems to have a bad effect on libido, vaginal dryness and sexual pain,” said Dr. Stephanie Faubion, director of the Mayo Clinic Center for Women’s Health in Rochester, Minn. “But what is coming up as a consistent finding is that the partner has such a prominent role. It’s not just the availability of the partner — it’s the physical health of the partner as well.”
其实我觉得每晚抱在一起睡，就是性福了。人类性欲更多在 erotic brain 的心理，而不是性器官生理。当然生理要及格先。 tidewater 发表于 10/18/2019 10:39:16 AM
开玩笑吧？
你讲的玩意怎么和真枪真炮比啊？what happens to the visual, the smell and all these simultaneous sensual feed backs from your partner or do the toys performs all these too? IMHO, the only advantage of the toys are really their endurance.
So tidewater, be honest，when was the last time you really did it with your 系花？
How many people posting here is actually over 50? For the record, I am.
好奇搜了下summary。女富豪多老都可以搞定小情人，that's just the way it is~~~~~~
A brilliantly funny novel of bad behavior in the post-Obama era, featuring a wealthy Connecticut divorcée, her college-age daughter, and the famous novelist who is seduced by them both.
Rachel Klein never meant to kiss her creative writing professor, but with his long eyelashes, his silky hair, and the sad, beautiful life he laid bare on Twitter, she does, and the kiss is very nice. Zahid Azzam never planned to become a houseguest in his student's sprawling Connecticut home, but with the sparkling swimming pool, the endless supply of Whole Foods strawberries, and Rachel's beautiful mother, he does, and the home is very nice. Becca Klein never thought she'd have a love affair so soon after her divorce, but when her daughter's professor walks into her home, bringing with him an apricot standard poodle named Princess, she does, and the affair is...a very bad idea.
其实我觉得每晚抱在一起睡，就是性福了。人类性欲更多在 erotic brain 的心理，而不是性器官生理。当然生理要及格先。 tidewater 发表于 10/18/2019 10:39:16 AM
开玩笑吧？
你讲的玩意怎么和真枪真炮比啊？what happens to the visual, the smell and all these simultaneous sensual feed backs from your partner or do the toys performs all these too? IMHO, the only advantage of the toys are really their endurance.
So tidewater, be honest，when was the last time you really did it with your 系花？
How many people posting here is actually over 50? For the record, I am.
yoyo6713 发表于 10/18/2019 11:03:12 AM
你自己试试不就知道了？我给你个方子：
买个 WeVibe Sync (飞机杯最好看一眼美女老婆会不会怒了哈哈）。
手机 App WeConnect 装上。
然后比如下面这个女歌手的好了。当然技术上你不要用扬声器到手机麦克，会失真厉害。建议用 real player 下载，然后用 Audacity encode 成 mp3。放进 WeConnect 手机 App。
其实我觉得每晚抱在一起睡，就是性福了。人类性欲更多在 erotic brain 的心理，而不是性器官生理。当然生理要及格先。 tidewater 发表于 10/18/2019 10:39:16 AM
开玩笑吧？
你讲的玩意怎么和真枪真炮比啊？what happens to the visual, the smell and all these simultaneous sensual feed backs from your partner or do the toys performs all these too? IMHO, the only advantage of the toys are really their endurance.
So tidewater, be honest，when was the last time you really did it with your 系花？
How many people posting here is actually over 50? For the record, I am.
好奇搜了下summary。女富豪多老都可以搞定小情人，that's just the way it is~~~~~~
A brilliantly funny novel of bad behavior in the post-Obama era, featuring a wealthy Connecticut divorcée, her college-age daughter, and the famous novelist who is seduced by them both.
Rachel Klein never meant to kiss her creative writing professor, but with his long eyelashes, his silky hair, and the sad, beautiful life he laid bare on Twitter, she does, and the kiss is very nice. Zahid Azzam never planned to become a houseguest in his student's sprawling Connecticut home, but with the sparkling swimming pool, the endless supply of Whole Foods strawberries, and Rachel's beautiful mother, he does, and the home is very nice. Becca Klein never thought she'd have a love affair so soon after her divorce, but when her daughter's professor walks into her home, bringing with him an apricot standard poodle named Princess, she does, and the affair is...a very bad idea.
这个例子不好。女的四十五还没绝经。
我们在讨论女的五十绝经以后无性以后谈的爱情是个啥东西。
那就是纯粹的感情需要吧。我觉得人上了年纪更容易孤独，想找个伴过日子吧。那就再举个例子，身边人的一手资料，一个五十多岁的大姐，一辈子没结过婚，找了六十左右的离异男，如今结婚十年了，一直感情很好。俩人都是踏踏实实过日子的人，就是找个伴吧我觉得
女的话，更年期之后可能，可能要接受现实，我也在思考这个问题。。
哈哈哈哈，我看到这个帖子脑子里第一个转的念头就是感情好不怕老一起玩玩具好不好……想想太那啥了没说出来……
我觉得很浪漫。如果他performance不那么好了，可以finger oral 以及一起玩玩具，OR可以在他旁边masturbate自己。。我觉得这些都是很浪漫的事情。不好意思我比较直接
我也喜欢这部剧。最老的老太太Rose最逗了
感觉我20岁就通过这个剧了解了美国老太太生活😓 经典台词还记得呢。If you are not in the mood and the old "I have a headache" routine doesn't work, you can always pretend to pass out~~~~~~
我觉得我们应该high five！
嘿嘿嘿嘿FIVE!!!
打击一下，你们这是有激素时期的想法。哈哈哈
嘤……………………
所以其实应该要男的比女的大比较科学，可以pia一辈子。比如女的pia到50，男的pia到70。如果男的pia不到70，而女的还能pia, refer to what I said previously
女的也是successful?
必须看照片。如果男的本来就性冷淡呢？比方秦汉这种，就想找个人写毛笔字呢？找个年轻的他还累呢？
偶男朋友他不行，他荷尔蒙太多，老太太是绝对不考虑的。
嗯是的。但是作为女的不想承认这一点
同学是普通人，nice degree nice job nice looking, 跟rich and famous完全扯不上。我不可能知道里面所有why，只是说她BF即使再这么丑 (he is ok, not ugly looking)，也不会找不到很多个年轻30岁的姑娘。
我好喜欢你！！真想做朋友！
差二十岁怎么可能pia 一辈子啊，女的二十男的四十，男的头二十年咋过啊？
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/07/30/well/live/menopause-sex-decline-partner-husband-wife.html
New research suggests that the hormonal changes that come with menopause are only part of the reason a woman’s sex life declines with age. It’s true that many women experience symptoms after menopause, including vaginal dryness, painful intercourse and loss of desire — all of which can affect the frequency and pleasure of sex. But the new study shows that the reasons many women stop wanting sex, enjoying sex and having sex are far more complex. While women traditionally have been blamed when sex wanes in a relationship, the research shows that, often, it’s the health of a woman’s partner that determines whether she remains sexually active and satisfied with her sex life. (Most studies have focused entirely on heterosexual women, so less is known about same-sex couples after menopause.) “We know that menopause seems to have a bad effect on libido, vaginal dryness and sexual pain,” said Dr. Stephanie Faubion, director of the Mayo Clinic Center for Women’s Health in Rochester, Minn. “But what is coming up as a consistent finding is that the partner has such a prominent role. It’s not just the availability of the partner — it’s the physical health of the partner as well.”
amazon总裁和他女友都过50了吗？ ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
结婚前爱咋过咋过啊
你这话里逻辑真得很成问题啊，假设男的CEO都是50-60岁上下，你的意思35-45岁左右女性没有多少体面的？你的印象里这个年龄段的女性都是什么地位形象？ ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
就是，那个有个比自己大10多岁的男友的，你是怎么忍受老头身体的，说白了就是他的钱才是动力。他要是没钱了，保证你对他没兴趣。
真正有身体上吸引力的是青中年男人。
我以前也这么认为。现在不了。50多男人也有很charming 的
年龄真的不是问题，价值观人生观chemistry才是
非常政治正确
放心，他肯定比你家那个帅。
中国人算了，我看二十都不帅。
同意
我觉得跟事实比较接近。
楼上有人说了，很多女生不要说 50，30 岁就没有性欲了。
个体差异远大于年龄差异，这个在性生活频率统计表格上是 plausible。
只是女生比男生更能修改自己过去的记忆，来合理化自己的行为，并且美而不自知。
证据就是推妈版一大堆推妈，真真切切地记得自己小学四年级就不依赖书本独立自主推导出完整代数系统！！！但现在就数学不及格了。
同理，那些说自己年轻时性欲极强但生娃后性冷淡的，survey 一下她们的老公，估计回答就是结婚后老公们都是手淫过的日子，除了备孕的几个月 ~~~
有没有性欲，跟能不能有性欲是两件事情。
当然你家校花可能例外，的确有一些女人说自己60了还很欲望的，我看reddit上不少，但是这种就跟华人贫困线一样，能不能相信，看自己
不过这倒不是女生们在说谎。大脑修改自身记忆，用对未来的期望来修改自己对过去的记忆，这样美而不自知，是有科学依据的。只是特别适用于华人女性网站而已。科学认知学链接：
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2014/02/04/271527934/our-brains-rewrite-our-memories-putting-present-in-the-past
Our Brains Rewrite Our Memories, Putting Present In The Past
我前面贴了人类修改自身记忆的科学链接。
要知道我们的性心理学大部分基于问卷调查 survey，而 survey 就必然会受到 “人类个体因为对未来展望，而修改自身对过去的记忆，并且美而不自知” 这种 bias。而只要统计学勉强及格的都在读马工系或者 data science 系，而不是心理系 ～～～
潮水兄你理论基础很不错嘛，我老婆就是这样，经常训斥我说她的记忆比我好我记错了云云，其实是她把记忆自己美化了修改了。。。
现在有那么多锂电池蓝牙同步震动飞机杯，男生自己就可以玩得很开心了。
只不过考虑 porn creep 在夫妻年轻时可能损害夫妻关系，不想这么玩而已。
谈这么多理论没用啊？一句话，潮水兄，您性福吗？
现代社会已经能确保每个男生都能找到自己的性福，区别只是在女生火热的身体上；还是在锂电池蓝牙震动飞机杯（或者情趣震动夹子）里，合着音乐的节奏，看着美丽女主唱薄纱半透的 MTV。
其实我觉得每晚抱在一起睡，就是性福了。人类性欲更多在 erotic brain 的心理，而不是性器官生理。当然生理要及格先。
我觉得我们也快要进化到抱在一起睡的性福阶段了，哈哈。争取在绝经之前达到无性爱情状态。
我想起了以前版上看过的一个帖子，就是有个大妈上来抱怨，说老公是特别有活力的人，爱健身爱旅游，自己是特别挫的人，整天死气沉沉，啥也不干就特别累，然后老公貌似有出轨迹象，她苦苦哀求老公看在孩子的份上不要离婚，老公也答应了，就是看起来很抑郁。当时觉得这位大妈真有点不人道了。不知道后续如何。说不定小孩上大学工作后，就是这种结局。
开玩笑吧？
你讲的玩意怎么和真枪真炮比啊？what happens to the visual, the smell and all these simultaneous sensual feed backs from your partner or do the toys performs all these too? IMHO, the only advantage of the toys are really their endurance.
So tidewater, be honest，when was the last time you really did it with your 系花？
How many people posting here is actually over 50? For the record, I am.
世界上几十亿得人口，多少亿得家庭。看这个一个婚姻解体就对婚姻失望？哈哈，会不会太脆弱了
哈哈，女的是绝对不可能在玩具上面找到同样感觉。但是人家是男的嘛！
小三也愿意接受净身出户的他？😬
有一种情况是很多人结婚生娃了发现不合适，一直忍到小孩上大学
上一代心烦的事都差不多了的意思是父母都去世了？那我一点都不向往
问题是你二十五岁的时候真的会爱上四十五岁的吗？就为了老了以后有性生活？我是肯定不干
你和你男朋友不也差了十几岁吗
我会爱上50多的，如果很charming啊。以前我也是年龄党，现在不是了。
政治不正确了哦！我个人觉得哈，无论中国人还是外国人，年轻才是王道
50多脱了衣服还charming的真不多。
怎么说呢。我觉得是个人对“性”这个概念的一个发展过程。以前我也是更偏向物理吸引，身材颜值等等更容易成为我性兴奋的点。 但是现在不了，这些不一定能让我兴奋了，大帅哥什么的。。但是成熟，认真，内敛，博学，深情。。会让我兴奋
精神上我可能会喜欢
确实也没有太多正面样本见到。现在15年过去了， 更觉得真实
哈哈，我也喜欢这个剧，Dorthy她妈小老太太可爱了，老年妇女的美好生活。
才看了小说very nice, 里面一女主55，搞定30多小情人没问题……
展开讲讲
有些人50岁可以身材很好，风度翩翩，有些人20岁也没有一丁点魅力。
层主对玛丽苏是不是有所误解？
好奇搜了下summary。女富豪多老都可以搞定小情人，that's just the way it is~~~~~~
A brilliantly funny novel of bad behavior in the post-Obama era, featuring a wealthy Connecticut divorcée, her college-age daughter, and the famous novelist who is seduced by them both.
Rachel Klein never meant to kiss her creative writing professor, but with his long eyelashes, his silky hair, and the sad, beautiful life he laid bare on Twitter, she does, and the kiss is very nice. Zahid Azzam never planned to become a houseguest in his student's sprawling Connecticut home, but with the sparkling swimming pool, the endless supply of Whole Foods strawberries, and Rachel's beautiful mother, he does, and the home is very nice. Becca Klein never thought she'd have a love affair so soon after her divorce, but when her daughter's professor walks into her home, bringing with him an apricot standard poodle named Princess, she does, and the affair is...a very bad idea.
你自己试试不就知道了？我给你个方子：
买个 WeVibe Sync (飞机杯最好看一眼美女老婆会不会怒了哈哈）。
手机 App WeConnect 装上。
然后比如下面这个女歌手的好了。当然技术上你不要用扬声器到手机麦克，会失真厉害。建议用 real player 下载，然后用 Audacity encode 成 mp3。放进 WeConnect 手机 App。
然后你用手机蓝牙同步 WeVibe Sync，另用一个 iPad 放 Video，手机蓝牙还接一个优质蓝牙音箱，建议索尼。
下来就是让视频跟音频同步，手机 WeConnect App 上实时调节强度和滤波器，把 WeVibe Sync 夹在你最敏感的部位（gui tou）上，当然要 improvise 一下不能掉下来。
然后你就可以 hand free 享受了。欣赏火热的 MTV 的同时，女歌手磁性的嗓音通过 DSP 和蓝牙电波，传送在你最敏感的部位以各种旖旎的方式震动，快乐的神经电流直达你的 erotic brain，和你的 musician's brain + dancer's brain 花开两朵、潮起潮落、同步飞翔，但却又相映成趣、移步换景，各表一支 ～～～
你先自己换二十首 MTV 玩上三十小时后再来发帖不迟哈哈哈 ～～～
怎样都不是真的啊。。。没有温度的
你不是男生没法 empathy。
女生的身体进化有很多限制因子，不可能仅仅为让男生快乐而设计。但 VR 飞机杯的设计只有一个目的，就是 hack 男生的 erotic brain。
而且这还是加拿大鸟不拉屎地的马工干的，你要换成三藩全球首席 Deep Learning 马工团队来设计的话，人类药丸哈哈哈 ～～～
但凡出言如此绝对的。。大多都比较肤浅。
有的女人就是心理成熟度比较高，高实际年龄至少10+岁。
哈哈哈，这个高楼一下子吸进来这么多大ID……而且没有各种政治吵架，太美好了。看来性才是大家共同关心喜闻乐见的话题。 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
这么有经验，难道系花只能用来看？
我们CIO身材很年轻很好，远看挺有魅力的，凑近了一看，脸上还是太多皱纹了。
Bloody true.年轻的时候直奔未来,更多爱情在未来,不会为任何人停留的
但爱情其实是种病态，get over了才能自由.自由才是最好的东西
他对系花是真爱，系花是女神。并且我也同意，没有喜欢的人，真不如用工具。
潮水叔好不容易不再一句一个美腿系花，求求你们别惹他
讲得好.
真实的爱情也许就是能爱上无限的自己,这不容易。
WeVibe Sync 是设计给女生用的，但不是很好用。所以只能物尽其用做各种测试，好奇心。
不过这个不知道跟人类的 musician's brain + dancer's brain 是不是也有关系。有些人唱歌跳舞就是没有节奏感没有感觉。是不是人类的内心听觉内心节奏，不仅表达在耳朵和肢体语言，同时看不见地表达在 gui tou / yin di 最敏感的神经末梢上？理论上可以说的通 ～～～
但是再婚找同龄的（三岁以内差距）有钱男人绝对是（极）少数啊。我叔叔（丧偶）算一个，一个是他太有钱，有点担心年轻的就为了钱以后也出轨，找了个同龄的也有一些财产的做好财产公证再结婚。另一个是两人共同语言多些。第三个是这位阿姨琴棋书画皆佳，我叔叔觉得很有吸引力。他自己是医生除了自己的领域什么都不懂。
原来不是第一手体验？差评！
上面说了男生一样可以测试，就是要 improvisation 一下不要掉下来。
Mark mark
真人跟音乐同步震动飞机杯的差别不在于你说的感官生理方面。这个不太好描述，拿这个恰恰双人舞无言的类比可能更说明问题一些。当然区别是心理语言，而不是肢体语言或音乐语言。
这是最近的男朋友。
人哪儿能一辈子只xx一个呢。
人碰到我以前也没闲着。
男的从二十开始xx, 肯定找同龄甚至姐姐啊。
过了五十开始找女儿，六七十找孙女，反正女的不能过四十五。
哈哈 +1
我的
他跟我举了两个例子，都是他法学院的同学，男的，近两年都纷纷离婚了，然后又再婚了，老板说。。50多的男人再结婚是为了 PEACE.
美国其实挺多的，尤其有钱人。我之前工作碰到的几个投资人就是，都60多丧偶，说是痛苦不堪但生活还要继续，就娶了儿时玩伴，挺好的
有些应该也是为了爱吧！有些人虽然结了婚生了几个孩子，其实并没真正爱过，哪天突然中年危机醒悟过来，又看着人生过半、赶紧慌不择路的寻找所谓的真爱了
那种找儿时同学的。。都是真爱吧
按当时60多快70的富翁老头给我的描述更多的是为了伴，和儿时玩伴的那种亲密绝不是20多年轻貌美的女人身体能带来的。
倒是中年人找爱的更多吧
所以应该在高中大学时候多留点Candidates
高中大学回不去了，现在留也不晚