Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday
去幼儿园一个多月,高烧3次,ER去了几次,最后一次怀疑肺有感染,吃抗生素。每天三次一大堆的液体要灌下去,有时候孩子配合,有时候不配合,真是一种折磨。
不生病不闹的时候,一起玩或者一起看故事。一般前几遍是惊喜,后面几百遍是inner peace的历练,比小时候背书无趣多了,至少背出来是完成了任务。还是需要耐心,还是需要修炼。
看着沉睡的娃,觉得真是最好美的时刻,安静,可爱,萌。
深深的觉得纪伯伦这首诗写得太好:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday
有妈妈说家里开了空调下去的。我们家一直开着空调,不存在温度问题。生病也不去幼儿园,别乱yy了
同意下去了。然而他要自己用脑袋下床,不让我们抱,也不肯正常姿势下床。
我们生病也不去幼儿园呀,家里面完全不存在不暖和的问题。不知道要打暖空调,空调一直都开着。
晚上睡觉得凉一些,不然踢被子,起床,得暖点,这样不容易生病。
估计做什么梦了。只能哄和骗了,小孩比较容易转移视线。
怎么睡得凉一点呢?我们就是盖一条薄薄的毛巾被,小孩子就是一条纱布被。但是他真是超级不爱盖被子。有次我们把温度调低,必须要盖厚被子了。他还是各种踢,根本不让被子上身。都是趁他睡得死死的再盖。但是他又各种翻身,所以现在套纱布睡袋了
娃不听话的时候, 想想娃不听话总比娃生病了强吧, 肝火就会下去一些.
除非正发烧,没啥必要三个人在一个屋子里啊,谁都睡不好
看到哭的娃我就不行了 想崩
要下去就陪着下去,您第二天不上班么?
自己用脑袋下床不是事???他不让我们保护也不让我们碰。床+box+matrtress多高心里没点数?下样下床了,估计要去医院了。。。。
反倒你这个我觉得不是个事,因为基本每天都发生。我上班的时候他都阻止我出门,耐心哄哄,让爸爸抱着 跟我说bye