Since so many people here pointed out my english is horrible, I would really appreciate one of you to rewrite my original post in better English or at least point out the major problems. So I could improve in my future post. please
但是，楼主，如果你真的能认识到这一点，那么： accept the fact that they don't love you. 没有人愿意接受这一点，但如果是事实，那接受了，自己好过些。然后就不要有任何对爱的渴望（从他们身上。） 然而，不要放弃爱。世界上的其他人，不一定就像你父母那样伤害你。放下自己的刺，这样自己会更舒服。 对和错不是重要的。英语，汉语，好不好，一点也不重要。爱，温暖，感情，是最重要的。
但是，楼主，如果你真的能认识到这一点，那么： accept the fact that they don't love you. 没有人愿意接受这一点，但如果是事实，那接受了，自己好过些。然后就不要有任何对爱的渴望（从他们身上。） 然而，不要放弃爱。世界上的其他人，不一定就像你父母那样伤害你。放下自己的刺，这样自己会更舒服。 对和错不是重要的。英语，汉语，好不好，一点也不重要。爱，温暖，感情，是最重要的。
Nurture 发表于 12/7/2018 3:33:08 PM
放下自己的刺? hahaha. One of the most valuable career advices I ever received is " you need to have rough edge, otherwise you won't be able survive the jungle "
Since so many people here pointed out my english is horrible, I would really appreciate one of you to rewrite my original post in better English or at least point out the major problems. So I could improve in my future post. please greendeer 发表于 12/7/2018 3:30:39 PM
can you please rewrite it? This is not an essay or business email, so I didn't pay any attention on the grammar...
change" Even when my 5 years old kid got sick and staying at home" to "Even when my 5 years old kid got sick and stayed at home" or "Even when my 5 years old kid gets sick and stays at home" ?
So? Please tell me you get along well with all your bosses, direct reports, peers, in-law, all the time, always
you mean you never 怼人?
You always happily take all the comments? If so, then I think your personality has a big problem, people pleaser maybe
I think mine is slightly better than yours lol
Since so many people here pointed out my english is horrible, I would really appreciate one of you to rewrite my original post in better English or at least point out the major problems. So I could improve in my future post. please
这是果，不是因。
如果真是这样（楼主父母的冷漠无爱），那楼主首先是受害者。这样的苦孩子，和别人相处，确实容易有问题。因为：所有的关系，都是和父母关系的延伸。
每一分钟，这样的苦孩子都很愤怒。因为：他们的愤怒无处可去，和父母关系的苦，为大多数人不理解。孩子是这种关系中永远的受害者（道德绑架的缘故）。
但是，楼主，如果你真的能认识到这一点，那么：
accept the fact that they don't love you. 没有人愿意接受这一点，但如果是事实，那接受了，自己好过些。然后就不要有任何对爱的渴望（从他们身上。）
然而，不要放弃爱。世界上的其他人，不一定就像你父母那样伤害你。放下自己的刺，这样自己会更舒服。
对和错不是重要的。英语，汉语，好不好，一点也不重要。爱，温暖，感情，是最重要的。
可以预见不远的将来，只要涉及媳妇 女婿，都是原罪，原因不说了。
放下自己的刺? hahaha. One of the most valuable career advices I ever received is " you need to have rough edge, otherwise you won't be able survive the jungle "
not everyone has the ability to think logically...
can you please rewrite it? This is not an essay or business email, so I didn't pay any attention on the grammar...
change" Even when my 5 years old kid got sick and staying at home" to "Even when my 5 years old kid got sick and stayed at home" or "Even when my 5 years old kid gets sick and stays at home" ?
正如大家说的那样，你是你父母亲生的吗？应该从小到大你最了解父母啊？
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