Sex and city 里面 真实的中上层职业女性是这么生活的吗?

特立独行的猫
楼主 (北美华人网)
昨天 看了一下剧之后的电影 她们四十岁的故事
真实的在纽约中上层职业女性 是这么生活的吗?
特别是买鞋子 名牌包包方面
好奇中……
小小小毛驴
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想买就买了呗 这是个消费观问题
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tijin85
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那就是个给女屌丝看的戏

你自己的生活你自己做主
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AbeLoveMe
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除了carrie,其他三个人的生活算正常
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sunshinewblow
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电视剧还是看看就好了吧,生活是自己过的
特立独行的猫
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那就是个给女屌丝看的戏

你自己的生活你自己做主
tijin85 发表于 3/16/2018 12:05:25 AM
怎么说?为什么给女吊丝看的?
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cigna
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楼主你是三岁的娃吗? 我家娃才会问我电视里的是不是真的, 听说过来源于生活但高于生活这句话吗。。。
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htscorpio
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如果她们每个赚超过30万, 又不买房, 有可能.
特立独行的猫
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如果她们每个赚超过30万, 又不买房, 有可能.
htscorpio 发表于 3/16/2018 12:43:27 AM
原来要超过30万才能这样……
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Cybercat
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Carrie 花到要买房时银行里只有$700。Charlotte 在画廊也应该不挣啥钱,估计都花了,就是靠嫁的好。另两个一个是名校毕业律师,一个有自己的小公关公司,应该还可以。Carrie 和 Charlotte 如果嫁不成有钱人晚年成忧。纽约见过很多中老年单身妇女,如果没趁年轻买了小公寓或者占个控租房,老了真的很难的。
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CINDYCINDYBABY
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原来要超过30万才能这样……
特立独行的猫 发表于 3/16/2018 12:51:29 AM

Carrie应该没有30万,或者不一定每年都有。电视里开头有一集她买鞋买的手头都很紧了,结果浪漫一夜情却被阴差阳错地付了高级睡资,她自己还觉得人家看低她。所以她一直想嫁给big, 其他的男友都是用来采风攒素材写稿用的,哪怕跟木匠男友订婚了也还是不行,木匠男友可能支持不了她一直随心所欲买买买。后来那个什么斯基,如果年轻些又一直呆在纽约,估计她就嫁了。

还有后来那个发现自己一衣橱的鞋子价值足够首付了却没有现金,最后夏洛特卖结婚戒指给她凑的。
她们几个中靠自己最有钱的是Samantha,所以她对男友从不挑经济条件。
律师也有钱,可以过潇洒单身生活,但是自从跟经济状况不如她的吧台酒保生子结婚后,她作为养家主力很辛苦,只能到差区买房子了。
夏洛特应该是赚钱最少的,但她出身家世最好。然后个人财富是依靠两任老公叠加出来的。光靠跟后来的律师老公结婚,她也住不上那套豪宅。
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doublemint
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虽说 big是渣男,可是carrie更渣,且绿茶。。
大眼豆豆
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虽说 big是渣男,可是carrie更渣,且绿茶。。
doublemint 发表于 3/16/2018 1:13:17 AM
完全同意,big结婚后她去big家里偷情被发现,被大奶在后面说闲话,她居然一副完全不能接受的样子,牌坊立得好高
特立独行的猫
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Carrie应该没有30万,或者不一定每年都有。电视里开头有一集她买鞋买的手头都很紧了,结果浪漫一夜情却被阴差阳错地付了高级睡资,她自己还觉得人家看低她。所以她一直想嫁给big, 其他的男友都是用来采风攒素材写稿用的,哪怕跟木匠男友订婚了也还是不行,木匠男友可能支持不了她一直随心所欲买买买。后来那个什么斯基,如果年轻些又一直呆在纽约,估计她就嫁了。

还有后来那个发现自己一衣橱的鞋子价值足够首付了却没有现金,最后夏洛特卖结婚戒指给她凑的。
她们几个中靠自己最有钱的是Samantha,所以她对男友从不挑经济条件。
律师也有钱,可以过潇洒单身生活,但是自从跟经济状况不如她的吧台酒保生子结婚后,她作为养家主力很辛苦,只能到差区买房子了。
夏洛特应该是赚钱最少的,但她出身家世最好。然后个人财富是依靠两任老公叠加出来的。光靠跟后来的律师老公结婚,她也住不上那套豪宅。

CINDYCINDYBABY 发表于 3/16/2018 1:09:31 AM

纽约豪宅标准是多少m?
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sterling_lover
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在欲望都市拍摄的年代,奢侈品并不昂贵,奢侈品一个包在十年前是所有中产都能接受的价格,并且都是名牌设计师的杰作。现在奢侈消费大户基本是全球发达国家中高产让位于中国脑残富二代了,因为价格比过去翻了十翻了都有,并且基本没有设计感,质量也差。
特立独行的猫
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在欲望都市拍摄的年代,奢侈品并不昂贵,奢侈品一个包在十年前是所有中产都能接受的价格,并且都是名牌设计师的杰作。现在奢侈消费大户基本是全球发达国家中高产让位于中国脑残富二代了,因为价格比过去翻了十翻了都有,并且基本没有设计感,质量也差。
sterling_lover 发表于 3/16/2018 1:39:09 AM
里面的鞋 500美金 现在基本 1000美金 翻了一倍而已
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sterling_lover
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里面的鞋 500美金 现在基本 1000美金 翻了一倍而已

特立独行的猫 发表于 3/16/2018 1:45:15 AM
里面500美金的鞋那可是名牌设计师设计,做工质地都是地地道道的奢侈品标准,现在1000美金的奢侈品是什么鬼东西啊,不能直接这么比,现在你要买到十年前500美金的东西那要私人定做了,那5000美金是可能的。
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luckydaii
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为啥会觉得她们过得好?我觉得她们过得挺可怜的。人渐老,求爱不得,求子不得,只有表面风光。还好四个好友能相互扶持,不然得孤独空虚成什么样子。
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superanna
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非常不理解Carrie凭什么逼Charllote卖戒指给她凑钱,凭什么要别人给自己任性消费买单? ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
夏季民族风
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猪脚光环啊!
特立独行的猫
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谁能告诉我纽约多少million 的算豪宅?
为什么有的人 住有doorman 的 apartment 就装逼自己是upper scale
中国的apartment 不是都有doorman 嘛?
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shijiezhenmeihao
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是有一些女人把钱都用在打扮自己上了,但是那是有目的的,靠提升自己的外在条件不放过任何机会嫁有钱人,而且成功率很高。我们公司两个亚裔都是靠这套嫁给了有钱人,用我们这种读书出来的眼光看,完全就是两个鸡,但是男人喜欢呀。有钱人的眼睛一眼就是看到这种女人,我们这种,人家就是很礼貌,用我老板的话,但凡跟我搭腔的男人都是同性恋,目的是把我娶回家当形妻,问为什么,老板笑而不语。一天顿悟,因为脑门大写着性冷淡。
特立独行的猫
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是有一些女人把钱都用在打扮自己上了,但是那是有目的的,靠提升自己的外在条件不放过任何机会嫁有钱人,而且成功率很高。我们公司两个亚裔都是靠这套嫁给了有钱人,用我们这种读书出来的眼光看,完全就是两个鸡,但是男人喜欢呀。有钱人的眼睛一眼就是看到这种女人,我们这种,人家就是很礼貌,用我老板的话,但凡跟我搭腔的男人都是同性恋,目的是把我娶回家当形妻,问为什么,老板笑而不语。一天顿悟,因为脑门大写着性冷淡。
shijiezhenmeihao 发表于 3/16/2018 5:18:14 AM
哈哈哈哈😂 MM好有趣
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liuxingqi99
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别理她,她一个不懂行的人还瞎bb
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liuxingqi99
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别瞎bb,你懂啥,什么十年前,那是9几年,鸡蛋才多少一盒,400一双M打头的鞋,很贵了好吧,那时候Carrie100双400的的鞋可以付她那小公寓的首付了,现在M经典款1k,还富二代呢,我看给我做指甲的mm都在买,买奢侈品现在绝对比以前多,设计师也是大牌设计好不啦,质量好不好也要分牌子好不啦
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liuxingqi99
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基本上,大 building都有 doorman
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0869r
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那是编剧的故事而已 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
特立独行的猫
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基本上,大 building都有 doorman

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 7:37:10 AM
我也觉得 有doorman 不是很正常的嘛 居然有人拿这个来体现优越感,匪夷所思,太low 了
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liuxingqi99
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Carrie YY的,然后拍电影时又把服装上上升了一个档次,单身时也是到处玩,男的基本和剧里说的差不多,女的除了像S有要抛头露面的,都没有平时穿那么好的,到高档点的地方,鞋子包包有些都是一看就看的出牌子的,衣服都没那么贵,也没那么花枝招展。倒是亚裔,有些不是富二代还是从头到脚大牌的
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liuxingqi99
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老板好犀利哦
特立独行的猫
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别瞎bb,你懂啥,什么十年前,那是9几年,鸡蛋才多少一盒,400一双M打头的鞋,很贵了好吧,那时候Carrie100双400的的鞋可以付她那小公寓的首付了,现在M经典款1k,还富二代呢,我看给我做指甲的mm都在买,买奢侈品现在绝对比以前多,设计师也是大牌设计好不啦,质量好不好也要分牌子好不啦

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 7:31:58 AM
对啊,我看奶茶店的妹妹都在穿,和富二代有半毛钱关系
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flyingplate
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马龙龙鞋子$800一双吧,一柜子100双就是8万,哪里够首付。
酱油小弟
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carrie比普通拜金女还麻烦,文艺女拜金又要有金又还有各种其他要求。比如普通拜金女也就是跟了那个俄国佬了。不过人是多面的,我觉得她对女性朋友还算慷慨比较sweet


虽说 big是渣男,可是carrie更渣,且绿茶。。

doublemint 发表于 3/16/2018 1:13:00 AM
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liuxingqi99
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觉得区别最大的是首饰,买大牌鞋子包包的女的很多,但是亚裔带来带去就是那些爆款,但真正的上中产出席event衣服可能很简单,她们的配饰很出彩,都是珠宝,或很有设计感的,我语文不好描述不了。反正,戴T家的也不会让你看出来牌子,但看石头和设计都是上乘,头发都去店里做过一样,当然有些有时间是自己吹的,但大多数没时间也没那么专业。C家镯子是我唯一看过名媛戴的很多的爆款,普通上中产也不戴,我看到代购图和国内网红真是人手一个,美国这一问订婚戒指好多是T家的,还有偶尔V家十花,记住不是单花,爱马仕包也可以整一个,其他去欧洲掏点特别首饰吧
落地无声
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马龙龙鞋子$800一双吧,一柜子100双就是8万,哪里够首付。
flyingplate 发表于 3/16/2018 8:04:36 AM
她那个小walk up, 90年代也就20多万
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Giovanna
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Re,她们的作风换成teenager或者early 20s还算合情合理,40岁的女人这个状态其实蛮幼稚,完全没有职业女性的样子,倒像是一群游手好闲的小青年,yy的成分太高了。

倒是觉得同一个作者的lipstick jungle比satc好看得多,每个女人塑造得都更立体,除了爱情以外也要面对很多真实生活的烦恼,职场,家庭,互相之间的支持也是实质性的比如在职场上,不单是空虚的抱团取暖。可惜这个剧不火,两季之后就砍了。


为啥会觉得她们过得好?我觉得她们过得挺可怜的。人渐老,求爱不得,求子不得,只有表面风光。还好四个好友能相互扶持,不然得孤独空虚成什么样子。

luckydaii 发表于 3/16/2018 3:23:00 AM
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liuxingqi99
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俄国佬没有big有钱,而且风趣对她胃口,她真是又丑又作啊
落地无声
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当年还读过Candace Bushnell 的小说呢, 其实就是好多短篇组成的。
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liuxingqi99
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真是有安全感啊,我要是账户里低于70k就睡不着了。话说,有个富二代也是,留学到处借钱挥霍, 他妈偷偷瞒着他爸在他毕业时,还上了欠的十几万美元,他也真厉害,要我都借不到那么多钱让我挥霍的。反正,总结是,纽约单身大龄女,很多都婚配随缘了,除了家里很有钱,或者要做业务的,都没有花那么多钱在衣服上,很多大牌衣服都是大sale,或sample sale掏来的,,花不了几个钱,最主要是房子。而且,我发觉纽约男的想吊白富美的很多,也是打扮光鲜,后来我出去都不背大牌包了,一背,莫名其妙来搭讪,有三句就问你,家住哪个区,做什么工作的,查户口的很多,女单都没这样的呢。烦死这种男的了,很多长得都很丑,还想靠女的
大衣被禁
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这你都能扯上亚裔。
别自恨了。
同样经济水平下,亚裔的品味绝对比白人好而低调。那些中上产的白人最喜欢的就是有大又丑的fashion jewelry 根本不能看,钻戒更是非常非常大非常非常黄。带个小单花的都算品味好的了。
你拿中产亚裔跟白名媛比有什么意思。有本事你拿亚名媛来比啊。

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觉得区别最大的是首饰,买大牌鞋子包包的女的很多,但是亚裔带来带去就是那些爆款,但真正的上中产出席event衣服可能很简单,她们的配饰很出彩,都是珠宝,或很有设计感的,我语文不好描述不了。反正,戴T家的也不会让你看出来牌子,但看石头和设计都是上乘,头发都去店里做过一样,当然有些有时间是自己吹的,但大多数没时间也没那么专业。C家镯子是我唯一看过名媛戴的很多的爆款,普通上中产也不戴,我看到代购图和国内网红真是人手一个,美国这一问订婚戒指好多是T家的,还有偶尔V家十花,记住不是单花,爱马仕包也可以整一个,其他去欧洲掏点特别首饰吧

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 8:10:00 AM
落地无声
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https://thoughtcatalog.com/stephanie-georgopulos/2011/06/carrie-bradshaws-budget-in-real-numbers/

Carrie Bradshaw’s Budget In Real Numbers
By Stephanie Georgopulos, June 21st 2011

The Background

A month ago, The Frenemy [1] wrote a humor piece titled ‘Carrie Bradshaw Math,’ in which the author attempted to break down the illusive Bradshaw Budget. I always enjoy The Frenemy’s articles, and this piece was no exception – but I felt unfulfilled when a trillion dollars was allocated to condoms (mostly because Carrie seems like the type who would take someone home from the bar and then get bitchface when they don’t have a condom on them because after all, “that’s the man’s responsibility”).

I didn’t want to watch the entire first season to write this (well, I did, because I always do, because I fxxking love the campy monstrosity that is Sex and the City), so I didn’t. I did, however, do some light research to paint what I believe to be as accurate a picture as we’re going to get regarding Carrie’s unkempt, irresponsible financial situation. For accuracy’s sake, this article refers specifically to Season 1 of the show, which took place in 1998.
Considering Inflation

What cost .75 cents at the start of the series now costs us $1.00.
Carrie’s Expenses

Carrie is a serious smoker during the first season of the show. I’d estimate, based on her drinking and stress patterns, that she smoked 3-4 packs a week. I say this as an ex-pack-a-day smoker. The cost of cigarettes nationwide in 1998 was $2.46 [2], but because everything’s more expensive in New York, let’s bump that number up to $3.50. This would put Carrie’s monthly cigarette expense at $49.

The average overpriced Manhattan cocktail is approximately $14 now, which makes the average 1998 Cosmopolitan (her drink of choice) $10.50. We’ll round that up to $11 per drink, the difference will account for a combination of tip and any number of drinks that were priced below the bougie price point of $10.50. The girls typically spend one night a week together sans dates, and based on her intoxication median (that is to say, slightly drunk but rarely boisterous), I wouldn’t expect that she’s ever purchased more than three drinks for herself on any given night. Drinks purchased by other people (Samantha, men) would account for the rest. That would put her at $33 a week, or $132 a month.

We’ll use Balthazar to deduce a price point for the typical brunch outing, as it appeared on the show countless times and is of similar stature to the restaurants they frequent. Because the girls don’t get bombed at brunch (is this what I have to look forward to?), I’d estimate that the bill would run them $160, or $121 in 1998 dollars. Since they seem to take turns treating each other, and inferring that they have brunch together once a week, the bottom line on brunch comes to $121 a month.

Prior to Carrie’s Vogue column and her book advance, she reveals that she’s spent $40K on shoes. Stanford calls Carrie out for wearing Candie’s (and taking the subway) when she first arrived to Manhattan in 1986 – so her “shoe addiction” hadn’t been fully realized in the ‘80s (because Candie’s, hello?) It’d be five years before she moved into her infamous Upper East Side apartment (according to the Sex and the City film, in which she claims to have lived in the apartment for 20 years when moving out). Let’s assume that she began her shoe collection in 1991, after securing her apartment. She calculates her shoe spending 11 years later, which would mean she’s been spending $3,363 a year, or $303 a month, on designer shoes.

Carrie is notorious for taking taxis everywhere. She goes out downtown often, so I’d slap a price tag of $25 (in today’s dollars) on a round-trip with tip, or $19 in 1998 money. Say she ventures out of the UES three times a week on average. That’s $228 a month on transportation. Remember – she’s been known to bum rides with Mr. Big, so she’s not taking a cab every time she leaves the house.

The Telecommunications Act of 1996 caused hella drama in its wake, and phone bills were unpredictable because of it – but my sister was a bill paying New Yorker back then and estimates her bill to have been $125 a month circa ’98.

Carrie does not own cable TV, internet, or air conditioning. Gas in 1998 was at its lowest since 1949, at $1.03 [3]. Knowing that, and combined with the fact that she hardly used any electricity, we can assume that her ConEd bill was miniscule. Probably $60 a month.

Carrie’s rent controlled apartment cost her $750 a month.
Carrie’s Column

In 2009, fashion writer Glenna Goldis publicly chastised The New York Observer, a weekly print publication that allegedly owed her $700 for two pieces she wrote for them [4]. Let’s assume they were $350 a piece.

We can agree that Bradshaw’s column for the fictional paper, New York Star, is meant to mirror Sex and the City author Candace Bushnell’s experience writing for the Observer. This would mean Star would’ve likely paid Bradshaw at least $350 in 2009 dollars. Let’s say, based on her notoriety, that she’d make $400 per column (in 2009). That’s approximately $300 a column in 1998 money. One column a week at $300 a column would give our girl a whopping $1,200 a month.
Income Tax

Carrie’s taxes are low, because she’s a broke ass. In 1998, she would’ve paid 15% of her income, so $2,100. Her New York State income tax would have been $973 [5]. Of course, as a freelancer, there’s a ton to be written off – but Carrie is irresponsible and doesn’t handle her money like an adult so let’s assume she didn’t see an accountant. Actually, let’s assume that she didn’t even pay her taxes (hay girl) (jk, please don’t audit me, I totally plan on paying my taxes) (…).
What I Can’t Account For

Meals other than brunch: This bitch keeps sweaters in her oven and offers Miranda expired food when she comes over, so it’s safe to assume she’s perpetually dining out. Who’s paying for it? Depends.

Gifts: The series starts with a birthday celebration. Later on, Carrie attends a baby shower.

Shopping: When Carrie cleans her closet out in the first Sex and the City movie, it’s revealed that she basically never throws anything out. If you remained the same size for twenty years and never threw anything out, you’d have an extensive wardrobe, too. It’s likely that Carrie has purchased 50% of her wardrobe and grifted the rest via her second tier socialite status. For that reason, I won’t put a number on clothes acquired in 1998.
Other Considerations

In Season 1 Episode 5, a French architect leaves Carrie $1,000 after a one-night stand. Add to bottom line.

In the ‘90s, banks were like, “You’re a panhandler and your annual income is $437.62? AWESOME. Take this no-limit credit card; you undesirable loan candidate!” So Carrie had some wiggle room when it came to spending money she didn’t have.

Because she was clearly overspending, there’s bound to be some credit card payments she should’ve been making, but again, this bitch can’t handle her money so don’t count on it.
Conclusions

In the first season of the show, Carrie spent an estimated $21,216. Let’s round that to $22K to account for the things I couldn’t itemize, like food and clothes that were actually paid for and not leeched from someone else. She made approximately $15,400 ($1,000 of which was a non-taxable “gift”). We can assume, then, that she closed 1998 about $6,500 in the hole (not including her unpaid taxes and ignored credit card payments). If her spending was similar in prior years, she probably had the debt of the modern recent college graduate come Y2K – IF THAT.

Carrie goes on to write $4 a word at Vogue (for a feature length article, that’s anywhere between $3,000 and $4,000 a month). She gets a $25,000 sign-on bonus for her first book (she goes on to write five, and they’re wildly popular), and finally, she marries rich. If she moved into Manhattan debt-free, she may have been able to crawl out of the red-numbered K-hole by crafting a successful career. Paying for college has put me in the same fxxked up financial boat as 1998 Carrie, minus 100 pairs of designer shoes.
What I’ve Learned

Inflation’s a bitch. TC mark
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liuxingqi99
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回复 40楼大衣被禁的帖子

那是你没见过,真正的名媛吧,T家c家钻不会黄,夸张的饰品不是太适合亚裔,但是并不代表夸张就没有设计感,就没有品味,亚洲刚结束的香港珠宝展也有很多有品味的夸张的,有些人会去拍卖行买珠宝。亚裔里也有好的,但是爆款的出现率太高了,看烦了,我是就是论事的,不自恨。圈子也没很名媛,只有偶尔慈善活动有些名媛,俺以前做代购的,各种亚洲,欧美的八卦,时尚杂志没少看,亚洲明星可能要带货,所以各种休闲服都大牌到夸张,欧美很随意,亚裔比较精致,但是跟风太厉害了,没有自己的风格,王菲的品味就很好,有自己的风格,条适合自己的,不跟风
特立独行的猫
43 楼
回复 10楼Cybercat的帖子

真是有安全感啊,我要是账户里低于70k就睡不着了。话说,有个富二代也是,留学到处借钱挥霍, 他妈偷偷瞒着他爸在他毕业时,还上了欠的十几万美元,他也真厉害,要我都借不到那么多钱让我挥霍的。反正,总结是,纽约单身大龄女,很多都婚配随缘了,除了家里很有钱,或者要做业务的,都没有花那么多钱在衣服上,很多大牌衣服都是大sale,或sample sale掏来的,,花不了几个钱,最主要是房子。而且,我发觉纽约男的想吊白富美的很多,也是打扮光鲜,后来我出去都不背大牌包了,一背,莫名其妙来搭讪,有三句就问你,家住哪个区,做什么工作的,查户口的很多,女单都没这样的呢。烦死这种男的了,很多长得都很丑,还想靠女的

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 8:22:57 AM
纽约男这么恶心啊 长的丑 想靠女的 还查户口 big no no no
上海风气不错 想交女友 包包自觉送来
大衣被禁
44 楼
我那句话说白名媛的钻戒黄了?拜托,我说的是白中产好不好。
你说的高频爆款出现的亚裔是名媛?
你说的名媛莫非是马工家的蹲家贵妇?
我说的很清楚了,就品味来说,
亚裔名媛=白名媛》亚裔中产》白中产。

回复40楼大衣被禁的帖子
那是你没见过,真正的名媛吧,T家c家钻不会黄,夸张的饰品不是太适合亚裔,但是并不代表夸张就没有设计感,就没有品味,亚洲刚结束的香港珠宝展也有很多有品味的夸张的,有些人会去拍卖行买珠宝。亚裔里也有好的,但是爆款的出现率太高了,看烦了,我是就是论事的,不自恨

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 8:39:00 AM
快乐小新
45 楼
妥妥的暴漏年龄的帖子啊。
辣么远久的事情了。
踩一爪子, 里面只喜欢Maranda多一点点, 4个都很drama, 自私, 都很渣渣呼呼的。
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liuxingqi99
46 楼
回复 43楼特立独行的猫的帖子

有些挺帅的,发现美国人好自信,特别是碰到亚裔女,可能他们不觉得自己丑有机会就上
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liuxingqi99
47 楼
我那句话说白名媛的钻戒黄了?拜托,我说的是白中产好不好。
你说的高频爆款出现的亚裔是名媛?
你说的名媛莫非是马工家的蹲家贵妇?
我说的很清楚了,就品味来说,
亚裔名媛=白名媛》亚裔中产》白中产。

大衣被禁 发表于 3/16/2018 8:43:39 AM
讨论纽约风,上班啦,不和你烦啦
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flyingplate
48 楼
这你都能扯上亚裔。
别自恨了。
同样经济水平下,亚裔的品味绝对比白人好而低调。那些中上产的白人最喜欢的就是有大又丑的fashion jewelry 根本不能看,钻戒更是非常非常大非常非常黄。带个小单花的都算品味好的了。
你拿中产亚裔跟白名媛比有什么意思。有本事你拿亚名媛来比啊。

大衣被禁 发表于 3/16/2018 8:25:00 AM
我们司有个女MD就是这种手腕上一个Rolex 一个黄金蛇头手镯一串钻石。。。叮叮当当5,6个,另一只手也是,还不算4,5个戒指bling bling 生怕别人不知道她有钱。为人幽默nice还很聪明。看着还挺羡慕。
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momosun
49 楼
回复 10楼Cybercat的帖子

真是有安全感啊,我要是账户里低于70k就睡不着了。话说,有个富二代也是,留学到处借钱挥霍, 他妈偷偷瞒着他爸在他毕业时,还上了欠的十几万美元,他也真厉害,要我都借不到那么多钱让我挥霍的。反正,总结是,纽约单身大龄女,很多都婚配随缘了,除了家里很有钱,或者要做业务的,都没有花那么多钱在衣服上,很多大牌衣服都是大sale,或sample sale掏来的,,花不了几个钱,最主要是房子。而且,我发觉纽约男的想吊白富美的很多,也是打扮光鲜,后来我出去都不背大牌包了,一背,莫名其妙来搭讪,有三句就问你,家住哪个区,做什么工作的,查户口的很多,女单都没这样的呢。烦死这种男的了,很多长得都很丑,还想靠女的

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 8:22:57 AM
纽约男这么恶心啊 长的丑 想靠女的 还查户口 big no no no
上海风气不错 想交女友 包包自觉送来

特立独行的猫 发表于 3/16/2018 8:42:31 AM
纽约其实也一样,这样的二三十万的中产女,date几次也要送包包的
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bloodymica
50 楼
非常不理解Carrie凭什么逼Charllote卖戒指给她凑钱,凭什么要别人给自己任性消费买单? ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
superanna 发表于 3/16/2018 3:33:35 AM
单纯说只是用戒指做down抵押,并没有卖掉……
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bloodymica
51 楼
carrie比普通拜金女还麻烦,文艺女拜金又要有金又还有各种其他要求。比如普通拜金女也就是跟了那个俄国佬了。不过人是多面的,我觉得她对女性朋友还算慷慨比较sweet

酱油小弟 发表于 3/16/2018 8:07:08 AM
真的说的太对了……不过看戏吗,还是要看文艺拜金女最有戏。
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stacych8008
52 楼
Miranda的生活是比较接地气的。
特立独行的猫
53 楼
纽约其实也一样,这样的二三十万的中产女,date几次也要送包包的
momosun 发表于 3/16/2018 9:17:11 AM
纽约不是女的多出来很多 都恨嫁嘛?
男的还需要送包?
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pinkpinkpig
54 楼
想到gossipgirl里面S的妈妈那个演员自己狗血一样的生活。她上一任有钱老公就是在咖啡馆里遇见就追她了。


是有一些女人把钱都用在打扮自己上了,但是那是有目的的,靠提升自己的外在条件不放过任何机会嫁有钱人,而且成功率很高。我们公司两个亚裔都是靠这套嫁给了有钱人,用我们这种读书出来的眼光看,完全就是两个鸡,但是男人喜欢呀。有钱人的眼睛一眼就是看到这种女人,我们这种,人家就是很礼貌,用我老板的话,但凡跟我搭腔的男人都是同性恋,目的是把我娶回家当形妻,问为什么,老板笑而不语。一天顿悟,因为脑门大写着性冷淡。

shijiezhenmeihao 发表于 3/16/2018 5:18:00 AM
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CK
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回复 1楼特立独行的猫的帖子

觉得区别最大的是首饰,买大牌鞋子包包的女的很多,但是亚裔带来带去就是那些爆款,但真正的上中产出席event衣服可能很简单,她们的配饰很出彩,都是珠宝,或很有设计感的,我语文不好描述不了。反正,戴T家的也不会让你看出来牌子,但看石头和设计都是上乘,头发都去店里做过一样,当然有些有时间是自己吹的,但大多数没时间也没那么专业。C家镯子是我唯一看过名媛戴的很多的爆款,普通上中产也不戴,我看到代购图和国内网红真是人手一个,美国这一问订婚戒指好多是T家的,还有偶尔V家十花,记住不是单花,爱马仕包也可以整一个,其他去欧洲掏点特别首饰吧

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 8:10:40 AM
啥跟啥啊? 有钱人戴的首饰不是harry winston 吗? 你就看见华人爆款了.
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CK
56 楼
Miranda的生活是比较接地气的。
stacych8008 发表于 3/16/2018 9:32:05 AM
Miranda可惜了. 那么独立能干的一个人, 干嘛要找个....一无是处的steve, 他一贯约富裕女人, 后来还出轨, 还只有一个ball.
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CK
57 楼
纽约不是女的多出来很多 都恨嫁嘛?
男的还需要送包?

特立独行的猫 发表于 3/16/2018 9:38:39 AM
人家只恨嫁有钱男人. 穷diao丝没有有兴趣. 不送包包谁知道你是真的有钱男人.
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sunnypotato
58 楼
Miranda可惜了. 那么独立能干的一个人, 干嘛要找个....一无是处的steve, 他一贯约富裕女人, 后来还出轨, 还只有一个ball.

CK 发表于 3/16/2018 10:19:32 AM
就是经典的ABCD理论啊。有钱男人都找Big前妻,或者Charlotte那种
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StrawberryDream
59 楼
人死了都是尘埃,活着的时候折腾下挺好的。
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cheerful
60 楼
It's a show
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unexpectedgift
61 楼
这个电视剧有多少名牌服装赞助啊,不穿得光鲜时髦还有什么看头。现实生活中从事他们这些职业的女人那么买买买钱也不够啊。
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CK
62 楼
就是经典的ABCD理论啊。有钱男人都找Big前妻,或者Charlotte那种

sunnypotato 发表于 3/16/2018 10:22:28 AM
是啊. clarrie爱BIG, 但是BIG不怎么甩她.  clarrie在BIG眼里是召之即来的地位.
Charlotte是喜欢谁就能抓住谁.
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22oc
63 楼
没怎么看过sex and city, 感觉carrie也就是赚多少花多少吧,就一个杂志写恋爱版面的,那里算得上中上产了,有点钱都拿来买衣服了,然后整天就是幻想点完美爱情白马王子之类的,这也就是以前那个年代的剧,放到现在很不符合女性价值观
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beschauzeichen
64 楼
没那么潇洒
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ranran
65 楼
是啊. clarrie爱BIG, 但是BIG不怎么甩她.  clarrie在BIG眼里是召之即来的地位.
Charlotte是喜欢谁就能抓住谁.

CK 发表于 3/16/2018 10:43:39 AM
那是Big有钱,要是没钱,你看Carrie还有那么执着嘛
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flyingplate
66 楼
Miranda可惜了. 那么独立能干的一个人, 干嘛要找个....一无是处的steve, 他一贯约富裕女人, 后来还出轨, 还只有一个ball.

CK 发表于 3/16/2018 10:19:32 AM
15年前风气还是瞧不起女强人的吧。哪个女学生要肯去engineering,学院就发钱。
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Q-Tips
67 楼
Miranda可惜了. 那么独立能干的一个人, 干嘛要找个....一无是处的steve, 他一贯约富裕女人, 后来还出轨, 还只有一个ball.

CK 发表于 3/16/2018 10:19:32 AM
resteve其实是里面最渣的了,别的男的都是明着渣,steve是渣还要立xx
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waterL
68 楼
记得这剧的形象设计师自己说,“有观众问,她们怎么afford这些服饰的?不重要了,哈哈......我就是要她们over the top美美的" (大意)
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CK
69 楼
那是Big有钱,要是没钱,你看Carrie还有那么执着嘛

ranran 发表于 3/16/2018 11:22:44 AM
同意. 所以我很不喜欢Carrie.
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johnhay
70 楼
Carrie就是佔了控租房
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johnhay
71 楼
沒錯,以前所謂的designer bag並沒那麼貴,chanel也有seasonal discount
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stacych8008
72 楼
是啊. clarrie爱BIG, 但是BIG不怎么甩她.  clarrie在BIG眼里是召之即来的地位.
Charlotte是喜欢谁就能抓住谁.

CK 发表于 3/16/2018 10:43:39 AM

Charlotte 才是有钱男人的最终目标。

Carrie是给生活在水深火热中的文艺女青年YY的。
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stacych8008
73 楼
resteve其实是里面最渣的了,别的男的都是明着渣,steve是渣还要立xx

Q-Tips 发表于 3/16/2018 11:33:47 AM

也只有Steve 能忍Miranda的坏脾气和judgmental。其实我觉得还蛮符合现实的。
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AbeLoveMe
74 楼
也只有Steve 能忍Miranda的坏脾气。
stacych8008 发表于 3/16/2018 11:52:05 AM

电视剧编剧对Miranda太不友好,我见到的女lawyer,女banker要么独身,要么嫁给同行,很少会和比自己差很多得男人在一起,倒是像Carrie这种文艺女嫁都是不靠谱得很多。
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purplebasil
75 楼

Charlotte 才是有钱男人的最终目标。

Carrie是给生活在水深火热中的文艺女青年YY的。

stacych8008 发表于 3/16/2018 11:50:38 AM

同意,charlotte 出身蓝血,脾气好,最容易嫁有钱人。Miranda脾气不好又judgemental,配Steve挺好。
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purplebasil
76 楼

电视剧编剧对Miranda太不友好,我见到的女lawyer,女banker要么独身,要么嫁给同行,很少会和比自己差很多得男人在一起,倒是像Carrie这种文艺女嫁都是不靠谱得很多。

AbeLoveMe 发表于 3/16/2018 11:56:06 AM

我身边的女律师女trader,有嫁旗鼓相当的,也有嫁赚钱能力差一些的暖男的,主要看脾气如何,我还没见过上嫁的。我认识几个女同事的老公是在家当家庭主夫的。
特立独行的猫
77 楼

同意,charlotte 出身蓝血,脾气好,最容易嫁有钱人。Miranda脾气不好又judgemental,配Steve挺好。

purplebasil 发表于 3/16/2018 11:57:36 AM
她什么出身?
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summerhascome
78 楼
回复 1楼特立独行的猫的帖子

Miranda生活挺真实的,包括她穿着打扮和一些想法。
她男朋友那段情节有点不写实。
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purplebasil
79 楼
她什么出身?
特立独行的猫 发表于 3/16/2018 12:01:46 PM

忘记了,就记得她家是 Connecticut 有钱人区,她小时候还有个 pony。养马不是一个便宜的消遣。
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sunnypotato
80 楼

忘记了,就记得她家是 Connecticut 有钱人区,她小时候还有个 pony。养马不是一个便宜的消遣。

purplebasil 发表于 3/16/2018 12:03:20 PM
隐约记得她爸是个政客
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cindy2012
81 楼
记得这剧的形象设计师自己说,“有观众问,她们怎么afford这些服饰的?不重要了,哈哈......我就是要她们over the top美美的" (大意)

waterL 发表于 3/16/2018 11:37:31 AM

Re本来就是时装剧
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qqzjqqzj
82 楼

同意,charlotte 出身蓝血,脾气好,最容易嫁有钱人。Miranda脾气不好又judgemental,配Steve挺好。

purplebasil 发表于 3/16/2018 11:57:36 AM
我记得看电影版的时候
charlotte拿玫瑰砸逃婚的big   看得我泪流满面
然后后来路上碰到big对big说I curse the day you were born.  多好的闺蜜啊
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unexpectedgift
83 楼
我记得看电影版的时候
charlotte拿玫瑰砸逃婚的big   看得我泪流满面
然后后来路上碰到big对big说I curse the day you were born.  多好的闺蜜啊

qqzjqqzj 发表于 3/16/2018 12:12:10 PM

那是carrie拿玫瑰砸big, 不是 charlotte
小白兔兽性大发
84 楼
这剧刚出来的时候就有人说,把自己当成剧里任何一个人(哪怕不是主角),都是脑子秀逗了。。
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StrawberryDream
85 楼
这剧刚出来的时候就有人说,把自己当成剧里任何一个人(哪怕不是主角),都是脑子秀逗了。。
小白兔兽性大发 发表于 3/16/2018 12:21:48 PM
每个人都能在里面找到自己的影子,所以这剧才红啊。我90后的学生都爱看这剧,还觉得心有戚戚焉
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aac
86 楼
特不喜欢这剧,性格太drama,但特喜欢看大家评论这剧。
87 楼
Re, 韩剧就更不真实了,女主人设出身穷人家,每天要打几份工才能生存,然后每次出场都要换各种新衣服新包包
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xiang2010
88 楼
https://thoughtcatalog.com/stephanie-georgopulos/2011/06/carrie-bradshaws-budget-in-real-numbers/

Carrie Bradshaw’s Budget In Real Numbers
By Stephanie Georgopulos, June 21st 2011

The Background

A month ago, The Frenemy [1] wrote a humor piece titled ‘Carrie Bradshaw Math,’ in which the author attempted to break down the illusive Bradshaw Budget. I always enjoy The Frenemy’s articles, and this piece was no exception – but I felt unfulfilled when a trillion dollars was allocated to condoms (mostly because Carrie seems like the type who would take someone home from the bar and then get bitchface when they don’t have a condom on them because after all, “that’s the man’s responsibility”).

I didn’t want to watch the entire first season to write this (well, I did, because I always do, because I fxxking love the campy monstrosity that is Sex and the City), so I didn’t. I did, however, do some light research to paint what I believe to be as accurate a picture as we’re going to get regarding Carrie’s unkempt, irresponsible financial situation. For accuracy’s sake, this article refers specifically to Season 1 of the show, which took place in 1998.
Considering Inflation

What cost .75 cents at the start of the series now costs us $1.00.
Carrie’s Expenses

Carrie is a serious smoker during the first season of the show. I’d estimate, based on her drinking and stress patterns, that she smoked 3-4 packs a week. I say this as an ex-pack-a-day smoker. The cost of cigarettes nationwide in 1998 was $2.46 [2], but because everything’s more expensive in New York, let’s bump that number up to $3.50. This would put Carrie’s monthly cigarette expense at $49.

The average overpriced Manhattan cocktail is approximately $14 now, which makes the average 1998 Cosmopolitan (her drink of choice) $10.50. We’ll round that up to $11 per drink, the difference will account for a combination of tip and any number of drinks that were priced below the bougie price point of $10.50. The girls typically spend one night a week together sans dates, and based on her intoxication median (that is to say, slightly drunk but rarely boisterous), I wouldn’t expect that she’s ever purchased more than three drinks for herself on any given night. Drinks purchased by other people (Samantha, men) would account for the rest. That would put her at $33 a week, or $132 a month.

We’ll use Balthazar to deduce a price point for the typical brunch outing, as it appeared on the show countless times and is of similar stature to the restaurants they frequent. Because the girls don’t get bombed at brunch (is this what I have to look forward to?), I’d estimate that the bill would run them $160, or $121 in 1998 dollars. Since they seem to take turns treating each other, and inferring that they have brunch together once a week, the bottom line on brunch comes to $121 a month.

Prior to Carrie’s Vogue column and her book advance, she reveals that she’s spent $40K on shoes. Stanford calls Carrie out for wearing Candie’s (and taking the subway) when she first arrived to Manhattan in 1986 – so her “shoe addiction” hadn’t been fully realized in the ‘80s (because Candie’s, hello?) It’d be five years before she moved into her infamous Upper East Side apartment (according to the Sex and the City film, in which she claims to have lived in the apartment for 20 years when moving out). Let’s assume that she began her shoe collection in 1991, after securing her apartment. She calculates her shoe spending 11 years later, which would mean she’s been spending $3,363 a year, or $303 a month, on designer shoes.

Carrie is notorious for taking taxis everywhere. She goes out downtown often, so I’d slap a price tag of $25 (in today’s dollars) on a round-trip with tip, or $19 in 1998 money. Say she ventures out of the UES three times a week on average. That’s $228 a month on transportation. Remember – she’s been known to bum rides with Mr. Big, so she’s not taking a cab every time she leaves the house.

The Telecommunications Act of 1996 caused hella drama in its wake, and phone bills were unpredictable because of it – but my sister was a bill paying New Yorker back then and estimates her bill to have been $125 a month circa ’98.

Carrie does not own cable TV, internet, or air conditioning. Gas in 1998 was at its lowest since 1949, at $1.03 [3]. Knowing that, and combined with the fact that she hardly used any electricity, we can assume that her ConEd bill was miniscule. Probably $60 a month.

Carrie’s rent controlled apartment cost her $750 a month.
Carrie’s Column

In 2009, fashion writer Glenna Goldis publicly chastised The New York Observer, a weekly print publication that allegedly owed her $700 for two pieces she wrote for them [4]. Let’s assume they were $350 a piece.

We can agree that Bradshaw’s column for the fictional paper, New York Star, is meant to mirror Sex and the City author Candace Bushnell’s experience writing for the Observer. This would mean Star would’ve likely paid Bradshaw at least $350 in 2009 dollars. Let’s say, based on her notoriety, that she’d make $400 per column (in 2009). That’s approximately $300 a column in 1998 money. One column a week at $300 a column would give our girl a whopping $1,200 a month.
Income Tax

Carrie’s taxes are low, because she’s a broke ass. In 1998, she would’ve paid 15% of her income, so $2,100. Her New York State income tax would have been $973 [5]. Of course, as a freelancer, there’s a ton to be written off – but Carrie is irresponsible and doesn’t handle her money like an adult so let’s assume she didn’t see an accountant. Actually, let’s assume that she didn’t even pay her taxes (hay girl) (jk, please don’t audit me, I totally plan on paying my taxes) (…).
What I Can’t Account For

Meals other than brunch: This bitch keeps sweaters in her oven and offers Miranda expired food when she comes over, so it’s safe to assume she’s perpetually dining out. Who’s paying for it? Depends.

Gifts: The series starts with a birthday celebration. Later on, Carrie attends a baby shower.

Shopping: When Carrie cleans her closet out in the first Sex and the City movie, it’s revealed that she basically never throws anything out. If you remained the same size for twenty years and never threw anything out, you’d have an extensive wardrobe, too. It’s likely that Carrie has purchased 50% of her wardrobe and grifted the rest via her second tier socialite status. For that reason, I won’t put a number on clothes acquired in 1998.
Other Considerations

In Season 1 Episode 5, a French architect leaves Carrie $1,000 after a one-night stand. Add to bottom line.

In the ‘90s, banks were like, “You’re a panhandler and your annual income is $437.62? AWESOME. Take this no-limit credit card; you undesirable loan candidate!” So Carrie had some wiggle room when it came to spending money she didn’t have.

Because she was clearly overspending, there’s bound to be some credit card payments she should’ve been making, but again, this bitch can’t handle her money so don’t count on it.
Conclusions

In the first season of the show, Carrie spent an estimated $21,216. Let’s round that to $22K to account for the things I couldn’t itemize, like food and clothes that were actually paid for and not leeched from someone else. She made approximately $15,400 ($1,000 of which was a non-taxable “gift”). We can assume, then, that she closed 1998 about $6,500 in the hole (not including her unpaid taxes and ignored credit card payments). If her spending was similar in prior years, she probably had the debt of the modern recent college graduate come Y2K – IF THAT.

Carrie goes on to write $4 a word at Vogue (for a feature length article, that’s anywhere between $3,000 and $4,000 a month). She gets a $25,000 sign-on bonus for her first book (she goes on to write five, and they’re wildly popular), and finally, she marries rich. If she moved into Manhattan debt-free, she may have been able to crawl out of the red-numbered K-hole by crafting a successful career. Paying for college has put me in the same fxxked up financial boat as 1998 Carrie, minus 100 pairs of designer shoes.
What I’ve Learned

Inflation’s a bitch. TC mark

落地无声 发表于 3/16/2018 8:38:45 AM
Haha, Mark, good article
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bloodymica
89 楼
每个人都能在里面找到自己的影子,所以这剧才红啊。我90后的学生都爱看这剧,还觉得心有戚戚焉

StrawberryDream 发表于 3/16/2018 12:27:41 PM
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yogurtyoga
90 楼
女主喜欢Big很好理解,电视里头说是多金又是年轻美貌版的trump。剧中女主爱上俄国艺术家,不接他电话,Big以为是play hard to get。亲自去找女主,却发现她当天要去巴黎了。后来追去巴黎一顿告白。那么Big为什么突然悟出来女主是the one的?铺垫不多
暖阳nini
91 楼
回复 15楼sterling_lover的帖子

别瞎bb,你懂啥,什么十年前,那是9几年,鸡蛋才多少一盒,400一双M打头的鞋,很贵了好吧,那时候Carrie100双400的的鞋可以付她那小公寓的首付了,现在M经典款1k,还富二代呢,我看给我做指甲的mm都在买,买奢侈品现在绝对比以前多,设计师也是大牌设计好不啦,质量好不好也要分牌子好不啦

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 7:31:58 AM
做指甲的不见得挣得比你少啊😋 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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fansl88
92 楼

我身边的女律师女trader,有嫁旗鼓相当的,也有嫁赚钱能力差一些的暖男的,主要看脾气如何,我还没见过上嫁的。我认识几个女同事的老公是在家当家庭主夫的。

purplebasil 发表于 3/16/2018 11:59:24 AM
我认识一个唯一上嫁的女“律师”,她是读法学院的时候就已经嫁给了学校所在州议员的儿子,政治世家的公子,当然她自己出身也很好,不清楚家里干嘛的,因为人家学校里从来不带我玩,但是据说和她老公从小私校同学,高中里就定情了,然后上了同一个大学,毕业就嫁了
凯凯
93 楼
GG里面S她妈不也是拎着birkin,戴VCA小白花耳环,跟都是亚裔爆款啊


回复1楼特立独行的猫的帖子
觉得区别最大的是首饰,买大牌鞋子包包的女的很多,但是亚裔带来带去就是那些爆款,但真正的上中产出席event衣服可能很简单,她们的配饰很出彩,都是珠宝,或很有设计感的,我语文不好描述不了。反正,戴T家的也不会让你看出来牌子,但看石头和设计都是上乘,头发都去店里做过一样,当然有些有时间是自己吹的,但大多数没时间也没那么专业。C家镯子是我唯一看过名媛戴的很多的爆款,普通上中产也不戴,我看到代购图和国内网红真是人手一个,美国这一问订婚戒指好多是T家的,还有偶尔V家十花,记住不是单花,爱马仕包也可以整一个,其他去欧洲掏点特别首饰吧

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 8:10:00 AM
凯凯
94 楼
什么不会黄,普通人也不会买特别黄的戒指啊。何况这两家最差的颜色也就F了吧


回复40楼大衣被禁的帖子
那是你没见过,真正的名媛吧,T家c家钻不会黄,夸张的饰品不是太适合亚裔,但是并不代表夸张就没有设计感,就没有品味,亚洲刚结束的香港珠宝展也有很多有品味的夸张的,有些人会去拍卖行买珠宝。亚裔里也有好的,但是爆款的出现率太高了,看烦了,我是就是论事的,不自恨。圈子也没很名媛,只有偶尔慈善活动有些名媛,俺以前做代购的,各种亚洲,欧美的八卦,时尚杂志没少看,亚洲明星可能要带货,所以各种休闲服都大牌到夸张,欧美很随意,亚裔比较精致,但是跟风太厉害了,没有自己的风格,王菲的品味就很好,有自己的风格,条适合自己的,不跟风

liuxingqi99 发表于 3/16/2018 8:39:00 AM
凯凯
95 楼
国内这种杂志的小编辑也是爱买买买啊,文科女和理科女消费观不一样


没怎么看过sex and city, 感觉carrie也就是赚多少花多少吧,就一个杂志写恋爱版面的,那里算得上中上产了,有点钱都拿来买衣服了,然后整天就是幻想点完美爱情白马王子之类的,这也就是以前那个年代的剧,放到现在很不符合女性价值观

22oc 发表于 3/16/2018 10:45:00 AM
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CK
96 楼
女主喜欢Big很好理解,电视里头说是多金又是年轻美貌版的trump。剧中女主爱上俄国艺术家,不接他电话,Big以为是play hard to get。亲自去找女主,却发现她当天要去巴黎了。后来追去巴黎一顿告白。那么Big为什么突然悟出来女主是the one的?铺垫不多
yogurtyoga 发表于 3/16/2018 12:51:43 PM
这个很好理解啊. 男人心里都有兽性, 就是要追逐猎物. 如果有个死兔子躺他眼前, 另一只活兔子跳着走过, 他肯定会去追那个活兔子. 死兔子反正在那里, 什么时候回来取都不晚.
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pattyandbump
97 楼
大家去看看big的原型Ron Galotti长啥样就知道电视电影实在是太美化这些人的生活了
酱油小弟
98 楼
夏学的专业也是有钱人读的,包括她的工作虽然钱不多但是还是很体面的给嫁有钱人做铺垫的。现实生活中如果夏长的如电视里那样,性格还这么居家那么有母性也保守的肯定早早嫁人了……不太可能还和她们一起混然后约会整天碰到稀奇古怪的渣男。


忘记了,就记得她家是 Connecticut 有钱人区,她小时候还有个 pony。养马不是一个便宜的消遣。

purplebasil 发表于 3/16/2018 12:03:00 PM
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Trusty
99 楼
这个剧我完全不能relate。有朋友很喜欢,在纽约生活过,有类似的经历吧 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
酱油小弟
100 楼
那是因为carrie是编剧之一,她想big再去找她所以就是the one了,满足文艺女青年的yy吧 女主光环....
哈哈据说sjp生活中也有这么一出只不过她和big没成


女主喜欢Big很好理解,电视里头说是多金又是年轻美貌版的trump。剧中女主爱上俄国艺术家,不接他电话,Big以为是play hard to get。亲自去找女主,却发现她当天要去巴黎了。后来追去巴黎一顿告白。那么Big为什么突然悟出来女主是the one的?铺垫不多

yogurtyoga 发表于 3/16/2018 12:51:00 PM