From Exclusive Dating to Relationship

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wemg
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I cannot type in Chinese since I am using my work laptop.
I have been seeing this guy for over two months. We have been sort of exclusively seeing each other but he has never spoken it out. I found out he went back to use the dating web again a few days ago and i was really upset. So i started to ask him if we were dating and where we stand. After a few days' serious talk, finally he agreed we are exclusively dating.

Just wanted to ask mm here, what is the next step from exclusively dating to being in a relationship? any suggestions what to do? Not to do during this period?

Thanks!
yyyyingggg
you will know when things get serious.....like he will introduce you to his friends and he will tell you that he loves you and wanted you to meet his family
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hellokitty00
If you need to force a guy to go exclusive with you, do you think how long it is gonna last? I think you should tell him if he doesn't want to be exclusive them you will start dating around too.
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solveijg
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Exclusive这种事得男生提,男生如果不提,那就默认他还在见其他人,你不吭声也见其他人。Matthew Hussey有个视频专门讲怎么DTR (Define The Relationship)

以我的经验,男生真正上心的都很快想把你lock down,生怕你被别人抢走了。不用主动提,男生基本约会5,6次之后就会主动提。如果吃着碗里还看着锅里的,十有八九不是很serious或者不是那么喜欢。
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wemg
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Exclusive这种事得男生提,男生如果不提,那就默认他还在见其他人,你不吭声也见其他人。Matthew Hussey有个视频专门讲怎么DTR (Define The Relationship)

以我的经验,男生真正上心的都很快想把你lock down,生怕你被别人抢走了。不用主动提,男生基本约会5,6次之后就会主动提。如果吃着碗里还看着锅里的,十有八九不是很serious或者不是那么喜欢。
solveijg 发表于 11/9/2017 1:12:55 PM
我date的不少、还没有遇到见了5,6次就能知道要不要exclusive的。我觉得我可能太慢热了
crazycrab
我date的不少、还没有遇到见了5,6次就能知道要不要exclusive的。我觉得我可能太慢热了

wemg 发表于 11/9/2017 2:19:01 PM

我觉得女生慢热很正常,比如我,年龄到了,找的肯定是结婚对象,觉得没了解到一定程度不敢贸然进入relationship,很谨慎,因为不小心就耽误几个月甚至几年。所以我男朋友很早就跟别人说我是他女朋友的时候,虽然我也没见其他人,但我心里面还没有承认他是我男朋友,直到两个多月后。
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Joyce1026
I don’t think girls should ever initiate the talk. That gives the guy power to make a decision.
I also thought being in an exclusive relationship means you are are in a relationship .... lol whats the point otherwise
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xiaobuding0110
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我以后也要这样~ 感情不要投入太快
大衣被禁
你们互相介绍这是我的男女朋友就是exclusive.
你们订婚了就是in a relationship.
你们结婚了,就算感情不错。
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appleabc
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Exclusive这种事得男生提,男生如果不提,那就默认他还在见其他人,你不吭声也见其他人。Matthew Hussey有个视频专门讲怎么DTR (Define The Relationship)

以我的经验,男生真正上心的都很快想把你lock down,生怕你被别人抢走了。不用主动提,男生基本约会5,6次之后就会主动提。如果吃着碗里还看着锅里的,十有八九不是很serious或者不是那么喜欢。
solveijg 发表于 11/9/2017 1:12:55 PM
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korikori
我的情况是直接问的
我们是从朋友开始的
我问他你还在跟别人约会吗? 他说没有啊 为什么会? 你呢 我说我也没有,但是这个在美国好像挺正常
他逗我说你身边都是些什么人呀 我身边没这样的
哈哈 给他点个赞
直接问呗。 然后不玻璃心就行