姐妹们 怎么对付玩消失的男人?

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楼主
网上搜了下 很多男人都玩消失的把戏 就是DATE几次 明显感到对方很喜欢你 天天联系你 突然就CANT HEAR FROM HIM ANYMORE了
网上的答案说他们要么是试探你想PULL BACK, 要么是太忙了, 要么是同时约太多 忙不过来 ,要么是找了个更好的没勇气和你说再见 ,要么就是享受BE A CHASER而已 ,要么就是太INTO你了 但目前不想谈感情 所以选个不怎么CARE的女人玩玩而已。

怎么对方这样的行为呢?因为实在是太伤人了  遇到2次了
有高招的姐妹吗? 以后防止类似事情发生
valentinemonkey
别对付了啊move on,这种玩消失无论有多少借口结论都是他对你还没有那么大的兴趣。
Starry
我觉得反正你也改变不了别人,还是自己调整心态吧,真喜欢的主动点多努力一下,没那么喜欢的就算了呗,反正自己别端着
minijing
同意楼上的,你也消失了就得了呗
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回复 4楼Starry的帖子

端着是什么意思
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coconutmilkc
玩冷暴力男人最渣了 但我可以肯定一点就是肯定不是太into你 再白痴的男人爱你的时候也巴不得天天见你和你腻一起 这种玩消失的最大可能性就是甩了你但不肯主动说分手 这种男人千万不要再留恋了 赶紧move on吧 以后结婚有娃了就知道这种破男人是最惹不起的一类
Starry
就是比较在意面子的意思


回复4楼 Starry 的帖子
端着是什么意思

笑笑哇哈哈 发表于 11/23/2016 4:11:00 PM
麦圆儿
他们怎么对付你,你就怎么对付他呗。 万花丛里过, 片香不沾衣, 谁都能做得到。 别把自己放太低就行了。
冰是睡着的水
吃饱了撑的有精力还不如赚钱
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回复 6楼coconutmilkc的帖子

只约会了3次  约第四次的时候 时间约不上 就不联系我了 然后更新ONLINE DATING 照片 然后当天又去掉更新的照片 然后晚上联系我了 聊的开心 然后又几天不联系了
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回复 6楼coconutmilkc的帖子

之前是天天联系我
Starry
菇凉,看样子你也挺喜欢对方的,那你也主动点联系对方啊,你这种不叫玩消失,玩消失是你想联系都联系不上……


回复6楼 coconutmilkc 的帖子
只约会了3次  约第四次的时候 时间约不上 就不联系我了 然后更新ONLINE DATING 照片 然后当天又去掉更新的照片 然后晚上联系我了 聊的开心 然后又几天不联系了

笑笑哇哈哈 发表于 11/23/2016 4:17:00 PM
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回复 12楼Starry的帖子

我一气之下 把WHATAPP注销了
WHATAPP是2年前注册的 用的是之前的手机 现在注销后 没法恢复了
他只有我WHATAPP NUMBER
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tncountrygal
Those men who would disappear are NOT that into you. Stop finding excuses for them, move on, better yourself. Even a 10 year old american boy would know that if you want to win over a girl you truly care about, you do NOT disappear.  This behavior only indicates that they do NOT care about how you feel. Even they contacted you before everyday, they didn't become exclusive with you , didn't they? they could have more free time, nothing better to do, saw you as a spare tire in case things don't work out with the girls they really want, or just to see if they can have quick sex with you.
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回复 12楼Starry的帖子

我第3次跟他约会的时候去BOULDER  各自填写了表格 里面有电话和地址什么的

要看他有没有心了

我有他电话 但是1个月内不打算主动联系了
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hcrab
回复 12楼Starry的帖子

我一气之下 把WHATAPP注销了
WHATAPP是2年前注册的 用的是之前的手机 现在注销后 没法恢复了
他只有我WHATAPP NUMBER
笑笑哇哈哈 发表于 11/23/2016 4:29:11 PM
楼主你这样做就叫玩消失,他那不算玩消失
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回复 14楼tncountrygal的帖子

i just cant hear from him as before
can u call this disappear?

i dont want be active
taprilg
你怎么还没想通呢,又来鲜花发了一遍,说实话你已经删了whatsapp,等于是只能看对方有没有心联系你了,真的别再一直想一直猜来折磨自己了,这样一个男人明显没有对你认真,你为了他这样根本不值得好吗,再换个date不行吗
Starry
这个明明是你在玩消失啊……你这种就是我说的端着,明明自己心里很在意,又要表现出不在意的样子……如果年轻玩玩可以,以后年纪大了可千万别这么玩了,能遇到个喜欢的人不容易,不好好努力一下对不起自己


回复12楼 Starry 的帖子
我一气之下 把WHATAPP注销了
WHATAPP是2年前注册的 用的是之前的手机 现在注销后 没法恢复了
他只有我WHATAPP NUMBER

笑笑哇哈哈 发表于 11/23/2016 4:29:00 PM
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回复 19楼Starry的帖子

but your opinion is different from others
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回复 18楼taprilg的帖子

找个喜欢的DATE真的好难
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回复 19楼Starry的帖子

是他玩消失
我用新手机号码注册了个WHATAPP
偷偷看他有没有上WHATAPP
一直没上哦
笑笑哇哈哈
幸亏我注销我那个WHATAPP  不等他信息了
不然我现在还傻傻的等他信息呢
meowl
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回复 24楼meowl的帖子

可是为啥之前都一直表现的好像很喜欢我呢
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cuzemel
别对付了啊move on,这种玩消失无论有多少借口结论都是他对你还没有那么大的兴趣。
valentinemonkey 发表于 11/23/2016 4:08:00 PM

re 男的玩消失都是没那么喜欢这个女的(未必是女的条件不好),而且没打算继续。如果再回头,女的也只是备胎而已。反过来说,女的对自己不喜欢的男的不也是直接人间蒸发。
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tncountrygal
回复 17楼笑笑哇哈哈的帖子

Please do NOT take this personal or as negative. My English is not perfect by any means. From your reply to mine, I have a feeling that English is probably not your strong suit. I can see how a guy would have difficulty connecting with you on a deeper level if they don't speak Chinese.
This is the 2nd or 3rd time I saw your posts, I want to say something because you reminded me of an old friend. Please take the word of most sisters replied to you and forget what starry said, most guys will NOT need you to work so hard or worry so much if he really cares about you, the men who don't care about you won't care about how you feel and just appear and disappear in your life as they wish, because they don't care about an end game with you, so whatever they do to you is spontaneous and not thought out, good or bad. You are reading too much into what they do or say, guys are simple, if he likes you, you will know. they will want to see you everyday if possible. they would worry about how you do when they are not around, they won't just disappear and come back when they feel like it.
you deserve much better, the only way to get the guy you want is to better yourself, when you are so amazing inside and out, he will come into your life.
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Kenilworth
如果不是广告软文,那就是尔必宣言
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回复 28楼Kenilworth的帖子

我觉得她英文很好啊
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cuzemel
幸亏我注销我那个WHATAPP  不等他信息了
不然我现在还傻傻的等他信息呢
笑笑哇哈哈 发表于 11/23/2016 4:36:48 PM
你发这帖的纠结心还不如不删whatsapp,删掉还一直想才是最蠢的。
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回复 30楼cuzemel的帖子

不删除 一直等待他永远不回发来的短信 更痛苦

我在论坛里纠结几天就OK了
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northernpike
瞎猜个啥,打个电话过去问:”你TMD是不是还想继续,就是来问一下。“
meowl
该用户帖子内容已被屏蔽
无声中沉寂
让他彻底消失。
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tlgn


网上搜了下 很多男人都玩消失的把戏 就是DATE几次 明显感到对方很喜欢你 天天联系你 突然就CANT HEAR FROM HIM ANYMORE了
网上的答案说他们要么是试探你想PULL BACK, 要么是太忙了, 要么是同时约太多 忙不过来 ,要么是找了个更好的没勇气和你说再见 ,要么就是享受BE A CHASER而已 ,要么就是太INTO你了 但目前不想谈感情 所以选个不怎么CARE的女人玩玩而已。

怎么对方这样的行为呢?因为实在是太伤人了  遇到2次了
有高招的姐妹吗? 以后防止类似事情发生
笑笑哇哈哈 发表于 11/23/2016 4:05:18 PM

都消失了你还对付个啥。难道静静的吊死在他门口不成。
winnieyan
要他有多远滚多远
taprilg
完全同意这个MM说的,怎么楼主你就是听不进去呢,一直纠结人家头几天对你热情是怎么回事有什么意义啊,反正说到底就是不够喜欢你不在乎你,不然怎么会消失呢,这么简单的事情你真是钻了牛角尖了


回复17楼笑笑哇哈哈的帖子
Please do NOT take this personal or as negative. My English is not perfect by any means. From your reply to mine, I have a feeling that English is probably not your strong suit. I can see how a guy would have difficulty connecting with you on a deeper level if they don't speak Chinese.
This is the 2nd or 3rd time I saw your posts, I want to say something because you reminded me of an old friend. Please take the word of most sisters replied to you and forget what starry said, most guys will NOT need you to work so hard or worry so much if he really cares about you, the men who don't care about you won't care about how you feel and just appear and disappear in your life as they wish, because they don't care about an end game with you, so whatever they do to you is spontaneous and not thought out, good or bad. You are reading too much into what they do or say, guys are simple, if he likes you, you will know. they will want to see you everyday if possible. they would worry about how you do when they are not around, they won't just disappear and come back when they feel like it.
you deserve much better, the only way to get the guy you want is to better yourself, when you are so amazing inside and out, he will come into your life.

tncountrygal 发表于 11/23/2016 4:44:00 PM
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aliciazhao
当然是一发现苗头不对,赶在他前面玩消失。。。(哦哦,当然不是玩消失,是真的消失。。。。。)
冰是睡着的水
对这种人,你认真你就输了,,,,
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saison
男人没资格玩消失的,这么玩一次就出局
rainysunny
当他死了

情深缘浅
明显感觉对方喜欢你,可能是错觉哦。天天联系你,可能是准备当备胎,结果后来遇到他更喜欢得了呗。lz不必想不开,这样节约时间啊。如果你们谈了很久,他遇到更喜欢的,不是更耽误你
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imbella
有啥好对付的,直接move on,何必那么cheap呢
不小心给忘了a
。。。男的也会玩消失??
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hippogirl
只有一个原因:he's not that into you。放弃
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woshibaoer
明显感觉对方喜欢你说明对方情商很高, 很会让你感觉舒服。不主动联系就是不想继续了呗, 难道约3-4次就exclusive了吗? 菇凉你不是应该还有其他dates排着吗?为啥要等这个。

还有, 能让你一下很喜欢的说明你配不上。一般和你匹配的男生你一开始都不会很喜欢。这是事实。看清点吧。
白菜87
就是个date, 没必要给你什么交代吧,人好的说个理由,人不够好的直接就不联络了。
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Kenilworth
四大错觉:工资要涨,房价要降,他喜欢我,这是真相。