I'm not arguing about that point. I don't think they were very close either. But I just don't agree with the statement that "是真闺蜜 就不会绝交 in this case" statement.
I only tell things to others that I won't mind if they share with someone else. haha. And I always assume they will, at the minimum to their significant others.
I'm not arguing about that point. I don't think they were very close either. But I just don't agree with the statement that "是真闺蜜 就不会绝交 in this case" statement.
I don't see a problem with sharing what my friends tell me with my lg, just like I won't mind if my close friends tell their spouses what I have told them. I already assume they will since I also assume they are far closer to their spouses than to me. I also trust my lg will not tell others about what I tell him about my friends.
I don't see a problem with sharing what my friends tell me with my lg, just like I won't mind if my close friends tell their spouses what I have told them. I already assume they will since I also assume they are far closer to their spouses than to me. I also trust my lg will not tell others about what I tell him about my friends.
I'm not arguing about that point. I don't think they were very close either. But I just don't agree with the statement that
"是真闺蜜 就不会绝交 in this case" statement.
MM的性格很直，和我倒是蛮像，我自己也是属于说了就不怕别人知道和judge的那种
People do change, how happens if she changes to someone who is completely the opposite of 她之前的为人处世?
I am not the type "我的闺蜜就是杀人放火我都会窝藏的".
你也别老纠结闺蜜了， 这不还有A的经历这个大背景么。 说老实话，就算不是闺蜜，听了整个故事，很多人可能就是一声叹息。
hahaha 那倒是 但是老见吐槽闺蜜和闺蜜绝交的 不见不要老公的 来吐槽了老公 网友跟着批评 然后百般维护老公的倒是挺多
My lg is my best friend and soulmate, I have no problems in telling him everything.
你也不是她的什么闺蜜。
你们就是在人生的某个时期玩在一起。
I only tell things to others that I won't mind if they share with someone else. haha. And I always assume they will, at the minimum to their significant others.
我一直觉得闺蜜应该是那种特别特别亲密的好友，是能两肋插刀的那种才能叫闺蜜
你说的第一种情况，信任对方的为人，替对方着想怎么样会对她比较好，一般好朋友，有一点感情基础的都能做到吧
lz这个情况只是普通朋友，没有感情基础的，既然只是普通朋友，就更不必伤怀了，抛之脑后就行了
哈哈，你引用前面那个mm的话是吧，我也不是这个type呀。
是会change，而且也会帮啊帮啊，帮不动了，就疏远了。这都很正常啊。
我们讨论的最初点是 “回帖的人有没有不同意楼主跟A绝交”，你说有，我说没有。 但这个命题现在已经被你变成 “真闺蜜能不能绝交了”。。
一字不拉的说了我想说的
★ 发自Android 华人阅览器 7.2
Re.
恩，大家也没说支持她三别人呀，说真闺蜜就帮助她的，也是说改变她三的状态。 只是没支持楼主上来发帖而已。
Haha, my bad. Typical of me.
拎不清轻重吧，不善于替人着想吧
别人家都家破人亡了，还鄙视着别人今天没有扶老人过马路不是个好青年
LOL
哈哈，聊天灌水吗～ 不会用小猴子，我也作个揖～
我老公也是我最好的朋友，但是我朋友的隐私我不会和自己老公说。我和我老公很多共同语言，没必要拿朋友做话题。
真闺密劝不通也会绝交吧
但是真闺密我觉得不会象lz那样上来就去说你这样不道德，你想想wsn的大肚子老婆多可怜，这么论断性的话说出来，就不是劝，是教育了，把陌生人的问题放在她之前，立马拉开了距离，已经不是闺密了
真闺密会从朋友的立场出发劝她这样对自己多么有害，比如不道德这个角度，可以跟好朋友说，你想想这些事情传出去，不了解你本身为人的人怎么看你？你的名声坏掉，以后。。。。这样陌生男人来来去去，你孩子会受影响，。。。。这些人都是些ws的。。。。对孩子。。。。
那些都不够格称作闺蜜吧，这个词实在是已经用滥了
I don't see a problem with sharing what my friends tell me with my lg, just like I won't mind if my close friends tell their spouses what I have told them. I already assume they will since I also assume they are far closer to their spouses than to me. I also trust my lg will not tell others about what I tell him about my friends.
性格不同吧，我老公对别人隐私也没兴趣。
Re. Geez this is the first time I agree with so many of your comments. haha.
我老公对别人隐私也没兴趣 but I just like to share with him. Sometimes I had to force him to listen to me. haha.
所以说性格不同嘛，不知道为啥要强迫老公听朋友的隐私。
No reason, just like it that way.
闺密我一直认为是闺中密友的缩写，不知道为啥现在常用蜜字，这个蜜字我看了很不舒服。。。因为联想到小蜜
好了不跑题，闺密我觉得是比好朋友更好的关系，是发小加最好的朋友，，，一个人能有一个两个闺密不错了，又要有缘从小结识长期相处，又要投缘。。。我的朋友大部分是大学时代认识的，那个时候三观已经初具规模，朋友是自己选的。。。闺密则是自己还懵懂的时候，命运安排的
lz这个，连好朋友都算不上。。。
I have many 发小加好朋友, but I won't call them 闺密.
Re, 普通人就算不是闺密, 甚至连朋友都不是, 听到她的遭遇也会觉得她是个迷失的可怜人, 不会在网上这样申讨八卦她.
大道理大家都讲了，不赘述了。
纯好奇，怎么有些人这么义愤填膺，这么强代入感。好好说话不行么，非像个乌鸡眼似的，没完没了地大放厥词。