don't know what to say. just feel lucky to grow up in a normal family. Our neighbor, my high school teacher also aggressively started her relationship with her husband because he used to be a very handsome man. So she got what she wanted and married him. However, the husband worked in city and she worked in 郊区。as agreed before marriage, she lived with senior parents-in-law. This old couple were both unhealthy and screamed multiple times a day. I can't understand how she could live with them for so many years with her husband visiting her once a week. Anyway, she also took care of their young boy. The boy is an extremely smart boy. However, living under such strange environment, he finally turned into a very quiet young man. I don't know if the couple divorced. But the older brother-in-law had a huge fight with my teacher when I was in high school. Then she moved back to live with her parents. About 10 years ago, when I last saw her, she was still living with her parents and the boy was ready to go to Germany. So I guess she divorced. This gave me a big lesson: 别主动追你男朋友！
你觉得他像OCPD吗？Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder 具体如下 1Is preoccupied with details, rules, lists, order, organization, or schedules to the extent that the major point of the activity is lost. 2Shows perfectionism that interferes with task completion (e.g., is unable to complete a project because his or her own overly strict standards are not met). 3Is excessively devoted to work and productivity to the exclusion of leisure activities and friendships (not accounted for by obvious economic necessity). 4Is overconscientious, scrupulous, and inflexible about matters of morality, ethics, or values (not accounted for by cultural or religious identification). 5.Is unable to discard worn-out or worthless objects even when they have no sentimental value. 6.Is reluctant to delegate tasks or to work with others unless they submit to exactly his or her way of doing things. 7.Adopts a miserly spending style toward both self and others; money is viewed as something to be hoarded for future catastrophes. 8.Shows rigidity and stubbornness. handsugar 发表于 4/2/2014 10:05:29 AM 我去，这个好像我妈
我也糊涂了，学校收学费杂费，也可以压岁钱，或找妈妈要啊
前面有解释，因为那个时候压岁钱上交了。后来不上交以后就没有这方面的困扰了
re！！！唉 ，再次证明越不受待见的小孩长大反而孝顺
不然他看不上你妈，也不至于非结婚不可啊。 而且他也犯不着恨自己的女儿啊。
看到这我倒有一些理解你爹的性格了。可能他从小的家庭就是那种没什么温暖的（不是说你爷爷奶奶虐待他，而是老一辈的中国人确实相对不太会表达亲情和善意），他性格又比较拗，喜欢听那种比较含蓄委婉的话，家里人讲话不中听的话，他对周围的亲人就比较冷血。你妈妈说话是不是也比较直接啊？
愿mm以后的生活幸福
I agree
Can not release their anger
我同意这个观点。毕竟是自己的亲生父亲，再差劲也不可能完全不理。只能怪自己不会投胎。他惹你你就冷他一段时间好了，另外没事少联系。我还想说，你爸心理疾病不轻，以后少打交道
haha
lol 太犀利太火爆了
要是我肯定老死不相往来
I can't understand how she could live with them for so many years with her husband visiting her once a week. Anyway, she also took care of their young boy. The boy is an extremely smart boy. However, living under such strange environment, he finally turned into a very quiet young man.
I don't know if the couple divorced. But the older brother-in-law had a huge fight with my teacher when I was in high school. Then she moved back to live with her parents.
About 10 years ago, when I last saw her, she was still living with her parents and the boy was ready to go to Germany. So I guess she divorced.
This gave me a big lesson: 别主动追你男朋友！
我们小时候是压岁钱都要隔天上交的。我姐姐有一次花掉了，被痛打痛骂好久。
现在我自己长大了，真觉得不能理解。不就一点小钱嘛，一年才一次，至于要
让全家气氛不好这么久。人活着是为钱还是为别的。
你的父母真的只知道生孩子，不知道如何养育孩子。
自己亲爹就忍了吧
子欲养而亲不待
我现在最后悔就是没有见到爸爸最后一面
每个爹都是不一样的好吧？
lz那样的爹不是一般人，只能远离。
别给自己找罪受，他根本没把你当女儿
lz前面说了个绝壁，我猜是帝都。
为啥要忍啊，没报复都不错了。
真不敢相信你会说出这种话，虽然你父亲去世了你很难过，大家也能理解，但是你也不能就因为自己对父亲的歉久就把LZ往火坑里推。
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而且人是会被影响的 不知道你看过金锁记没有 老是跟不正常的人来往 自己也会受到影响
我老板有这个病。。。我要尽快辞职
换了我是楼主，自己过得好好的，和他们离的远远的，天下并不是所有的父母都爱自己孩子的
对呀， LZ妈妈给了那么多钱， LZ怎么还说妈妈不好？
你们爬楼不仔细，LZ前面解释过了，妈妈给钱是初中之后的事了，后来她没再为交学费愁了。