How are you doing? How is your week going? I am really sorry that I have not been around much since you started. I am looking forward to being in the office together next week. Is there anything I can help you with right now?
以下是引用urbeautiful在5/5/2012 8:00:00 PM的发言： In most cases, if a guy hasn't asked you out officially in 7 month, ...........you know what it means so true. he is not that into you.
I believe s really like u. But for some reason he cant ever ask u out for a date. Maybe he is a career men he put career before u. As u said yourself it's forbidden having romantic relationship between co workers. That's probably why s chooses to leave without ever explaining to you. Because he can't. He likes you but he still put career development in priority.
yes, I think S likes lz a lot. But he might like himself much more! 以下是引用bistrofes在5/5/2012 8:19:00 PM的发言：
I believe s really like u. But for some reason he cant ever ask u out for a date. Maybe he is a career men he put career before u. As u said yourself it's forbidden having romantic relationship between co workers. That's probably why s chooses to leave without ever explaining to you. Because he can't. He likes you but he still put career development in priority.
以下是引用urbeautiful在5/5/2012 8:22:00 PM的发言： yes, I think S likes lz a lot. But he might like himself much more!
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so true. and, he might like LZ, or he might just flirt to get fun for his life, or he might just play to get LZ laid. whatever it is, he definately likes himself much more. [此贴子已经被作者于2012/5/5 20:42:37编辑过]
吐槽帖子，不小心发错了地方到职场伊人，感觉不对，转移到心有千千结，求大家拍醒。 －－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－ 去年焦头烂额地找工作，好不容易拿到一个电话面试，我dream的公司和行业。面试我的对方是个年轻的小伙子，声音很有磁性，对方似乎对我的经历和学历都感兴趣，但是非常concern我是否愿意搬去那个中西部偏远的农村。于是他说，如果你不愿意住在公司所在的地方，公司旁边有几个中型城市，很多人住在那几个城市，每天上班跑通勤；甚至公司在XX市有办公室，我们也可以考虑远距离工作。 我就问了一下对方”where do you live?” 对方回答“I live in town”. “Then I will stay at where you are.” 其实，我的意思是，我愿意和领导在一起工作，如果领导在农村，那么我就不会考虑到base在XX市。没想到对方很久地沉默了一阵。对方接着问我“if you don’t mind, would you mind telling me whether you are married?” 我有点傻了，这样的问题不是不应该在面试中出现吗？于是我老老实实地回答说”I am single, so I am pretty flexible in relocation and travelling for work. “ 对方笑了一下，说” I am single too. “ 我心中一震，如果他问我是否有家庭，是考虑到我moving 和relocation的话，那么他告诉我自己也是单身，是很没有必要的？他为什么要这么说为什么要这么说？接下来就是一般的客套了，他说，过两天听消息吧，我们还有几个人要面试，不过本周末会给你答复。 结束了电话面试，我规规矩矩发了个thank note过去，一般来说，这种面试后的thank note就是石沉大海，面试官不会理你的。然而5分钟后，我收到了他的回复，“it was very nice to speak with you. Thank you for your time. We will try to make a decision this weekend. If you have any time, don’t hesitate to ask me. I look forward to seeing you soon. “ 当时心里这个高兴啊，这是板上定钉要给我on site interview 了。
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我看到downstairs，会想到酒店一楼。
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我没有对david有过如此的激情。
这几天楼主郁闷到极点。S就这样消失了。
楼主给David打电话，诉说与绿眼睛帅哥的郁闷。David 承诺下周来看楼主，从澳大利亚。
David已经在西雅图了，在朋友家。
你告诉他你喜欢S了？不怕他吃醋吗？？
明明是你总在调戏ｓ啊
楼主八品真好， 一下一大段。
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我没有对david有过如此的激情。
这几天楼主郁闷到极点。S就这样消失了。
楼主给David打电话，诉说与绿眼睛帅哥的郁闷。David 承诺下周来看楼主，从澳大利亚。
David已经在西雅图了，在朋友家。
有钱真好~
我不知道他是不是喜欢我？所以我纠结。他就这么悄悄的迅速的走了，哦犹如我们从未见过面。留下我一个人天天哭，天天哭。
打算在这里找个树洞，把这8个月发生的一切都倒出来都倒出来，从此我就move on, 再也不要纠结下去了。
竟然走了？继续看了
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It seems like that you two both are flirting with each other. I guess you two will have sex soon.
No. it seems ending with nothing happened. that's the reason LZ is so upset here...............
以下是引用wohoy在5/5/2012 6:48:00 PM的发言：
No. it seems ending with nothing happened. that's the reason LZ is so upset here...............
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事后，我告诉David 我和S的这段对话。
David嘎嘎大笑，说Binbin啊，你可真猛，你啪的就接上，that's why you hired me. 你让他情以何堪啊。
David好大方啊 还能帮你分析
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明明是你总在调戏ｓ啊
是啊 lz是高手
这次是棋逢对手
这时候，S突然说“Binbin, 问你个问题好吗？”
“你随便问吧”
“你们中国人怎么看，中国人和白人结婚或者和黑人结婚？"
偶回答到“过去中国的家庭还是很保守的，所以家长不支持子女与外族通婚。现在中国社会开放多了，但是和黑人结婚还是很大的challenge. 但是中国男人和什么颜色结婚都无所谓，中国还是个男权社会，所以对男人要宽容很多”。
其实我知道，S想知道的是中国女人是否会和白人或者黑人结婚。
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怎么觉得lz暗示s比较多呀？虽然lz不是有意的，也许是因为语言的问题，说出的话很有firlt的意思呢！
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这事情我现在都没琢磨明白。
早上起床，收拾行囊，忽然意识到楼主需要把行李放在车后的trunk里，而钥匙还在S手上。
7点钟，楼主给S打电话，S当时肯定在健身房，于是楼主电话留言，要钥匙放行李。
7点半，S回了楼主的电话，"Hey Binbin, Sorry I missed your call. I was in the gym. I have the key now. You can come downstairs. I will give you the key"
楼主问，"When"
"Now! I just came back from the gym. Yeah, downstairs".
楼主就想着，这个downstairs是哪里？楼主记得第一天S告诉楼主他的房间号是425，正好在楼主的楼下，那么这个downstairs肯定是他房间了。
LZ真的太入戏了， 我怎么都想不到是他房间的， 觉得还是LZ多情了点。 好象是你入戏太深了。
小声说我觉得lz有点自己春心荡漾哦，人家只是以为你着急要钥匙，找到房间来才不正常吧嘿嘿
同意哦/
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第一次写这么长的东西。
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nice story
Don't let him think that you are easy.
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不行了，楼主体力支持不住了。朋友给打电话，推荐了一个正在出售的房子。
楼主看房子去了。
请大家多多留言。难道他说I like asian women. 这还不算暗示吗？
他在这么一个私密的空间，就我们两个人，就抛出这样一句话，还不算暗示吗？
算啊算啊，可是你不是装傻逃避了这个问题？lz快点8, 我支持你
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S给楼主发的email, 总是有一种professional closeness. 很是暧昧，比如这个：
“ Hi Binbin!
How are you doing? How is your week going? I am really sorry that I have not been around much since you started. I am looking forward to being in the office together next week. Is there anything I can help you with right now?
Have a great day.
Thanks,
S"
我怎么没看出什么暧昧，会不会是mm自己多想了。。。。
In most cases, if a guy hasn't asked you out officially in 7 month, ...........you know what it means
so true. he is not that into you.
第一次在华人上发帖，幸亏是华人啊，真宽容。
如果不小心去了MITbbs估计会被wsn们骂死。
哈哈。其实三岁的差距还行。
以下是引用bistrofes在5/5/2012 8:19:00 PM的发言：
I believe s really like u. But for some reason he cant ever ask u out for a date. Maybe he is a career men he put career before u. As u said yourself it's forbidden having romantic relationship between co workers. That's probably why s chooses to leave without ever explaining to you. Because he can't. He likes you but he still put career development in priority.
估计s也就是flirt， 想搞下刺激，超级自恋的人不会很早又settle down的想法的
美国小孩子，有点儿这个意思，而且没有见过什么中国人吧
但是，也说不定就合适
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楼主多大了，怎么还像个情窦初开的小姑娘捏，我觉得很多时候是s,无意的动作吧～～～ 楼主想太多了。
i have the same feeling. What s has done is pretty normal to me. Not hints as LZ thought.
yes, I think S likes lz a lot. But he might like himself much more!
so true.
and, he might like LZ, or he might just flirt to get fun for his life, or he might just play to get LZ laid. whatever it is, he definately likes himself much more.
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觉得写的有点肉麻，文字不是我的style。还有见过好多人夸她们白男友帅啥的，其实就是一普通白男。
还见过更多人夸她们中国人男友帅啥的，其实有的连普通都算不上。。。情人眼里出西施嘛，跟种族无关
以下是引用COOCO在5/5/2012 8:42:00 PM的发言：
so true.
and, he might like LZ, or he might just flirt to get fun for his life, or he might just play to get LZ laid. whatever it is, he definately likes himself much more.
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吐槽帖子，不小心发错了地方到职场伊人，感觉不对，转移到心有千千结，求大家拍醒。
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去年焦头烂额地找工作，好不容易拿到一个电话面试，我dream的公司和行业。面试我的对方是个年轻的小伙子，声音很有磁性，对方似乎对我的经历和学历都感兴趣，但是非常concern我是否愿意搬去那个中西部偏远的农村。于是他说，如果你不愿意住在公司所在的地方，公司旁边有几个中型城市，很多人住在那几个城市，每天上班跑通勤；甚至公司在XX市有办公室，我们也可以考虑远距离工作。 我就问了一下对方”where do you live?” 对方回答“I live in town”. “Then I will stay at where you are.” 其实，我的意思是，我愿意和领导在一起工作，如果领导在农村，那么我就不会考虑到base在XX市。没想到对方很久地沉默了一阵。对方接着问我“if you don’t mind, would you mind telling me whether you are married?” 我有点傻了，这样的问题不是不应该在面试中出现吗？于是我老老实实地回答说”I am single, so I am pretty flexible in relocation and travelling for work. “ 对方笑了一下，说” I am single too. “ 我心中一震，如果他问我是否有家庭，是考虑到我moving 和relocation的话，那么他告诉我自己也是单身，是很没有必要的？他为什么要这么说为什么要这么说？接下来就是一般的客套了，他说，过两天听消息吧，我们还有几个人要面试，不过本周末会给你答复。
结束了电话面试，我规规矩矩发了个thank note过去，一般来说，这种面试后的thank note就是石沉大海，面试官不会理你的。然而5分钟后，我收到了他的回复，“it was very nice to speak with you. Thank you for your time. We will try to make a decision this weekend. If you have any time, don’t hesitate to ask me. I look forward to seeing you soon. “ 当时心里这个高兴啊，这是板上定钉要给我on site interview 了。
没想到，狗血剧情从此开始。大半年过去了，直到现在我也没整明白。
这句话真是太FLIRT了。有时说者英文不好，意思表达错误。但听者并不一定知道LZ原本想表达别的意思，他以为LZ是真心想和他FLIRT。大男孩脾气一上来，就FLIRT BACK了。