This is how it is to be Asian…Minding our business, waiting for the ? at Tottenham Court Road and this guy just randomly SHOUTED ‘Konichiwa’ to us… I asked him ‘what did you say to me’ and he proceeds to repeat it and walks away (You can’t just do that and get away with being rude) thats when I started recording.
If you’re not Asian you might not have experienced this but *shouting* or saying ‘Konichiwa’/‘Ni Hao’ is ignorant and disrespectful as you’re generalising Asians into one!
Also, to those that defend him about being ‘polite’. Please look at his attitude if he was trying to be ‘polite’ he would first of all not shout and second when he saw I was offended after asking what he said to me, he should’ve just apologised like most people would (not say some story about business in HK). Lastly, who walks away after being ‘polite and shouting ‘hello’.
FYI I’m also Filipino. I’m hoping to raise awareness and let people know this is rude, insensitive and ignorant. So please don’t do it, just mind your own business or say hello considering we are in LONDON!
善意的打招呼,戏谑的微侵犯,两者之间的区别其实挺明显的。
最近,一位在地铁站用打招呼的方式搞种族歧视的美国男子,引起了互联网公愤。
这件事儿是由一位id名叫@exposingpeople848的女生上传视频曝光的(以下简称为E),她是菲律宾人。
看E的主页,只和这件事有关,是真的非常生气了...
事情发生在伦敦市中心的托特纳姆法院路(Tottenham Court Road)地铁站点。当时,这名男子从E身边经过,莫名其妙冲她喊了一句“こんにちは(你好)”,便和同伴窃笑着走开了。
觉得被冒犯的E马上打开手机的录像功能,疾走追上了男子,问他:你刚刚对我说什么?
男子被叫住后,有点小吃惊,但更多的是不耐烦。他直直盯着E,问:你想干嘛?
在发觉E开了摄像头以后,他的表情柔和了一些,然后支支吾吾解释:我...我我...
想了好几秒,他说自己是在中国香港做生意的,让E别再跟着自己。(我想说,他的女伴注视E的眼神也让人很不舒服,很轻蔑的感觉)
在中国香港做生意,为什么要用日语跟亚裔打招呼,而且是以一种非常轻佻的态度?
E还是觉得很不爽,追着男子问:哦,我现在是在香港吗?我在香港?你到底在哪里工作?
到这里,男子似乎有点忍无可忍、原形毕露了。他烦躁地冲E摆手,一直想打发她走,嘴里还说:我对你已经够礼貌了,我只是在跟你说话,麻烦你走开,别跟着我。
从这个打发人的手势,也能看出他满满的高傲。
可以戳这里看原视频↓
视频目前已经有600多万的观看量了。E在发布这个视频时,还配了一段无奈的文。
这就是亚洲人的日常。
如果你不是亚洲人,你可能没有经历过这种情况。大喊大叫,或是对着我们说“空你几哇”、“你好”,都是无知和不尊重的,因为这是把亚洲人概括为一个人。
还有,那些为他“礼貌”辩护的人。请看看他的态度,如果他试图“礼貌”,他首先不会大喊大叫,其次,当他看到我在问他对我说了什么之后被冒犯了,他应该像大多数人一样道歉(而不是说一些关于香港商业的故事)。最后,谁会在礼貌地喊了声“你好”后走开?
顺便说一句,我是菲律宾人。我希望提高人们的意识,让人们知道这是粗鲁、麻木和无知的。上下滑动查看原文↓
This is how it is to be Asian…Minding our business, waiting for the ? at Tottenham Court Road and this guy just randomly SHOUTED ‘Konichiwa’ to us… I asked him ‘what did you say to me’ and he proceeds to repeat it and walks away (You can’t just do that and get away with being rude) thats when I started recording.
If you’re not Asian you might not have experienced this but *shouting* or saying ‘Konichiwa’/‘Ni Hao’ is ignorant and disrespectful as you’re generalising Asians into one!
Also, to those that defend him about being ‘polite’. Please look at his attitude if he was trying to be ‘polite’ he would first of all not shout and second when he saw I was offended after asking what he said to me, he should’ve just apologised like most people would (not say some story about business in HK). Lastly, who walks away after being ‘polite and shouting ‘hello’.
FYI I’m also Filipino. I’m hoping to raise awareness and let people know this is rude, insensitive and ignorant. So please don’t do it, just mind your own business or say hello considering we are in LONDON!
热度飙升的背后,是网友们深有同感的愤怒。
和E一样,大家都觉得这人蛮离谱。
“我在香港有生意”,却对一个亚洲人说日语,尽管这个人可能不是日本人,也不是中国人。他在那里没有学过中文?
但是,这事儿还没完。
不像之前,我们在评论区声讨这人一番,整件事儿就翻篇了。
后续是,这男的底裤都快被扒掉了
他的名字叫蒂莫西·马龙 (Timothy Malone) ,上班的公司是Polyfair Holdings,的确是一家香港公司。
他在里面的职位是运营经理。
2018年蒂莫西肇事逃逸,蹲了9个月监狱,还上了新闻。(因为在这之前他已经有4次酒驾记录了...)
出狱后,他被吊销了驾照。
然后!大 的 来 了!
E发布的这个视频,里面与他十字相扣的女子,根本不是他的老婆!
先是有网友说她是西班牙伊比利航空公司的空姐,比蒂莫西小12岁,名叫卡门·尤恩西亚(Carmen Ioancea)。
然后有网友说不对,她两年前就辞职了,现在在伦敦摄政大学念书。
人们一边疯狂艾特伊比利航空公司,一边在积极传播该视频,希望Polyfair的HR能够看见。
于是这俩人现在一个关掉了自己的领英主页,一个关掉了自己的ins。妥妥的社死...
所以说啊,成年人出门在外,真的该谨言慎行。
不尊重他人,有时候是真的会付出代价的。