You can talk about where you see yourself going in the future, that's part of getting to know each other but don't talk about a future together. That's like a lot for a first date.
第五、平衡聊自己和询问对方
Balance between talking about yourself and asking about them.
博主表示，“不要只讲自己，也不要不讲自己”，要平衡问对方问题和回答问题。
Don't only talk about yourself but also don't not talk about yourself. It's a balance between asking questions and also answering.
两位外国博主小姐姐在视频中分享她们的恋爱技巧，她们总结了“第一次约会不要做的事”（First Date Don’ts），聊了聊她们心中两人第一次见面约会（dating）时，需要避雷的事和行为，引发不少网友点赞和讨论。
来看看博主的总结。
第一、第一次约会别去看电影
Don't go to a movie.
博主表示，第一次约会去看电影的话，两个仍旧陌生的人没法交流，无法了解彼此。“这是很糟糕的第一次约会，完全没有意义。”
Going to a movie you can't talk. You can't get to know each other. It's a horrible first date. It's just pointless.
第二、不要太亲密 进展太快
Too Touchy Too Fast
博主认为，第一次约会不要太快有肢体接触，这会让人感觉不舒服。“即使你不是变态，给人感觉也很像。”
Don't get too touchy too fast. It just comes off wrong. And even if you're not a creeper, it kind of feels like that.
第三、不要聊前任
Don't talk about your ex.
博主说，“如果你被问到，那当然你要诚实回答，但是不要整个约会都在聊这些。”
If you're directly asked, obviously be honest. But don't spend the date talking about that.
第四、不要急着讨论未来
Don't rush into talking about the future.
博主表示，你可以谈谈你对未来的期望，这能让两人更了解彼此，但不要聊两人一起的未来。“第一次约会讲这些会让人受不了，聊这个真的太早了。”
You can talk about where you see yourself going in the future, that's part of getting to know each other but don't talk about a future together. That's like a lot for a first date.
第五、平衡聊自己和询问对方
Balance between talking about yourself and asking about them.
博主表示，“不要只讲自己，也不要不讲自己”，要平衡问对方问题和回答问题。
Don't only talk about yourself but also don't not talk about yourself. It's a balance between asking questions and also answering.
看完博主的建议，有外国网友评论表示，“说得很中肯。”
“我就有过几次约会都踩雷了，都没有继续下去。”
“是不是还应该加一条：不要老看手机。”
不过也有网友表示不同意博主说的：“有意思，我就做了你们说的所有的事，现在我们已经结婚了。”
还有中国网友看后分享了自己的看法↓
你认为第一次约会不要做什么？留言分享你的想法和经验吧！
来源：TikTok@mackandmadds